I am a man that is dominant at my core. I am naturally in control, and feel comfortable in a leadership position. I enjoy a very feminine, sexy woman beside me who lives for my praise and little rewards. I consider myself an alpha male in that I make decisions based on my knowledge and confidence and am very confident with who I am. I am not infallible however. I am human and make mistakes sometimes but I always learn from my mistakes. I expect the same from you darling. I am probably even vulnerable at times, yet comfortable expressing my true self. I feel empowered in the presence of a truly submissive woman who desires and needs my control. A truly submissive woman wants to have rules set down to follow and enjoys the freedom of not having to make any decisions. As a submissive, you need my control everyday to feel feminine and content. I will encourage your surrender through respect and honesty; not cruelty. You will feed off my dominance as my control over you is never far away even when I'm traveling for business. I am a man of character and am authentic and can therefore give love as well as discipline. I am looking for the last relationship I will ever have.

I am dichotomous in nature - meaning a true gentleman outside the bedroom with chivalry skills in putting you first in public, yet the complete opposite within the bedroom. I am selective in what I seek in a long-term partner. I am heterosexual, 6'1" tall, h/w proportionate, 190#, divorced, youthful 54, workout 3-4 times per week, 3 wonderful children, well dressed, groomed, established, highly intelligent, articulate, and self aware. I am clean-shaven, conservative in appearance, and classy. I am a chameleon who is equally comfortable in a boardroom as I am in a seedy jazz club. Versatility is essential. I am very masculine, and take pride in my appearance, yet would not describe myself as metro sexual. I am a lot of fun, have a great sense of humor, and have a variety of interests outside of D/s. I have engaged in and experimented with different pleasures of a more kinky nature as well.

I want you very self aware, and have a deep understanding of your submissiveness. In this exploration process between the two of us I want to discuss your understanding of who you are at length. Our relationship will have a strong D/s undertone that permeates throughout our relationship, yet projects a "normal" image to the external world. In private, my sexual interests revolve around my pleasure and what role you will play in that pleasure. Under my control I want you to be my little girl sometimes. I will even dress you in a silk little girls dress with puffy sleeves and ankle length socks with buckle shoes to complete your role. You become shy, compliant and obedient and want nothing more than to please and serve to the best of your ability. I will be strict as well as tender with you as my little girl. I will never demand any of the extremes in our relationship. Other times I will want you to be dressed very sexy in 5" spiked heels, stockings, crotchless panties, and a corset under a silk gown. Again, you want your sexy image to enhance my pleasure. I want your heart to be beating fast as I come through the door after an extended trip and dressed to make me say, "WOW!".

Vanilla interests are important as well. Some of mine include: fine dining, fine wine, live sporting events, music, theater, travel, the outdoors, movies, technology, etc. I want you to live and carry yourself well in the mainstream world since we will not be together all the time. My closest friends would never suspect my dominant side even though I have a commanding presence with people that know me. I also have a Phoenix sanctuary where we can continue our play.