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Hetero Male Submissive, 30,
Loop, Chicago, Illinois
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| Although I am a sub, please do not be confused. I am a strong-willed, intelligent, driven man with a life of my own. In play situations, I have very few boundaries but discretion is of utmost importance to me. Into most things, but paying my hard-earned money for a woman's attention is not one of them. I am clean, healthy, and believe in honesty. I expect the same. As long as those few demands are met, I am willing to do whatever is necessary to please the woman in my life.
I am a recent college grad with a BS in Architecture as well as an Army veteran with 2 deployments to Iraq under my belt. I'm able to have fun doing pretty much whatever. Cubs/Packers/Bulls/Hawks/Fire fan. My summers are reserved for the beach, motorcycles, shopping, fishing and I spend my winters hunting and snowboarding. I also appreciate cultural experiences including museums, concerts, and the like. I enjoy volunteering for worthwhile causes and participate in various events around the city including random 5Ks. I was Founder and 2-time President of a student organization and sat on the Board of Directors for another non-profit. I have pretty diverse interests and appreciate the same in women.
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ChicagoKid
Submissive Male
Loop, Chicago Illinois 6' 0" 175 lbs 30
Hetero
Caucasian
05/28/12
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Actively Seeking:
Dominant Female
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Agnosticism Bar Hopping Fine Dining Fishing Movies (Expert) Museums Shopping (Expert) Travel Bicycling Being allowed to beg you for things Being blindfolded You tying me up Being allowed to wear your collar Being allowed to see you in corsetry Being gagged by you Hair Pulling You putting me on a leash You deciding what I wear You treating me like your butler Rubber Fetish Sensory Play Being allowed to use a vibrator on you TV Sports Body Art Tattoos Intellectual Discourse Libertarian Politics Baseball Football Snowboarding Art Galleries Coffee Shops Going to the Opera Volunteerism Camping Hiking Hunting Running Scuba Diving (Beginner) Walking (Expert) Weightlifting Being allowed to see your breasts You disciplining me with a cane You punishing my gentials Local BDSM Community (Beginner) Being allowed to do all of the housework Being humiliated by you You deciding when I'm allowed sexual pleasure Sensation Play You binding me with plastic wrap Role Playing Being spanked by you Being allowed to see you in stockings |
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supposedly they were giving out free blowjobs to veterans yesterday... where was mine? how disappointing... |
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fantastic lunch date... its so refreshing to know that there is more than one real, live person on here that doesn't suck... great motivation to actually start to explore the social side of lifestyle... overall, a great experience... |
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So as dismissive as it may sound for a sub, it has become apparent to me that the lack of any clear photos of a supposed Domme indicate either a complete lack of self-esteem or a completely false identity. I understand the need for discretion but if you are unwilling to at least present yourself to the world in a manner consistent with the way you *describe* yourself, odds are its a false persona. I understand that I may not have the most revealing photos on my profile but that is as a function of the need to maintain a certain public perception as well as an understanding that, in all likelihood, my cock is relatively unimportant in the scope of this lifestyle. My purpose is to serve a Domme that deems me worthy but, in contrast, as a submissive, I do not necessarily require the strong self-perception that a true Domme requires. If you are truly a dominant person sexually, you should have no issue with owning your appearance, even if that means maintaining a level of anonymity whilst doing so. In the end, I guess my point is that, if you are unwilling to actually provide pictures of yourself, either face shots or body shots, you probably lack the required self-esteem to be considered an ACTUAL Domme. Just my observations... |
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so apparently fate has a cruel sense of humor... trying to get a lil more healthy so have cut alcohol and lattes out of my diet and started biking more... low and behold, i wake up this morning with a bruised testicle and the inability to even sit or walk... this is not amusing... |
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So I'm new to this site and already appalled by the number of predatory women on here. I understand that there are a lot of guys just looking to get there dick wet but, of the 10 unique user emails I got within the first 24 hours of being on here, all but two were ladies trying to get me on yahoo in the first message and all of those mails were word-for-word duplicates of at least one other. It really is unfortunate that there is nowhere individuals with an interest in talking semi-anonymously with others in the style can go without having to worry about 99% of the members trying to con them. |
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