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CharlesinCharles

I'm not into the zodiac but if you know the "Leo" personality type, that's me in a nutshell. Especially the negative traits...but hey, I own them. I'm not violent by nature but I seem to scare people when try to get my point across. When you can't turn lemons into lemonade, then find people who like lemons, right? I enjoy watching girls squirm and all the interesting ways of accomplishing it. I particularly like dilemmas. Physical, psychological, moral and every little catch 22 in between. I'm like the fun, kinky twin brother of the Jigsaw killer! There's always a way out but there's always a catch (usually a painful one). There's something very sexy about fear. I was a police officer on the domestic abuse team. Then when I was 27 I ran (and still do) a matchmaking service for vanilla couples. I've seen the spectrum from elation to horror in relationships. Regardless of what the DSM-IV has to say, the kinky life offers the most sane approach to relationship dynamics being devoid of un-negotiated expectations. The sane people could learn a thing or two. I'm a violin player (if only they made rattan bows with horse hair)and I have a masters in philosophy (I got my geek on before the internet age). I was kinky for about 10 years then fell off the wagon and went on a 5 year vanilla binge that I'm not proud to admit. I'm on step 2 of my recovery and I've been kinky again for over 90 days. I've been attending weekly meetings at the MARK which have helped restore my sanity. Laissez les bon temp rouler, Charles
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 Age: 29
 Springfield, Missouri