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Irishman4woman
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Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile before messaging me. It will probably be worth it as you may find that I am really not the woman you need or want!!
I struggled hard with calling myself a submissive, really hard and sometimes I still do. It has not been an easy transition for me in any way. Im not a bit submissive in my everyday life but there were times when I just wanted to hand the control over and just be..............
However I quickly learned that it is easy to use the term dominant but not easy to find the dominant man. It has not been easy to find a man strong enough to accept me as I am and to enjoy the woman I am as well as strong enough to dominate and control me without trying to bully and browbeat me.
I have learned that it is possible to play without having sex and have the experience still be incredibly intense and satisfying. I have also learned that when sex is included it can be a very powerful part of a bdsm session an6d one that I do enjoy. However it is a rare thing to find someone that does it all for me,I like to be courted, beguiled, seduced and Im afraid thats too much effort for too many men.If you want me to submit, well youre welcome to try, but please dont be insulted if I dont, the bar has been set very high.
I have in turn and often together been called Cheeky, Stubborn, Foul Mouthed, Challenging, Brattish, Intriguing, In need of a Good spanking and in need of a good Gag. In other words Im not easy.
But I love to chat, I will talk about almost anything, food, music, drama, movies, books, history, language, shoes and lingerie of course. I love to talk and ask questions about bdsm but sometimes its nice to broaden a conversation.
Please dont ask to exchange phone numbers or to skype unless weve been chatting for some time. I like to get comfortable with a person before sharing anything more personal.And its pretty obvious that someone who still does so couldnt be arsed reading about me. Not a good start.If after all that you would still like to talk to me try opening with something a little more interesting than Hi, hows u I have finally decided that answering that type of message just prolongs the agony. The same with text speak, Im not expecting or requiring literature but text speak will not get a reply.So with all of that out of the way I would say that outside the bedroomI love to cook and do it very wellIm trying to teach myself Latin as I have a theory that it will help me with other languagesI love to dance but hadnt for years, I missed it. Lately I have begun to dance again and it is wonderful.I will read absolutely anythingI love almost all types of musicI wont lie to you, if I dont want to answer a question I will tell you that.I detest liars with a passion and will have nothing to do with anyone who I find has lied to meand I will argue my point until I exhaust you
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I rarely use another person's words because rarely do they say what it is I want to communicate but a while ago I found the following piece written by José Micard Teixeira and it resonated with the person I always have been and with the person that I have become over the last year.
“I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate. I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.”
José Micard Teixeira
With thanks to trained12000 who pointed out that I had attributed the quotation to the wrong person.
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