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Hi, all. I've been using CM off-and-on for several years now.
I have had mixed results. On the positive side, I had one brief relationship with a women I met here, and I have also found several that I enjoyed dating for periods of weeks or months.
On the negative side, I have at times gone around and around in circles.
Since I also notice that many women seem to be in the same boat (having seen some of the same profiles here off-and-on for years), I decided to write up what I want and what I'm prepared to offer and see if it connects with anyone.
I'm an extremely educated and intelligent person, I enjoy an intelligent woman who can maintain a high level of intellectual discourse.
This is not a requirement, it is actually more part of what I am prepared to offer than part of what I require.
It seems that many of the women here (certainly among the subs, if not among the slaves) want to be romanced.
I enjoy this, and a good sub is a lot of fun as a vanilla date.
This is also something I offer, it is fun for the sub and I can show her how to be most appealing to me in a nightclub, restaurant, or other social setting.
As for what I require, let me define three broad categories:
A) Sexual Service
A submissive must be prepared to be trained in holding basic positions (kneeling erect, on all fours, hands behind her back, arms in front, forearms squeezing breasts upward, I could go on).
She should be open and enjoy, at the very least, light bondage and sex toys (nipple clamps, ankle cuffs, slave collars).
She should be able to serve, at the very least, with her mouth as well as her genitals.
A sub may have limits, including a hard limit against anal sex (few subs describe this as a limit, by the way).
A slave in general should not have hard limits, but at the most may have aversions or preferences.
B) If she is well-romanced, listened too, courted, and wooed, a slave and possibly even a sub should be willing to do simple and complicated tasks (shop for groceries, design a web-site, build a bridge, balance the Federal Budget) at the direction of her top.
C) If requested to perform in a public setting (as an elegant date, perhaps, or getting spanked at an underground sex club, or assisting in a lecture given by her top) a sub or slave should be pleased to do so.
If requested by her top to perform in private with a third party, a sub should generally be willing to do this. She may have limits in this area, both in terms of what she's willing to do (only top others, say, or only submit to Amazon women or big black guys).
A slave should have no limits in this area. As property, a slave can be lent by her Master, or ordered to serve a third party, of either gender, at any time, at the whim of her top.
My Challenge: Contact me. If you're already up to speed, I'll congratulate you and meet you if your receptive.
If you're not there yet with everything above, I'm willing to mentor you, if you'd like that (at least you'll be better-prepared for your next top if we don't hit it off together that way).
Thanks for reading. Try me!
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