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Hetero Male Dominant, 21,  Pensacola, Florida
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Some people think being dominant means you're an asshole outright. I don't believe that. I'm not going to sit here and spell out the wants and needs I have in a way that makes me seem like you need me. That I'm doing you a favor by even talking or considering you. This is my disclaimer, I'm a calm, chill, honest person. Thats the face you'll meet before its time to step into any other role. I love reading and writing. Music and movies. My kink isn't a different person or even part of me. but it isn't all of me either.

This is who I am. Someone who enjoys the darker things. Someone who does find the beauty in the breakdown. Who thinks there are few things as striking and attractive as willful submission. I love the art of it. The porn of it. The books and stories detailing it. (speaking of which, if you're in the lifestyle and enjoy fantasy you're doing yourself a disservice by not reading Jacquieline Carey's Kushiel's Legacy books). That hardly ever goes away. It doesn't define me wholly but it does always flavor certain actions and situations.

This is who I want to meet or talk to or get to know: Someone who is the same way. Someone who appreciates that darkness as well. A friend. A playmate. Maybe more but a common comrade in kink for sure.

I believe that dominance and submission is a dance. I believe it takes trust to make it more than a lot of bullshit. And when it is more...its amazing. The lip biting, the hair pulling, the orgasm restraining, the order giving, the release begging, the blood pumping, the pain embracing...beautiful, hot, taboo dance its meant to be. So if you feel the same way, lets go...












 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 250 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Breast Play


 Hair Pulling

 Horror Movies (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Hip Hop Music


 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Flea Markets


 Musical Theater (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Blindfolding you


 Orgasm Control

 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Card Games

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction



 Alternative Music






 Rock Music












 Body Worship

 You wearing my collar


 Sensation Play

 Spanking you






 Paranormal Phenomena



 Eighties Music

 Curious About:





 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play



 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Wax Play




 FLR Options


 Punk Rock Music




 Masks (Wearing)


 Gas Masks

 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Sovereignty

 Hard Limits:



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Journal Entries:
9/7/2010 5:02:24 PM
I've grown accustomed
To needs and urgencies
I don't want to stop
I've grown accustomed
To desperate pleas
I don't want to stop

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