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Signed a chastity contract with my wife for our anniversary in early February 2010. It has been extended through Valentine's Day 2013. For the next three years +, I am to be kept in one of two chastity devices 24/7.
12/22/2010 12:29:46 AM
Haven't posted here in a while.  My blog is www.subhubinchastity.blogspot.com - been kept busy by my Domme wife who keeps me in chastity 24/7.
5/6/2010 10:18:23 PM
Had to change my blogspot to www.subhubinchastity.blogpot.com  Hope  you can visit it. My keyholding wife is at www.femdommewife.blogspot.com
5/2/2010 8:38:02 AM
My wife is looking for help in redrafting our contract.  It is posted at www.chastizedhusband.blogspot.com  Thank you for your help.
4/17/2010 9:56:50 AM
My wife is getting into this increasingly.  She established her own blog.  It is not as detailed as the one I keep but it can be found at http://khwife.blogspot.com/  She has an email address as well.  My remains http://chastizedhusband.blogspot.com/  We are having success at finding friends online who are helping us in the exploration of our relationship.  That has been our goal not to mention that their is a bit of exhibitionist in both of us so long as no one knows that it is us.
4/7/2010 10:39:29 AM
My Keyholder Wife has added her email address to our blog at www.chastizedhusband.blogspot.com  Sometime this weekend, we will add pictures requested by blog participants to prove that this is real.  Send in your request and she will decide which ones to post.  Also, the poll is open for a few more days for those of you who like those kinds of things.  Thanks to all for your involvement.
4/4/2010 11:26:40 AM
I have been updating my blog almost daily lately.  My wife is now reading it and would like your thoughts and ideas.  We are at www.chastizedhusband.blogspot.com
3/30/2010 9:19:10 PM
More Postings on my Blog...

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3/25/2010 8:55:44 PM

Return to the Belt

Monday came and I was returned to the belt. That was my first 60 hours out of the belt in over six weeks. To date, my longest out was 24 hours following a lovemaking session. In total before this last weekend, I was out a total of 5 days or one day out of eight. It was a little uncomfortable for the first day but I quickly got used to it again. The challenge as I see it is that my scrotum is typically pretty tight to my body. Seems that my balls like to reside close to or inside my body at many points during the day. The O ring that holds on the CB-6000 does not allow this to happen. My balls are kept away from my body given no chance to return to its tightened state.

It took the first three days this time for my arousal levels to begin to return. For the most part, I was not straining against the cage. On Wednesday night, I strong erection returned waking me up. While other erections popped up on prior nights, that was the first strong one that didn't dissipate quickly. The answer is to go to the bathroom and relieve the pressure but I got to thinking about work. That has been a bit stressful this week and I simply got up early to prepare for the day.

This is the funny thing about being chastized - work can distract as can being a parent. Despite all of this, I have my cock trapped in plastic and my balls tangling away from my body. As we come into the weekend, I am becoming a bit more interested in release and relief although my guess is that my wife will let this wait until I show an increased level of interest in her - something I didn't do much of this week. She tried to tease me but a ridiculously heavy workload had me exhausted and stressed.

For those considering being kept like this for a year, realize that not every day is an erotic party. Life creeps in. Exercise is sometimes a bit more difficult with your cock locked away like this but you figure it out most of the time.
3/24/2010 9:02:41 PM
More posts are in chastizedhusband.blogspot.com

Would love to know if anyone finds this interesting.
3/24/2010 9:02:04 PM

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Weekend of release

After six weeks in constant lock up, my wife and keyholder is giving me a weekend out. This was in part because she wanted regular access and use of me with our child at a friend's house for 24 hours. Part was also from the chafing that the O ring causes related to the CB-6000. While the CB-6000 is comfortable, after 24/7 for that long, there is a bit of rawness around the scrotum where it rubs.

