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Lifestyle femdom seeks CHASTITY submissive.
YOU MUST HAVE A CHASTITY DEVICE.
If you do not have a device, purchasing one is your first homework assignment.
I want DAILY photo & email contact to prove you are locked up. I am willing to take time off your lockup duration for any photosets that amuse me, make me laugh or turn me on. I will increase your lockup duration for any days that you miss that "proof of life" submission.
I am not into cyber sex. I value intelligent conversations and getting to know someone through locking up their cock.
Recognize my photo? I am also known as AliceInBondageLand and can prove that it is really "me." Don't be fooled by imitators.
http://www.podcastchart.com/podcasts/the-people-of-kink/episodes/aliceinbondageland - here is a FREE podcast interview about who I am & why I enjoy doing what I do.
I work in the solar industry (I'm a sexy STEM nerd) but volunteer often in the local kink scene. I have taught classes on chastity and have enjoyed a wide variety of D/s relationship styles over time. I know what works for me and what doesn't. I have a long list of references available, please ask if you have concerns about if I am "real" or not.
With 16 years of real life bdsm experience as part of the bdsm community, I consider myself to be one of the world's leading experts in male chastity. I've been all over the world meeting in person with leading chastity manufacturers. I have spent several years creating a series of video documentaries about each device, how to use it, etc.
My labor of love http://www.aliceinbondageland.com won BEST BONDAGE SITE OF THE YEAR.
ONE-LINE EMAILS WILL BE DELETED - I have put time and effort into crafting this profile, asking for exactly what I want. Put time and effort into your response.
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When men reply to my personal ad with a page full of what they want ME doing to THEM, without addressing anything from my personal ad... I assume 1) it is a form letter spammed to all women or 2) a sign of supreme selfishness. |
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Powerful women loving themselves are threatening to weak men because it is much harder to control someone who doesn't hate themselves. |
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Just got screamed at & blocked for "being an obvious forgery & impersonating a famous femdom" - um... impersonating myself? Peak internet achieved. |
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The world is going to judge you, no matter what you do.
So live your life the way you want to. |
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Lots of people asking me so...
NO weight is NOT a dealbreaker for me. I've been in love with 450+ pound men before. |
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"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us. There are other forces at work besides the will of evil." - Gandalf |
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http://thepageist.com/2017/01/26/episode-041-aliceinbondageland/
WHO IS ALICE???
Listen to this free podcast to find out more about who I am and why I love keeping people locked in chastity. |
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Powerful women loving themselves are threatening to weak men because it is much harder to control someone who doesn't hate themselves. |
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Reminder to Submissives: Loving yourself & accepting your kinks is the first step to finding a dominant partner who will do the same. |
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If your idea of being "in service" to me revolves around me fulfilling your fantasies, it is just self-service. Be useful. Be real. |
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If you can't trust your dominant, who can you trust?
The internet is giving femdom a creepy reputation lately... |
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THE STRAP-ON OLYMPICS ARE NOW A REALITY!!!
Now taking applicants for the strap-on Olympics in San Francisco. Private message me if you have what it takes to participate in this charity fundraiser! Put your ass on the line for a good cause!!!
To benefit local nonprofit Saint James Infirmary. It will be televised so model releases are required. Applicants will compete in a variety of strap-on themed stunts of athleticism to win honors, recognition and possibly a strap-on gangbang from the judges.
Once we have a full roster of anal athletes, I will announce the date/time/location for those interested in being part of the studio audience.
Gather at noon on a weekend during the Olympics, enemas in advanced encouraged. :-)
Maximum of 10 players. If there is a lot of interest, we might truncate the number of challenges to make room for more players.
PM me for details!!!!!!!!! Not posting details publicly.
Two years ago for the Winter Games, we did the CBT Olympics. That film is available on my site http://www.aliceinbondageland.com
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Welcome to my newest members. 3 more signups and our server costs will be covered this month. Come join #TeamAlice and help make sure that FUN stays part of femdom culture.
http://www.aliceinbondageland.com |
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Advice for BDSM newbies: SHOW UP IN PERSON.
