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Pan Male Switch, 23,  Cumberland, Maryland
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I suck at this stuff, but I was told the only way to put yourself out there is to be direct.

~ I am a puppy, I want to play but I want someone else to have control.

~ Friskiness is part of how I express devotion. I want to keep you amused :)

~ Consensual power games are something I'm very interested in. I don't want an abusive, destructive relationship! But intellectual debates, witty banter, one-upping in good fun, even some erotic wrestling - that is how I picture a loving D/s relationship.

~ I'm pretty physical and have a ton of energy. This has often been misinterpreted as wanting dominance in relationships. I'm hoping to find someone who might think me pushing, shoving, biting, and baiting them sounds like part of the fun! Someone who enjoys roughhousing and understands that the struggle makes me feel desired and wonderful.

~ One thing that really throws me off is when I sense that my partner might be hesitant to take control. I need to feel secure in my place and safe knowing that my lover wants my submission, wants the power and authority, wants my trust, wants me, fetishiness and all.

Now I am entirely my fetish, I am a writer, I am a friend, I am a gamer, and a roleplayer. I am someone who loves to go on long walks and talk about stuff, any stuff, mostly other peoples hopes and dreams.

Oh I guess something I forgot to mention is that I am most looking for a Poly home to be a part of. I mean casual play is fine, but I either want to find someone who is looking to join a poly household and work with them on starting our own, or looking for an existing poly home. I like to cook (I'm not a good cook, but when I make food people enjoy it makes me happy) and clean and am a great listener (I have been told). I will be there when you need to cry, when you want to gush, and when you want someone to cuddle up with and watch movies.

Sexually... I don't really have much of a drive unless it is readily available. That is to say if I am told no that is fine, but when ever asked I am most likely willing. More than anything I am very playful. Pouncing, biting, kissing, licking, and maybe mildly annoying fun (Pulling a woman's breasts out while she is focusing on doing makeup or cooking or paper work. Or kissing someone on the neck while they are trying to focus, not to get sex but for the reaction. Mind you this is in the context of a preexisting sexual relationship where it is not off limits.) these are all things I like to do casually. If an intimate of mine and I are cooking in the kitchen it is not uncommon for me to walk up behind a person and start to fondle them, because I like to distract them.


So I guess I should update that while the primary goal on here is to find a long term loving poly home I am also up for play time in the mean time. Play time means anything from just cuddling and watching movies, to sex, to strapping me to a wall and abusing my nuts (curious about this). If called to do such I can be a sadist, I would rather not be long term but in a casual event I can be quite sadistic. Biting, clawing, knives, fear, throwing, hitting, I am not afraid to let out my anger as long as we know your limits and you are willing to communicate.













 Male Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 3"

 190 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Women

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Walking (Expert)

 Breast Play (Beginner)

 Being Massaged

 Suspension Bondage

 Wax Play

 Role Playing Games (Expert)



 Amusement Parks


 SCA (Beginner)

 Camping (Beginner)

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Anal Play (Beginner)


 Blindfolds (Beginner)

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Beginner)


 Local BDSM Community


 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay


 Singing (Beginner)

 Nihilism (Beginner)

 Writing (Beginner)

 Female Sovereignty


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Opera Music

 Show Tunes


 Clubbing (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Volunteerism (Beginner)


 Erotic touch (Beginner)

 Housework Service






 Board Games



 Comedy Shows

 Web Surfing

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Heavy Metal Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music


 Bar Hopping (Beginner)

 Online RPGs

 EMO Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 Curious About:


 Canes and Crops (Beginner)


 Crossdressing (Beginner)

 Electrical Play


 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Foot Worship


 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control


 Sensation Play

 Maid / Butler Service (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes






 Intellectual Discourse



 Occultism (Beginner)

 Paranormal Phenomena





 FLR Options





 Working Out


 Eye Contact Restrictions


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