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So as dismissive as it may sound for a sub, it has become apparent to me that the lack of any clear photos of a supposed Domme indicate either a complete lack of self-esteem or a completely false identity. I understand the need for discretion but if you are unwilling to at least present yourself to the world in a manner consistent with the way you *describe* yourself, odds are its a false persona. I understand that I may not have the most revealing photos on my profile but that is as a function of the need to maintain a certain public perception as well as an understanding that, in all likelihood, my cock is relatively unimportant in the scope of this lifestyle. My purpose is to serve a Domme that deems me worthy but, in contrast, as a submissive, I do not necessarily require the strong self-perception that a true Domme requires. If you are truly a dominant person sexually, you should have no issue with owning your appearance, even if that means maintaining a level of anonymity whilst doing so. In the end, I guess my point is that, if you are unwilling to actually provide pictures of yourself, either face shots or body shots, you probably lack the required self-esteem to be considered an ACTUAL Domme. Just my observations... |
