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This is going to be a very unfortunate dis-qualifier for most. I am INCREDIBLY allergic to cats. If you have one, I cannot go to your home. Not even just for a temporary visit. I also would never encourage someone to get rid of their pets. I adore cats, i'm just severe allergic to them and allergy medicine doesn't cut it.*
such a weird thing to have to add :(
Yes my photos are of me. I will fill this out again in a bit since I have just returned from a long hiatus.
I am deeply submissive when I get into the "zone" with my Dominant. Once I have formed that bond with someone, I become intensely focused on pleasing. I crave and need feedback from my Dominant, as well as understanding and guidance. I am service oriented for the most part and enjoy chores and tasks that will please my Dominant. This may include cleaning, cooking, body worship (giving, my favorite), and other such activities. This is something that only occurs once I have formed a bond with my Dominant. It becomes natural for me to crave serving in anyway I can to please him. I am very polite, intelligent, thoughtful, caring and funny. My behavior around my Dominant is obviously very different than it is around others. In public I would prefer to have private things we do that only we know about to express our dynamic, however I am seen as fairly vanilla by those who know me in the physical world.
Sexual gratification is not the only reason I choose to be submissive. I am not a "kinkster" I am not into whips and chains, or fishnets and leather. I seek the intense, intimate connection that only a Dom and sub can understand. It is unspoken and incredibly powerful. I want to melt when my dominant touches me, and feel safe enough to let go and give in to him completely. This is not a one way dynamic. It is a privledge to be served by me as it is a privilege to be dominated by the one who owns you. Although it is not always overt, there is give and take in every aspect of a D/s dynamic. Hearing "good girl" while I please my Dominant is as gratifying as the service I am providing to him...anyway..I suppose I should make a TL;DR list.
Please
-Have a photo or send one with your message. Your face does not have to be included although I will want to see it rather quickly. The eyes tell all. :)
-Effortlessly dominant. This does not work if the behaviors are not natural. If you are someone who has an authoritative or calm and confident energy about them, this is a wonderful trait.
-older. I do not want a young Dominant. I am looking for a man who is experienced and deeply cerebral. I don't like putting an age limit on things...but I would say about 30 at the youngest to 47 if you look younger. THis is simply for practical reasons.
-In good shape. I do not mean you have to have abs and look like a model but I want someone who I can be attracted to when I look at them.
-Intelligent and educated. This doesn't mean you have to go to a university or have graduated from an ivy league college, it just means you have a thirst for knowledge, you are well spoken, and you strive to learn.
-Patient. Yes we are all jaded, but I am at a point where it would be unhealthy for me to allow a man to have my heart without being very sure it will be in my best interest. I have been abandoned at very bad times and have some scars that I take the responsibility of guarding. So if you cannot be patient and understanding, then I will avoid the situation all together.
-Confident. If you are clingy and become upset or spammy if I do not reply immediately, I will become very unattracted very quickly. I cannot help it, it will push me away. I should be addicted to you.
-Successful. I do not mean be rich and able to care for me, I have no interest in that, but I do want someone who can care for themselves.
I will not
-Send you nude photos of myself (you can see things on here already), or do tasks for you that involve sending pictures or videos. I am seeking the real deal, no more extensive online play.
I am not looking
-for a switch
-for co-service opportunities
-for a polyamourous relationship
-for a married or involved man.
I'm sure there's more but, thank you for reading.
I feel this is far more deive than any simple BDSM test. This is my overall personality, and it is very, very accurate.
http://www.16personalities.com/intp-personality
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