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NOTE--I've been a member here since October 2005 but wanted to change my ID. Unfortunately, that isn't possible here, so I had to create a new profile.
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“The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself.” ~ Anna Quindlen
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"A woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing. She goes where she will without pretense and arrives at her destination prepared to be herself and only herself."~Maya Angelou
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Why do I have the above quotes? The common idea of them is being yourself. In my opinion D/s and BDSM are highly individualized concepts/activities. Aside from SSC, I believe the dynamics of any relationships are between that couple and there is no right or wrong way to practice it, only what is right for you.
About me:
Me--A study in contrasts, intense, highly emotional, loyal, honest, sensual: As you can see from my photos, I'm an online exhibitionist but at times can be very reserved and private in person. Introverted yet very in touch with my sexuality and confident in my identity. I'm just as comfortable in a corset, fishnet and boots as I am in jeans or in business attire. I'm well acquainted with all my "personalities" and embrace all of them. College educated and can carry on an intelligent conversation but I am also totally comfortable with silence. Sometimes very teasing/sensual and at other times almost animalistic. "Intense" is all I can say when it comes to emotions. If I love you, I will love you with all I have to give and if I hate you, likewise, although I am very tolerant and it takes a lot to make me hate or even dislike someone, but there are a few who have achieved it. I am extremely loyal to my friends and expect that level of loyalty in return.
Trust and honestly are paramount with me. Communication is extremely important. Communication is the foundation of any relationship be it vanilla, D/s, or friendship and if you aren't going to communicate with me, "we" in whatever form, will not survive.
Past leader of N.E.A.D.S. (Anniston, AL) and current active member of the Red Chair.
Most of my experiences have been as a bottom/sub. Have recently been exploring the Top side.
Fetishes:
Yes, I have many of them and a few I haven't tried yet that I hope to soon. However I am tired of being seen as a list of fetishes and I don't want to interact with others that way either. I want to get to know people as people first, not just a list of fetishes or a bunch of check boxes. For me, it is the personal interaction and energy that make the things on the list worth doing. So if you contact me please just be yourself first and foremost.
Looking for:
LTR with...someone I like being around, be that person Dom, sub or switch. Must have a good sense of humor and good communication skills. Must be single as in not married, not collared and not in a poly relationship. Absolutely no younger than 35 and preferably under 54. Honest, trust worthy and not a drug user. Not into cross dressers or sissification (I do like men in kilts since I have Celtic ancestry plus they just look hot). "Mommy" is a hard limit for me, not going there at all. Yes, there are other wants, desires and expectations and I'll be happy to send them to you if I feel we are compatible. If you've a sub, I prefer someone that knows he is a sub already and is at least somewhat service oriented. I'm not looking to have to "break" you.
I am not looking for casual play partners or just sessions. I already have plenty of opportunities for that. I'm looking for someone to get to know first as a person with the potential for it to become more than that. Please make any initial contact messages about you, not your fetishes.
NOTE--While I'm not huge and I do have a well proportioned figure, I am not a small women. I'm curvy and thick in all the right places. If you prefer thin women, I'm not what you are looking for.
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I am not looking for online or long distance, nor am I interested in relocating. If you live outside of a 2 hour drive from me, I am not likely to reply back to you. |
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Friend requests--If I don't know you in person, it will be rejected. I don't collect "friends" that I've never met and am not likely to meet. |
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| Age: 21 |
| Hawkinsville,
Georgia |
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