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I am currently seeing someone. sorry guys :p   I am looking for someone with more experience to help me explore my submissive side. It will take a lot of trust for me to feel comfortable enough to really go there and getting to that level of trust will take some time. If you wouldn't be up to putting in time and energy we wont be a good fit. I am looking for someone that I have physical and mental chemistry with. I am especially interested in exploring the mental/psychological side to D/s. It is what draws my interest the most although there are also physical things I am still looking to try.    I recently got out of a serious relationship in large part because I realized that there are some things about myself I need/want to work on. I am only interested in a serious long term relationship.I am looking for someone that can see themselves being married in 1-2 years and starting a family in 3-5 years and is looking for the person they want to create that life with. I am looking for someone 28-35 years old. I am looking for a man. Someone who has confidence, drive and experience. A man who is secure in himself. Someone who has a dominant personality naturally. Someone who lives life passionately. I have a lot of experience with personal growth work and self awareness am looking for someone who has either done some of their work already or is in the process for working out their stuff. Someone with emotional awareness and maturity. I want to be partners; this means that we are involved in each others lives deeply. If you need lots of space and to have things kept separate or to yourself that isn't going to work for me. I like to be in lots of contact and communication. I don't like to go days without some form of being in contact. Its important to me to be able to be with my family and friends. If you can't fit in with them how can you expect to fit into my life? Being physical is really important to me. I like to touch and be touched. I am very affectionate and I like to have someone who reciprocates. Having a good active sex life is important. If you would be OK not having sex or some form of sexual touch/fun for 4 or 5 days when its possible to have it then you aren't up to what I need. I am kinky and having bdsm be a part of my life is important to me.  I have only just begun to explore both my sub and Dom sides and would love to find someone who would like to help me in that exploration. I need intimacy and good communication and high honesty and integrity. They are all extremely important. I am a very smart woman and I want someone who can keep up with me and challenge me. If I feel I can outwit you with minimal effort I will never be able to respect you they way I want to respect my life-partner. I want to be in a relationship that has a feeling of ease. One in which both parties feel like they are getting the better end of the deal. This is what I want and what I am looking for. If any of this wouldn't really work for you then I'm not your girl. That being said it all comes down to chemistry and connection. I can usually tell pretty quickly if I feel either could potentially be there and I do my best to always trust my intuition. A little about me:   I am integrity, empowerment, freedom and peace   I have recently been described as a very conscientious and pragmatic person by several people in my life. I feel these words do describe parts of who I am as a person. I have a fairly unusual background and a pretty open and unconventional family. I am very fun, light-hearted and creative. I love psychology and can't help analyzing myself and others. It's fun for me. I am a girly girl, but I like doing things like hiking and climbing around on rocks and trees as well. I LOVE to read and I really enjoy music of all kinds. I really like art in various forms and doing crafty, creative stuff. My newest hobby is making amigurumi, which are crocheted stuffed animals, and I absolutely love it.   Right now I am exploring who I am and what I want from life. I am on a path of self defined education. I am also working on starting my own advice blog. Education, psychology and helping people are things I am passionate about and while the risk and vulnerability of what I am doing are scary I am truly enjoying it. In the long run my ideal would be to get to have the job/role of partner/wife/mother. As silly as it feels to say that would be my dream. I am a realistic person so if in a few years it doesn't look like my dream will come true I have a few fall back career alternatives.   Message me if you are looking for an amazing partnership/marriage that will enhance your life and the life of your woman and think it might be worth seeing if we are a possible match for that. You can find me on yim under the same name.