Think of it this way: "Must be present to win." |
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CLOTHING EXCHANGE - FREE CLOTHING FOR CROSSDRESSERS
https://fetlife.com/events/302036
Crossdressing Club CLOTHING EXCHANGE sponsored by Mistress Alice from http://www.aliceinbondageland.com
“Time to re-gift all the clothes that don't fit us and find new treasures!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, December 16, 2015 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
Location:Wicked Grounds 289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Support Mistress Alice by joining her website. Please bring CLEAN clothing to exchange.
Dress code: Crossdressing ENCOURAGED even if non-passing. Secretly wearing panties? Flash us as a sign of solidarity!
Deion:
It is time for another CLOTHING EXCHANGE.
Since not everyone is able to try on clothing in stores and online shopping is never perfect... we all end up with closets full of clothing that does not fit or does not look right.
Time to SWAP IT OUT.
Bring your CLEAN clothing to give away and find some new clothes to dress up in. All left-over clothing will be donated to the local women's shelter.
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress Alice on fetlife or at http://www.aliceinbondageland.com |
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https://fetlife.com/events/302028
Crossdressing Club April Meetup - San Francisco Sissy Night
“ April showers bring sissies covered in flowers!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, April 15, 2015 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
Location:
Wicked Grounds
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Support Alice by joining her site.
Dress code: Crossdressing ENCOURAGED even if non-passing. Secretly wearing panties? Flash us as a sign of solidarity!
Deion:
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, transfolk (full time, part time, any time at all), sissies, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
Many people ask about the age ranges and size of our group. We usually have a wide range of ages (over 18 required for Wicked Grounds, over 21 with ID for Bondage a GoGo). The youngest person to attend was 18 and 3 days, the oldest was 81 (it was their first time crossdressing in front of other people!). Our smallest gathering was 6 people, our largest was 40. ALL ORIENTATIONS WELCOME.
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress Alice on fetlife or at http://www.aliceinbondageland.com |
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I get a lot of emails asking me if I am single or not.
Yes, I am without a slave. This personal ad is current. |
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This was just too much fun to keep to myself and I get the feeling many of you ladies will relate to the humor in this piece by the late, great, Bob Flanagan.
If you don't know who that is, go check out the documentary "SICK" about him, his performance art, kinks, loves and journey with extreme pain and illness.
This humorous clip was filmed a long time ago during a local Society of Janus event that some of you might have attended in real life. Glad they saved it for posterity.
Take this as a warning, demanding subs!
(Enjoy the laugh if you are a dom that has encountered this kind of behavior over and over again)
Bob Flanagan's "Smart Ass Masochist Song"
I will do ANYTHING I tell you to do, for you!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVz4lTQF2bg |
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DO NOT OPEN UNTIL XXXMAS
Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/305884
Why such a short lockup time period? My hope is that this idea will resonate with a lot of newbies out there who have been waiting for an excuse to lock themselves up or waiting for a woman to take control.
3 days in an approachable, entertaining amount of time for a chastity lock up period. It is not "the end of the world" the way a month or even a week can feel to a first-timer.
Believe me, 3 days is nothing to sneeze at whether your are new to orgasm control or a seasoned chastity device veteran.
So far we have x2 subs in the game right now:
- One is a sub who HAS TO BE because I am already his keyholder and I say so.
- The other is a woman in San Francisco, one of the rare chastity-enthused submissive women I've met.
That means I am looking for AT LEAST 10 GOOD SUBS to get a full "12 days of Christmas" themed video.
I want each of you to come up with a Christmas themed "proof of lockup" photo featuring your chastity device in the photo. My goal is to combine them all into a cute music video.
I will also accept participants who are on "the honor method" but please include some form of daily BONDAGE as a reminder of your vow.
What makes chastity play so different from "celibacy" play is the constant reminder of the very invasive person bondage device that you cannot remove.
Anonymity and "scene names" will be respected.
This is about fun, nothing creepy. :-)
Cheerfully,
- Mistress Alice
http://www.aliceinbondageland.com |
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Here is an amazing webcomic about online dating that explains very succinctly why I don't do "come over to my house" dates or let someone drop me off/pick me up for dates:
http://imgur.com/6Rwyfil |
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Sissy Night Crossdressing Club April Fools Edition
“ Silly, frivolous and clowny clothing encouraged for those that missed Saint Stupid's Day!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, April 16, 2014 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
Location:
Wicked Grounds
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food - join us for dinner. Donation pumpkin will be passed around.
