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The rule: If I feel you deserve respect moreso than myself, I am willing to submit. If I feel I deserve more respect than you, I will seek to control you.

A master is reponsible for everything in the relationship, and any sucess or failure is his to correct. The beauty of submission is that responsibility is surrendered with power, in equal amounts.

I seek power exchange relationships in part as a form of self-exploration and self-actualization.

I don't belive in limits outside of my rule that unless it is yours to own forever, you do not mark it forever.

I failed my last sub, in part because constant dishonesty on her part caused me to lose interest. I ask for honesty above all else.

I am currently looking, but not seeking. I am relationship-minded by nature, although I'm trying to be less so. Aside from a very few one-night or casual flings, my relationships tend to be about 2 years in length. To hear people call six months a "long relationship" rolls my eyes.

I work, and am willing to support a sub who does not, and to tolerate a sub who does.

I am willing to serve part-time but would have to find a comfortable match to serve full time.

Addicts are beneath me, and if you are MY addict, you won't be an addict for long. Even legal drugs are for occasional use only, not for everyday, aside from a morning-only stimulant like coffee.

I am moderately attractive, healthy, and not obese.

6/22/2010 8:34:18 PM
Oh, and for those viewing, I have cleanly shaven my lovely hair. It was threatening to leave me, anyway.
New pics soon.

6/22/2010 7:56:44 PM
Currently sensitive, a bit brooding, and looking for *something*

8/10/2007 9:48:07 AM
Winds of change. Feeling...transitional. I guess the trick will be turning transitional into transformational.

At least it's a break from the same.

7/8/2007 6:18:02 AM
Journal. Why can't I stick to journaling.

Currently in private self-prescribed isolation.

Cue simon and garfunkel.
 
A fortress deep and mighty/that none may penetrate.

I've heard the word before./It's sleeping in my memory.

I'm contemplating another song, and wondering...

the answer is easy if you take it logically.

12/21/2005 1:23:07 PM

Met a potintial sub, had the "wounded animal" vibe. Hands off for the first meeting, clothes on the second. Apparently, I was too fast in a swat on the clothed rump and sending to corner when she did something stupid and bad on the third day of meeting.
 I felt that some show of d/s would be part of the interview process, she apparently felt it unwarranted....because her boyfriend (I only remembered her speak about an ex-fiancee, but apparently they were different people) contacted me a few days later to "express her distrust" I do wish that people would say things like that themselves, there's always an element of disbelief when the message comes from a romantic interest.

Live and learn? Talk about expectations first.

Although she was looking to be collared, she apparently didn't want to be topped in the slightest until fully collared, although my read of her behavior said otherwise. There are other possible explanations (the boyfriend did not know and found out) so it's not really a closed case.


12/6/2005 1:04:49 AM

Nice to be here. To those I messaged before, Oops. I had the wrong email adress listed, mis-spelled by one. I now have that corrected completely, so mail away!

looking at this point, not seeking.


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SlaveDaniella85
 
 Age: 21
  Ohio