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ChelseaNY

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My name is Chelsea, I am a submissive BBW Pre-op Transexual.  I have red hair and hazel eyes.  I am currently seeking a 24/7 live in relationship with a Dom.  I am serious and very willing ro relocate.  I have pretty ample B cup breasts, altho I do plan to get implants and go up to a D cup.  I also would like to pursue the full transition and get the surgery, but this is negotiable between me and whoever I am with.  I am a submissive, I am not a slave, so while i do willingly serve my Master in any way he desires, i can be a little bit bratty.  I am submissive to whom I choose as a Dom, and to those who he would choose for me to be sub to, but not to just any Dom or Domme.  So please do not presume to dominate me just because I am a submissive person.
I love books and movies.  I enjoy camping and hanging out.  I am a smoker of both cigs and weed, altho i do plan to quit smoking cigs.  I don't really drink much but i don't mind those who do.  I love animals and have 2 dogs, 2 snakes, 2 turtles and 2 fish tanks.  I love the country and would love to live there.
 
2/4/2010 10:40:16 PM
I wanna move.  I don't know where yet.  I h ave lived in Ohio and Kentucky and loved both.  I have always dreamed of living in Alaska.  Not sure how well the dogs will take to a long ass drive in the suv lol.  Hell not sure how I will take to it, i hate driving long distances.  But I am so tired of being here and I think a change of scenery would be just what the doctor ordered.
12/1/2009 2:54:48 PM
It absolutely slays me when a Dom steps to me and thinks i will be dropping to my knees and kissing His ass.  I don't know You, You are not my Dom yet, and You may never be.  I show proper respect, but i have no intention of subbing to You until i have made the choice to do so.  If a Dom thinks that means i am not a sub, well then so be it.  But personally i think You are not a Dom, You are simply a man with a big ego who is looking for a subservient person to stroke it.  Sorry i only stroke those who deserve to be my Dom, not morons who pretend.  Today this jerk who had emailed me here and i gave Him my yahoo id actually accused me of being fake.  Um if i was gonna pretend to be someone else it would probably be someone thinner with bigger tits lol.  His yahoo is like BigDaddy4Slutt and He is so obviously a pathetic jerk who needs to try to use the bdsm community to get His rocks off.  Sorry for ranting but grrrrr so pissed.
11/17/2009 8:55:59 PM
Ok just so this is clear, i do not do casual sexual encounters.  I want a ltr not a fuck. 

I have not posted much here because i was actually involved in a relationship, not a D/s one, just vanilla.  It did not work out.  Eh life goes on.
3/18/2009 4:33:41 PM
Ok so i changed my profile to say bi-sexual because i think straight probably confused some people lol.  Since i do live full time as a woman, i consider myself to be a straight female.  However i would not be adverse to some bi-sexual (me and a genetic woman) play if my Dom so wished.  I would prefer it not be an ongoing thing, even if she was a part of the relationship (i'll cover my feelings on poly in another journal entry). 
3/15/2009 1:52:20 PM
Ok so I know some Doms will think less of me as a sub for listing the things I dislike, but eh those Doms would probably not interest me anyway.  As I have already said I am a sub, not a slave, and certainly not an automaton.  I have thoughts and opinions and likes and dislikes.

I will admit I am not as much into the scene as many others.  I enjoy pain but to a certain extent.  I am more into the use and abuse style.  I like humiliation and slapping or hair pulling.  Good old fashioned rough sex lol.  I like to be owned and have a man know that he may use me however and whenever he wishes.  Bondage is a so so with me, mild is good, extreme not so much, and total immobilization for long periods of time is just out.  I of course enjoy being a servant for my Master, cooking, cleaning, etc.  Massaging his back or rubbing his feet, bathing him, getting his drinks, I love all that.  I would never embarass my Master in public so I would certainly obey his every word, but I would express myself in private after if it was something I felt I was not comfortable with. 
3/13/2009 11:34:41 PM
So I am submissive because i like to see to the pleasure of the man I am with.  I like a Dominant man, one who is sure of himself and is a total top when it comes to sex.  He should also want and expect to be pampered and taken care of.  I enjoy some of the aspects of the bdsm lifestyle, and others I am willing to tolerate for the right Dom.  I am attending college right now, but would still be willing to relocate.  I suppose i would prefer a live in situation where I was a housewife type sub who takes care of the house and does the cooking and cleaning, but I am perfectly capable of getting a job. 

I am not sure if I could handle a poly lifestyle, however if I were ever to assume such a position I would probably need to be the number 1 sub.
 
MISSLADYSAPPHIRE
 
 Age: 32
 Orchad, Singapore