I am an African American Dominant with 25 years R/L experience looking PRIMARILY for submissive females (married or single) or couples (no single guys).

I am experienced in training submissives and enjoy CONTROL as well as Bondage, Torture, Discipline and most everything else. I do respect limits and enjoy getting a submissive to open herself up to me, revealing ALL that is within her.

I am still seeking and wish to find one that wishes to learn and share. I especially enjoy the mental aspects of D/s, getting into a sub's mind, helping her learn about herself and her submission, to help her accept it and herself, and to embrace what and who she truly is.

I am here looking for friends and submissives to enlarge my circle of friends. I am easy going but that does not mean I can't take charge. In fact I can do so very well as control is one thing I enjoy a great deal. I like to laugh and enjoy telling jokes and teasing others (but not in a demeaning way). I enjoy music, preferring jazz, but also like the spectrum from oldies and Country/Western and classical.

When it comes to memorable scenes, there are too many to mention here. But one of the elements that is always involved is my love of intensity and becoming a part of the sub when she gets to that place where nothing exists except her and I... When she is literally open to anything I wish, want or desire. It is there I wish to take a sub, to that thing that has been called sub-space.

I do have one pet peeve and that concern is insincerity. When it comes to anger, it has no place in D/s. A Dominant is supposed to be in control and as such he needs to always be aware of his emotions and as such he should head things off BEFORE it gets anger. I am not saying that I am perfect and that I never get angry, but I do my best to head things off before they get to that point (and FYI) when I do get angry I tend to get quiet.

I have one expectation of a sub and it is that she does her best. I am for real and I expect her to be. This does not mean that she has to always succeed in what she does for me, as I know that no one is perfect, I just wish to encourage her to put her best foot forward and to do her best.