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Okay, here's the thing. BDSM Does not have to mean promiscuity. I am looking for love, just a different kind of love, a kind that works for me.
That's not to say that every first date is an interview to see if were going to spend the rest of our lives together. The way to find the person who is right for us is to spend time with several people, just not to take anything too far with the wrong person. It's all about balance.
As far as online Experiences, yea I am open, but Role play with strangers bores me. I would much rather have an interesting conversation. Take the opportunity to open up the darkest parts of yourself to a person who is too far away to ever use it against you. It can be very fulfilling.
Here is the challenge. Its hard enough to find an interested Domina, but finding the right one is even harder. You see, I am pretty intelligent, and run my life pretty darn well. I pay my bills on time, I maintain my shit, I manage money well, and when a situation arises, I usually know what to do. I have a hard time respecting a Domina who cant run there life as well as I can, in other-words, she would have to be at least as smart as I am. I am so tired of women who think they can be dominant just because they want to get there own way or be selfish and bitchy and get away with it, but I have to run our lives, and figure everything out, provide the financial stability and solve all the problems. How can I do that if I don't have the authority?
I do realize the burden of being a Domina, and the sacrifices they have to make, and as such, I will give the right one the highest level of gratitude and worship.
I do believe a sub can be loved, and still be treated like property. I realize that a good domina earns a lot of things, including the right to be possessive. I also realize that there a lot of limits on what a sub can give, or do for there domina, and if they feel the need, they should be free to seek those things outside the relationship. A sub does not have that same right.
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