In any event, it is a nice repreive. The weird thing is that running shorts rubbing on my head caused extreme sensitivity vs. the past.
3/24/2010 9:01:36 PM

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Released for an Evening

My wife was kind enough to provide me with release and relief last night on my 7th night since the last release. While she had me on the edge within literally seconds, I was able to hold off long enough to help her achieve 3 orgasms before I had mine. The trick was very little movement on my side for the first two and a lot more manual stimulation of her. Fortunately, this ownership of my cock gets her to a heightened level of sexuality. As a change of pace to me last night, she insisted that we maintain eye contact and not close our eyes at any point. This was very tough but added a level of eroticism to her experience and moved a new challenge to me.

The next morning, I was required to go back in the cage.
3/24/2010 9:00:39 PM

Monday, March 15, 2010

5th Week

After receiving 3 orgasms over a 72 hour period, I have been locked up and put away for the last 7 days. It's the oddest thing how one orgasm leaves you wanting for another within 12 hours while two drains your desire for a little longer. She noticed this in me after the third one. I was uniquely horny that night and she took compassion on me. It's also amazing how sensitive you become after no stimulation over a week. When she finally let me out and played with me, I was on the brink in no time. It took a little while for me to regain my composure. When all else fails, have her sit on your lap and do slow rocking, touching and caressing. Men can last quite a while in this position although women seem to crescendo over and over again with this. Eventually, I could not control myself in this position - previously, I could last like this forever. She told me that she felt the strongest orgasm that she has felt in a very long time from me. She attributed it to regular teasing during the previous 7 days - typically 30 minutes minute every night.

It is amazing how much more attention I show her with that level of teasing. I hate to admit it but I am far more attentive to kissing her, massaging her and in general showing her love. This did not escape her.

In any event, after lovemaking, the next morning I was still uncaged. On those rare nights where we are alone (we have a child), I get to stay uncaged after lovemaking and so long as she is around to make sure that I do not slip into past habits (masturbation). When she awoke, she noticed how I was already hard and decided to give me a hand job before putting me back away. Once in the cage, she tried teasing me that night to limited effect.

I needed to travel the next day and went on my first trip without access to a key. All went smoothly but that distance from my keyholder work on my libido and the next day upon my return, I was as horny as if I'd been caged and teased for days. She picked up on this and surprised me with a release from the cage for blowjob. This is another thing that she has enjoyed doing more since I gave myself to her in this way. I asked her how she likes having me in the cage and she says that she loves it. It makes her hornier and more interested in "her cock

This is the most interesting part to me. She seems to enjoy teasing me although stops when it looks as though my balls are constricted from bloodflow by the erections. She will stop, wait for a return to a pink color and tease again - and again.

I will post more later on things that happened during that first month in future posts. She has attempted to masturbate an orgasm out of me while in the cage as well as a first attempt at a prostate massage.
3/24/2010 8:59:25 PM

Sunday, March 14, 2010

First month in full-time chastity

I am completing my first month in chastity. We entered into this contract as my wife wanted to ensure that all of my attention was devoted toward her. No masturbation is now possible without her. Her concerns that I might have an affair while travelling on business or while away at work are now eliminated. While I felt her concerns were not warranted, this was always in the back of her mind.

I've tried a few devices and find that the CB-6000 is the most confortable although the O ring - the ring around your testicles rubs at times. Still, it is better than the Birdlocked or others in terms of long-term comfort.

As with any device, it is tough to wear at night. The reason is because men get involuntary erections as they sleep. About one a night causes enough discomfort to wake me. The easiest way for this to dissipate is to go to the bathroom and relieve all pressure on that area.

As for the relationship - it is the best ever between us. I show her significantly more attention while she is aroused by the thought of controlling all of my orgasms. She especially likes how I pay more attention to her the longer I go without orgasm. To date, that has not gone past 7 days. We have found that when I get one orgasm, I stay relatively "charged" and attentive from about 24 hours after the orgasm. When I get two while released, my interest in her is not as intense for 2 or 3 days.

I will be keeping a running journal here for other couples thinking of doing this. While it might seem odd to some, I think it is a good way to keep the relationship fresh while dealing with the daily grind of family, business and financial affairs.
ChayaSar
 
 Age: 31
 Birmingham, United Kingdom