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ChasteAndPlay

Hello, on a more day to day basis I'm more of a balanced personality neither highly dominant nor submissive, though I'm generally a leader in my groups. However, I don't submit if it's something important to me. Similarly, here in the bedroom world I can be quite a polar switch. I love to dominate, I love to be dominated and I have quite a variety of enjoyments in what we so fondly refer to as kink, fetish, and S&M. I'm not saying this to cast a wide net, it simply is who and what I am. However, I have a big big interest in being kept in chastity (I want a neosteel when I get that perfect partner) and giving oral service. :D For the meantime I could enjoy some casual play - though I prefer substance. I'd definitely like to get involved with kink friendly socials or local hang-outs or conventions. However, I would prefer to find a partner. For a lasting relationship my partner would need to be at least a switch or a dom. Either way I greatly enjoy chastity and giving well... lets say kneeling at the alter of my woman to sip the nectar from a beautiful flower I love to make blossom. Dominating I really like to do Shibari or using gags and collars. Aside from sexuality I'm a bit of an artist and a scientist. So just like my sexuality I encompass what are commonly considered as polar opposites. I really enjoy new things, recently started rock climbing as an interest and it's become a permanent hobby. I'm also pretty good at cooking. I've got a lot of aspiration but patience to achieve those things I want, hence why I haven't settled yet. Looking for that one special woman and in the meantime becoming a better man so I'll be ready for her. If you have any questions, please, feel free to ask. One last thing, for any possible casual sexual contact I do require a STI/STD test. I will also provided one. This should go without saying. We all need to keep an eye on our health and thereby make the community safer. I PREFER NOT TO POST A FACE PIC ON ONLINE FOR PRIVACY PURPOSES, BUT I CAN SEND ONE IN A MESSAGE IF YOU'D LIKE. :D
4/20/2010 1:21:49 AM
Boy this site is difficult. Once you do find someone who you think may be interesting you find them asking you to join a site that requires you give your personal information. These people may be trying to get you to go to a legitimate site because they get a dividend from the payment, or they may be trying to steal your ID. Eitherway, don't do it. If it's a dom that says it's for you to prove your obedience then ask them to find something that is not so dangerous for you and explain your situation. If they still will not let up, it's probley a scam.

Basicly think to yourself this way. When yahoo instant messanger and AIM all have video chats for free why do they need to have you go through a paysite? Why not use the free services? Doesn't make any sense. A true dom will understand this and go such a route. They don't need to put you in a potentially precarious situation to get proof of your obedience.

Proof of obedience has a time and place, but it is not with strangers online with your credit cards out.

Where are you real folks out there? Where? I'm one, could you please be two?

So BTW if you're reading this all the way down here hopefully your a real one so hit me up and we can chat, I promise not to ask you for your credit card information! LOL
MistressSevenM7
 
 Age: 23
 Los angeles, California