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Hetero Female Switch, 40,  BayArea, California
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So tell me........ Have You Ever Danced With The Devil In The Pale Moon Light???

...... I have.... it was the most amazing, transing, electrical natural high feeling I have EVER had and I MUST do it AGAIN!? ?:)

I am not some 50 shades soccer mom looking for her Christian gray.

I am a taken girl whos significant other knows I am on here and couldnt care any less. I do NOT keep anything from him. I am free to do whatever i please. He knows everything I do.?
I enjoy talking with all kinds of different people. I love to learn things and learn about people. Even though Im bad at learning I lived a very very sheltered life, so now as an adult, I love to talk about just about anything with just about anyone.

Just like many others, I too. Have a type. My type and preference is older people. If you are younger, that too is ok and not an issue if we get along good and feel a connection. I prefer mature people and some younger ones are mature as well? :) age usually means nothing more?
?than a number stating how much experience you have on this earth. I am usually very attracted to older men.?

In this journey of life I have learned to take many high roads, a few low roads, and have driven off the path a few hundred times, yet thanks to the gps, i find my way back onto the bumpy road, every time.

I have learned I have more lives than a cat. I have used more lives than a cat lol. I do have cancer. Ive used about 4 lives on the cancer alone lol. I dont let the cancer stop me. I have cancer...cancer does NOT have me! My chemo are pills that I take for The rest of my life. I still can and do all the things in the lifestyle that I likewant to do. Im blessed to still be here to tell the tale. The pills do cause issues at times .?

Even though I LOVE talking to others, I do NOT just get up and run off to meet someone randomly right sway. After several bad meets? I prefer to keep it very safe. Im blessed to have met several good people on here and sadly met several......not so nice people. It takes a very long time for me to trust anyone. There willing be NO private meetings IF we get that far.












 Female Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"



 Not Listed



Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Submissive female

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Women

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

Male Dom Couples



A Poly Household

 Lives For:


 Hair Pulling







 Blindfolding you

 Tying you up

 You wearing my collar

 You massaging me for hours



 Wax Play

 Board Games

 Comedy Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 True Crime

 Web Surfing


 Bar Hopping


 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Horseback Riding

 Violating your rear

 You begging

 You worshiping my body

 You worshiping my breasts

 Giving you corner time facing the wall



 Disciplining your male parts

 You at the end of my leash

 Going to munches


 Sensation Play

 Deciding what you wear

 Outdoor Bondage

 Role Playing


 Spanking you

 Suspension Bondage


 Arcade Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies


 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels

 Simulation Games


 TV News


 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater


 Canes and Crops

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship


 Massage (Giving)

 Modern Primitivism

 Obedience Training

 Maid / Butler Service


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions

 Theatrical Scenes


 TV Sports

 Curious About:

 Antique Shows

 Art Galleries





 Renaissance Faires





 Surf Boarding






 Electrical Play


 Domestic Service

 Fire Play

 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Bird Watching



 Martial Arts



 Erotic touch

 Masks on Partner


 Science Fiction




 Gas Masks


 Housework Service


 Hard Limits:

 Masks (Wearing)

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