Dress code: Crossdressing ENCOURAGED even if non-passing. Secretly wearing panties? Flash us as a sign of solidarity!
Deion:
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress Alice on or at www(dot)aliceinbondageland(dot)com |
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Chastity Social January - Keyholders, Chaste & Curious
“ Seeking keyholder? Want to lock someone up? Need advice? Come join us!”
Date & Time: Thursday, January 23, 2014 · 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Location:
Wicked Grounds
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Please join us for dinner and support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Donation pumpkin will be passed.
Dress code: Wear your chastity device and have a chance to show it off in a "fashion show" - fetish wear, crossdressing, etc encouraged also. This is a kink-friendly 18+ establishment.
Description:
Join us for a face-to-face gathering of chastity enthusiasts... one of the only such gatherings in the world.
Chastity is a very "intimate" form of bondage goes way beyond the dungeon for some people. Separate internet fact from fiction by meeting in person with other lifestyle chastity couples and singles.
Round table discussion style gathering over food, what some people also call a "munch."
Newbies are VERY welcome. We have MANY levels of experience in our core group and a great mix of couples, singles, experienced people and brand new folks. Come and learn from others who share your kink!
I offer short term keyholding (for the evening) if you have never given or lent your key to someone before and would like to experience the thrill of being out of control.
We meet every two months if you still don't feel ready to take back your key at the end of the night. :-)
Cheerfully,
- Mistress AliceInBondageLand |
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Sissy Night January - First Meetup Of 2014
“Come fully dressed or just flash us your panties - all are welcome!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, January 15, 2014 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
Location:
Wicked Grounds
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Please join us for dinner and support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Donation pumpkin will be passed.
Dress code: Crossdressing ENCOURAGED even if non-passing. Secretly wearing panties? Flash us as a sign of solidarity!
Description:
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress AliceInBondageLand |
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Sissy Night Crossdressing Club Christmas Party
“Wear your favorite party dress!”
Date & Time: Wednesday, December 18, 2013 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM
Location:
Wicked Grounds
289 8th Street San Francisco, CA
Cost: Please join us for dinner and support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Donation pumpkin will be passed around.
Dress code: Panties under clothing to show us. Full crossdressing ENCOURAGED, even if not passable. :-)
Description:
Merry XXXmas! Wear your best party dress!
WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress AliceInBondageLand. |
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Sissy Night Crossdressing Club & Dance Party November
“ You will look MUCH better in PANTIES!!!”
| Date & Time: in about 18 hours |
Wednesday, November 20, 2013 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM |
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Please join us for dinner and support Wicked Grounds by purchasing food. Donation pumpkin will be passed. |
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Panties under clothing to show us. Full crossdressing ENCOURAGED, even if not passable/bearded/etc. :-) |
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WELCOME TO SISSY NIGHT!
Crossdressers, sissies, maids, cosplayers, cis-men that wear panties, women, trans and gender bending folks of all kinds welcome. The focus is on the feminine and ultra-feminine so we use the word "sissy" to denote ruffles and extravagance, not humiliation.
Dominants and supporters who enjoy sissy and cd/tv energy also invited.
Costuming is welcome! Please dress up!!!
For those of you who need a place to change, please respect that Wicked Grounds only has one bathroom. Fortunately, Wicked Grounds is 18+ so we love it when you change in back with us. Please flash us your pretty panties as you change into something more comfortable! It is fun to share our transformations with each other. Makeup is also welcome at the table.
Many of us have no safe place to get dressed so doing so as a group is deeply empowering as well as a necessity for some who cannot share this side of themselves with their household or coworkers.
Mistress AliceInBondageLand is available to help with makeup (please bring your own foundation if possible).
The group adjourns to Bondage a Go Go to dance the night away. "BAGG" is a kinky goth club around the corner at the Kat Club. It is 21 and over and serves alcohol, please bring ID. They have two dance floors and a small dungeon.
For more information, contact Mistress AliceInBondageLand.
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| Age: 26 |
| High Point,
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