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Hetero Male Submissive, 48,  Colorado Springs, Colorado
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Let me first address the lack of a personal photo. I am a professional in a large firm, and do not want to take the chance of one of my colleagues running across this profile and recognizing me. Once we have established a dialogue, I will be happy to exchange pictures with you.

I am a self-aware middle aged man, seeking a dominant female to train me to please her. I am seeking a genuine connection, and an ongoing relationship. Pay to Play, Financial Domination, or other types of impersonal transaction based encounters will not give me what I need. I am hoping for a LTR, that may lead to a 247 arrangement.

I have made the mistake of moving too quickly in the past, and wish to learn from it. I want to find someone I am compatible with, build an actual non kink-based relationship first then when we are both comfortable, moving to something more. I have a wide range of interests, both in styles of play and in the vanilla world. I prefer a heavily mental domination style, with light pain and strict discipline. I do not respond overly well to bitchy or inherently superior styles. My goal is intensity, fun, and excitement. Sensual, playful, shocking, taboo, and controlling gets me every time.

I am unmarried and unattached. For real. I am honest about whowhat I am, and expect the same. I am getting a little older, but I have not let myself go. I wont make the centerfold of GQ anytime soon, but Im tall, have all my hair and am not particularly overweight. Im not expecting a super model, ... this is the real world, and we all have our flaws. Those can be fun too, but I do want someone that is at least somewhat fit, healthy, and takes care of themselves.

I am open to a wide range of relationship dynamics. The world is deliciously complex, and so are the people Im attracted to. As long as I am being cared for in a loving manner, and my needs are being met, I will remain open to most things, and do everything I can to meet your needs. Feel free to message me if you have any questions, or just simply want to chat.












 Submissive Male

 Colorado Springs 


 6' 3"

 210 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Female Led Couples

A Poly Household

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