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Hetero Male Dominant, 39,  Dallas, Texas
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TLDR Very kinky sensualist Dom seeks kinky Female for LTR together based on trust and mutual respect. Focused on nurturing and molding her into a confident kink partner who shares my enthusiasm for power exchange Kink. Later on there is the potential for training female subs andor building a Poly Household together. Read profile and Journal for more.

This is the beginning of a longer process of finding a woman to share this journey with. Over the next few years I will be building toward creating the financial stability that will allow me to spend considerable time to devote to my personal life, travel, Kink and sharing it with someone else. There is a lot of hard-work and time that will be spent to accomplish this but there is a goal that I am working toward and these are the ative steps of making that a reality.

What I want is not set in stone but I do have a vision of how it begins. The keystone of everything is to find an intelligent, fascinating, beautiful, young woman with whom I can establish a deep, meaningful relationship and can share our mutual passion for life, love and Kink. I want to find my best friend who I cant stop thinking about fucking constantly. It may lead to marriage, it may not. It may lead to children, it may not. It all depends on who we are together, what goals and passions we share and where our desires lead.

I dont believe in Disney fairy tales of people meeting with eyes locked and in slow-motion they embrace and live happily ever after. What I do believe in is finding someone who shares key values, is open to grow together and each complements the other in ways that create a dynamic that only could have happened together, like two colors that come together to create something beautiful. A love that takes time to grow, each of us the catalyst for something we want to create together, to grow into a love that neither one of us could have predicted but is more than we ever could have hoped for.

I would want the relationship to be based on loyalty and honesty, while also allowing for the basic human nature and desire. This relationship would be somewhere on the spectrum from Monogamous, Monogamish to OpenPoly depending on our comfort level at any point. Of course the foundation of this would be between myself and the woman I choose to do this with, we would make sure that together this is what both of us would want. Kink is a very important part of what our relationship will be, but at the most basic it would be a loving, supportive and fulfilling pairing between the two of us.

Ideally my partner would be a Domme who would be submissive to me (perhaps only to me) but I am also open to the possibility of a switch or sub girl.

A must for the woman I seek is that she is bisexual, (from experienced to only-curious so long as she is genuinely turned on by the idea of women sexually). Additionally, all potential women we might add in the future should be bi or bi-curious. All cuckqueans go to the front of the line.

If I found the woman I seek at this point I might even be satisfied to stop there, but hopefully she and I will feel a shared passion to seduce and potentially train other women, potentially joining us as live-in subsslaves, in the best of circumstances it might lead to an offer of being collared and owned by us, joining our Family.

Under unique circumstances I would be quite interested in finding a pair of women to serve as subslaves, including but not limited to MotherDaughter (18+), Sisters, Best friends etc.

In any case the process would take some time as this is a long-term project, have patience and know thyself deeply, because so much of Kink is about learning about ourselves deeply, in that most primal and primitive sense topped off with a heavy load of consciousness.

Limits are respected. People are respected. Assholes are ignored.

If you have read my profile to this point please do reward yourself by writing me a message starting with the words Submission is tempting and let me know your thoughts. I dont bite and will enjoy hearing from those who are curious, interested or have questions.

Just to save time, we wouldnt be a good match for the following reasons

- You are not a natural born female over the age of 18.

- You are not Drug and disease free. (Responsible 420 exceptions)

- You are not healthy, active and HWP.

- You have a negative attitude.

- You have moral, ethical, religious ions to any of this. (I am no longer religious, but I do take ethics quite seriously.)

- You are narcissistic, disrespectful or mean-spirited. (Repect, manners and kindness are important to me and my household.)

- You are unwilling or unable to prove you are real after a reasonable period of time.

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 Dominant Male



 6' 1"

 195 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:



 Intellectual Discourse




 Fine Dining





 Anal Play


 Body Worship


 Breast Play

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 You servicing me orally

 Spanking you



 Classical Music


 Rock Music




 Martial Arts


 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar




 Hair Pulling


 Placing you on a leash


 Sensation Play

 Rubber Fetish


 Wax Play


 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM



 Curious About:




 Erotic Hypnosis

 Victorian Lifestyle

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Journal Entries:
5/16/2016 9:57:37 AM
Very well written article which mirrors many of my own thoughts on Monogamy/ Non-Monogamy.

12/31/2015 10:40:10 AM
Have a safe and fun New Year my friends, see you all in the future!

