I consider myself an enigma in this lifestyle. i am a sub who likes to have my submissive tendencies used against me to turn me into a slave. Thru the use of my needs, desires, and dreams getting me to do things i never dreamed of. i don't enjoy doing dishes (who really does?), but by locking me into chastity, or thru other means a Domme can get me to do anything for her. If i have a connection, and a trust with someone my limits would be hers. i fully understand that this is all about the Dommes wants and desires, not about mine. Knowing mine gives her the knowledge she needs to bend me completely to her will. i also like to please, if i know or can feel the other person is truly enjoying what they are doing to me I can go through a lot. Even things i don't like i would do if the Domme truly enjoyed it, and it made her happy.

Adding for some of the emails i have received:

Yes, i would do videos for someone's web site or clip store. i would have to know and trust that person to do it though.

People are also sending me orders and demands on line thinking i will blindly follow them. For me there has to be more then some stranger telling me what to do. i won't pay or just send money for the privilege to talk with someone. That's stupidity not submissiveness. i don't like pay for this because then i feel its about money, not enjoyment. i have tried it before and it was business like, punch a clock and go to work. i may just have had bad luck in my choice but it left a bad taste in my mouth. That's not saying i wouldn't give gifts or help a friend in need out, there would have to be a connection there first.