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Hetero Male Dominant, 21,  Pensacola, Florida
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CharlesEm

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Some people think being dominant means you're an asshole outright. I don't believe that. I'm not going to sit here and spell out the wants and needs I have in a way that makes me seem like you need me. That I'm doing you a favor by even talking or considering you. This is my disclaimer, I'm a calm, chill, honest person. Thats the face you'll meet before its time to step into any other role. I love reading and writing. Music and movies. My kink isn't a different person or even part of me. but it isn't all of me either.

This is who I am. Someone who enjoys the darker things. Someone who does find the beauty in the breakdown. Who thinks there are few things as striking and attractive as willful submission. I love the art of it. The porn of it. The books and stories detailing it. (speaking of which, if you're in the lifestyle and enjoy fantasy you're doing yourself a disservice by not reading Jacquieline Carey's Kushiel's Legacy books). That hardly ever goes away. It doesn't define me wholly but it does always flavor certain actions and situations.

This is who I want to meet or talk to or get to know: Someone who is the same way. Someone who appreciates that darkness as well. A friend. A playmate. Maybe more but a common comrade in kink for sure.

I believe that dominance and submission is a dance. I believe it takes trust to make it more than a lot of bullshit. And when it is more...its amazing. The lip biting, the hair pulling, the orgasm restraining, the order giving, the release begging, the blood pumping, the pain embracing...beautiful, hot, taboo dance its meant to be. So if you feel the same way, lets go...

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 CharlesEm

 Dominant Male

 Pensacola 

 Florida

 6' 2"

 250 lbs

 21

 Hetero

 African Descent

 06/22/08

 

Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Breast Play

 Corsetry

 Hair Pulling

 Horror Movies (Expert)

 Writing

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Hip Hop Music

 Loves:

 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Flea Markets

 Museums

 Musical Theater (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Hiking (Beginner)

 Blindfolding you

 Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Arcade Games (Expert)

 Card Games

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction

 History

 Poetry

 Alternative Music

 Funk

 Jazz

 R&B

 Rap

 Reggae

 Rock Music

 Christianity

 Islam

 Basketball

 Bowling

 Boxing

 Football

 Wrestling

 Likes:

 Clubbing

 Bicycling

 Begging

 Body Worship

 You wearing my collar

 Gags

 Sensation Play

 Spanking you

 Vibrators

 Cybering

 Astrology

 Cooking

 Archaeology

 Paranormal Phenomena

 Philosophy

 Goth

 Eighties Music

 Curious About:

 Running

 Tai-Chi

 Yoga

 Exhibitionism

 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Fire Play

 Munches

 Rituals

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish

 Wax Play

 Whips

 Photography

 Tattoos

 FLR Options

 Vampirism

 Punk Rock Music

 Dislikes:

 Cages

 Crossdressing

 Masks (Wearing)

 Hates:

 Gas Masks

 1950s Lifestyle

 Female Sovereignty

 Hard Limits:

 Enemas

 Watersports

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Journal Entries:
9/7/2010 5:02:24 PM
I've grown accustomed
To needs and urgencies
I don't want to stop
I've grown accustomed
To desperate pleas
I don't want to stop

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