9/8/2015 5:51:56 AM
So many of the women who seem to enjoy watersports are either lesbian or German. So I suppose I must have been born as a German lesbian in a past life. :)

8/31/2015 7:08:32 AM
Squirting. There are few things more erotic to me than the sight of a woman so turned on that she is squirting out of her sweet pussy. While there may be some women who are embarrassed about it, if they have done this before. They may worry about making a mess, about what their partner might think or even feel shame to be enjoying sex so much that they can't hold back. To me all that is not an issue, squirting is something beautiful that should be celebrated. If my partner has not had this experience before it is something I seek to learn about her body and help her to experience the pleasure of it. I find the feeling of her pleasure releasing in gushes to be incredibly sexy and amazing. So by all means ladies: Get in touch with your bodies and squirt as much as you like, and if your lover cannot appreciate your orgasmic geyser then find one who will!

Women are beautiful, most especially when they are overcome with pleasure...:O

8/24/2015 12:22:08 PM
== Results from ==
96% Degradation giver
91% Dominant
91% Experimentalist
90% Bondage giver
89% Voyeur
86% Master/Mistress
84% Owner
83% Brat tamer
82% Primal (Hunter)
79% Sadist
78% Ageplayer
77% Daddy/Mommy
71% Non-monogamist
70% Switch
66% Bondage receiver
51% Degradation receiver
51% Masochist
50% Submissive
46% Exhibitionist
40% girl/boy
37% Brat
25% Primal (Prey)
23% Slave
21% Vanilla
18% All-Rounder
14% Pet
See my results online at p h p ?id=621356

8/24/2015 6:50:45 AM
Monogamy. It is the ideal we're all striving for isn't it? To be your partners one true love, the one who can satisfy their every need and desire if we just try hard enough. That's what we've been taught our entire life from books, movies, music, society and even our own families (most of the time). For may years I also thought that I was looking for that fairy-tale boy meets girl, fall in love and happily ever after. But how often does the fairy tale turn out to be an illusion? How often is life really that simple?

So often it seems that relationships/marriages end over the issues of finances or a partner being unfaithful. Lower income couples often cannot afford to divorce and therefore have little choice but to stay together, even when they might like to divorce. Finances will not be an issue that me and my partner will have to worry about that leaves the issue of infidelity to consider. Not that I have a negative view of monogamy, I believe that there are couples that find it works for them and they make it work. That is an admirable accomplishment for those who do maintain that monogamy in a healthy relationship, however, all too often couples struggle with the temptation of straying even if they don't give in to it. As much as any of us may love and respect someone and intend to be true to them, can we really promise that we will NEVER desire another?

There are those who would lobby for monogamy and that anything less is morally wrong, ethically wrong and a general failure as a human being. And while there is no excuse for choosing to cheat on one's partner, there are desires and evolutionary traits that compel us to fulfill our biological directive: to find a suitable partner and fuck (like animals). To think that our love for another or their love for us can prevent the millions of years of programming to turn off is vanity. How else could we explain the behavior of those who cheat on their spouses for no logical reason? (often to the result of massive negative consequences to their personal life)

The woman I seek would be a very beautiful, highly sexual, erotic and arousing woman who I would very much enjoy having a deeply fulfilling, very intimate and long-term sexual relationship with, but I cannot say that I would lose a desire for other women based on a piece of paper or a relationship status. In my mind setting up a situation to go against a natural drive is unwise or at the very least making for a temptation to stray more likely. By anticipating human nature and our own desires I would find it to be much wiser to be in a relationship that was monogamish. At times when myself or my partner wanted to share another woman alone or together I would find the freedom and honesty to share that with her in an honest and communicative way would only make me admire, respect and desire her all the more.

Each one of us wants to feel special, loved, cared about and desired. To me the issue would be to make sure that the woman I love knew that I she would be the most special, loved, cared for and desired of all. To me that would be an honest intimacy that I would know was truly unique. To have that bond, one of honesty, loyalty and trust would be something very special and strong enough that either one of us could see a tempting piece of fruit and allow ourselves to enjoy it together and be confident that as sweet as it might be, it would not nearly be as delicious as the one we belong to.

8/18/2015 11:08:12 AM
When considering who I am looking for I would most prefer those in and/or from the United States but I would consider those from other countries if they seemed like a good match and were open to relocating if needed. I can say that I do have a particular affinity for Japanese women and Nordic women. Now if I can just find one of each...

8/17/2015 2:08:03 PM
If I was trying to boil it down to the key points of sexual compatibility that I need here are the key points that I seek most of all in a potential partner.
- Bisexual, she will probably enjoy eating pussy as much as I do. And she will be responsible for determining which women may join us for fun or training.
- 3-Hole slut. The type of woman who loves the feeling of being fucked in every hole. Not just on special occasions.
- Watersports. A very dirty girl who loves the feeling or (or is open to) giving and receiving a hot, wet shower.
- Creative. A woman who has a mind that works to find new and fun ways to blow my mind, sexually or otherwise.

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