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Updated 5-20-09
I guess I need to update this, as it's been over a year since I've seriously been around this site.
I'm an attractive, young, sane, and attentive dominant seeking similar qualities in a female submissive. I’m looking for someone that understands that D/s is about more than kinky sex games and complicated clothing - that the relationship is about two people pledging to take care of each other in their own ways, and dedicating themselves to showing respect, deserving trust, and giving affection - even if only for a little while. Submission is the most precious gift a person can give, and accepting it is accepting a responsibility that goes beyond what many people understand. Being submissive doesn’t mean having no opinions any more than being dominant means always being right. I’m intelligent, and find very few things sexier than spirited conversation. Too many people confuse being submissive with having no personality... or think they're dominant when in all actuality they're just overbearing and unpleasant. I'm looking for the real deal... fun people who want to have a good time and get more comfortable with their submissive side.
I run a non-profit that works with kids - this is important to me and consumes a lot of my time, so if you're looking for someone who can be around every second of every day... we're not a good fit. I'd love to make a friend who can have crazy wild kinky sex one night, cuddle quietly another, and has the ability to fit in and have fun in more vanilla company at other times. I’m not in a rush to find someone- I’d rather make a dozen friends from this ad than jump into a relationship with the one wrong person.
Being inexperienced is no problem for someone who’s compatible. I’m friendly, so don’t be afraid to say hi.
And the old, 2007 model profile:
I love music, cooking, philosophy, sailing, and meeting people. Conversation is my favorite hobby. I'm intensely relaxed. I'm equally at home on the side of a cliff or pushing a sailboat until she capsizes as I am in a good museum, library or orchestra concert. I believe that music is the language of the gods, that education is the only social or political issue, and that life is prescious but, like money, if all you do is hold on to it- you're wasting it. I'm honest and direct. I'm confident. I don't need someone else to get me through life, I just want to meet people who are looking for similar experience along the way.
As for what I'm looking for....
Hmmm. Convince me that it's you.
I'm attracted to intelligent people who are good communicators (that means listening and talking. Sometimes simultaneously ;) .) I want to meet people who have opinions on things and aren't afraid to express them. I like people who present themselves well - being physically attractive to me is about 25% what you've got and 75% what you do with it. If we're going to be sexually compatible, you probably have a healthy fantasy life... I'm looking for someone who dreams about sexy things they want to do or have done to them.. Not saying you have to write bodice-ripper novels, but if you don't have specific ideas about what turns you on, then you're probably not sexual enough for me.
I'd like to fulfill a few fantasies with people I meet here. Specifically:
I'm a natural teacher and love the idea of 'guiding' someone inexperienced. I'm also naturally (and educated in being) dominant. If you've always had fantasies about being controlled, tied up, owned, used, ordered around, or just taken... I'm a good person to explore those things with, because I'm experienced but not insensitive. I can move very slowly, and I take my partner's physical and emotional safety VERY seriously.
I'd love to have a really great threesome. I mean, I'm a guy... so I didn't really have to type that. But when I say 'really great' I mean mind blowing. I've had a couple of threesomes before with a lot of rules imposed by my partner... which was fine and it was still fun.... but I want to be in bed with people when everyone is clawing at everyone and the roof blows off the building because it's so hot.... is that too much to ask for? So towards that end, I'd love to meet other single people who'd like to get together for an uncomplicated group experience... though I'm not opposed to playing with (and taking it slow with) secure couples if the chemistry is right.
I've always been turned on by watching people together or by being watched with someone...
And I've always had a thing for 'taken' women... so wives and girlfriend's who'd like to play - with your man watching, at home waiting, or blissfully unaware turn me on to no end.
If you've got a fantasy you've always wanted to fulfill feel free to suggest it. I can be persuaded....
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