I'm not looking for The One.
I have him. And I'm incredibly happy with that in all ways.
But bdsm isn't his thing. And I believe that it is very much mine.
What I am looking for is a mentor. A very discreet mentor.
I'm looking for confidence, but not arrogance. For openness
but not flagrance.
I'm looking for a very deep, compassionate friendship in which both
parties can fully trust the other, but without the drama that comes with
letting the heart get too involved.
I'm after fondness. Creativity. Intellect.
I'm incredibly picky who I spend my time with.
I'm probably not for your average person.
Submission doesn't come naturally. I spend all day mentoring others,
directing them in what to do, and handing out discipline.
Things that drive me crazy, in a great way:
-Physicians. In any capacity.
-A solid grasp of grammar and correct spelling.
-Writers. Artists. Good writers and artists. As a fellow writer,
I hold a very demanding standard for what "good" means.
-Mental fuckery. I am paid to be great at what I do- which is
convincing people to do what I ask them to do. It is nearly impossible
to find someone who is impervious to this ability. And I'm not looking for
someone who wants to call everything a bluff and beat the shit out of me.
I'm after the Dom that can look me in the eye with a smile and know
*exactly* what game I'm playing.
- Like I mentioned....I'm not great at submission. I don't buy the bdsm game from
most people who try to play it. It takes a great deal of mental composure to truly
command another person. But I take delight in resistance. In attitude. If that's a
challenge you feel capable of accepting, by all means...I'd love to hear from you.