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I am a single, 39 year old BBW, 5'8", brown hair, green eyes. I also had weight loss surgery 18 months ago, so if you are seeking someone solely on the basis of them being a BBW, I won't be for long.

I am also articulate, intelligent, funny, and easy to be around --- most of the time. I am seeking a white male, with at least some experience, in many areas of BDSM, including cbt, nipple play, anal, rimming, enemas, etc.

I expect you to be honest about you, your marital status and what you are seeking. I won't hook up with you quickly or easily, so you'll have to be patient. To me, so much of BDSM is about chemistry, the mental, and the connection. Give us a little time to form those bonds before we get to the bedroom and the bondage.

I also expect you to be seeking an ongoing relationship. I'm not into one night stands. I want a friend with BDSM Benefits, not a cheap, tawdry, single, unfulfilling event.

I require you to be submissive. If you find yourself saying "I feel submissive tonight", you probably mean you are horny in a kinky mood. Submissive people follow orders and are obedient. This DOES include orders you don't like. If I tell you to take out the trash, you'll do it. You don't get to pick between the commands you like, such as get naked and kneel, and the ones you don't like such as helping with chores.

Please understand the following: I do NOT do scat. I do not do scent. I'm not into it. I won't be talked into it. I've had enough requests over the past 15+ years I've been in the lifestyle to know this is not me. If it is what you are seeking, please look elsewhere.

While cross dressing is not a hard limit, it is not in my top 10. There would have to be an incredible amount of chemistry before I would want to go there. I like my subs to be all "man".

chantalparker
 
 Age: 19
 Cville, Kansas