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Hello, I am a natural dominant who is primarily looking for someone that doesn't mind exploring BDSM to the fullest with a dominant that has years of experience. After living the lifestyle for over 8 years I find that I am in a constant state of self exploration and development and find that I still am learning.
I have been involved with BDSM ever since I was eighteen so I have about 8 years of experience. Coming from a small town I was unable to explore the lifestyle to its full potential until I graduated high school and left home. Ever since than I have had a few long term relationships and am now looking for another submissive.
Outside of BDSM I am in school and have a full time job and have an extremely wide variety of interests. I can enjoy myself in almost any activity and have a breadth of experience with many. My interests include but are not limited to reading, watching movies, going to concerts, bowling, skating, camping and hiking, scuba diving, playing football and basketball, travel, amusement parks, and politics.
When it comes to BDSM the list to the left lists some of my interests, however to reiterate my primary interests are in control, humiliation and rough play. This takes many forms including bondage, obedience training, pet play, blindfolds, handcuffs, role play, breasts/nipple play, verbal and physical humiliation.
What I am looking for in a submissive more than anything is someone that is a true submissive. When I say this I mean someone that can take pleasure and enjoyment out of pleasing their dominant and isn't just into this lifestyle as a means of kinky sex. I have had vanilla relationships in the past and they have almost always failed. Where as even the submissives and slaves I have had that are no longer with me keep in touch and we remain close friends.
Experience level doesn't matter to me at all. I'm fine with taking in complete novices or people that have years of experience like myself. I'm also looking for a service oriented submissive. Someone that can follow orders and direction and takes pleasure in being controlled.
Last but not least, I'm looking for someone that can communicate. I know that many people, submissives in particular are shy and that's fine but after that shyness and initial awkwardness goes away I expect someone that can communicate with me. Communication is important in any relationship whether its a BDSM or vanilla relationship but it is far, far more important in BDSM. Communication and honesty build trust and without that its impossible to have any kind of relationship.
I've been somewhat active in the local BDSM community but not as much as I once was. I still try to attend the munches and have lots of friends that are involved with the lifestyle.
If we do start talking to one another whether that's as friends or something more we will talk here first and get to know each other before meeting in person. This by no means equates to a lengthy online relationship period. I would fully expect that anyone that was serious would be willing to at least meet in person within a few weeks of talking here.
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