This is a letter I received the other day that I enjoyed reading;

Thank you Lady Hayward,

Your note to me has left me in a state of bliss I am so glad i messaged you and that you decided to return my message to you.  i love that you have such a great handle on life and that you are sane...

i tried alt.com years ago but i think the response from the ladies was lacking.  I also tried cently and i got a few responses but nothing really stellar... definitely nothing at your caliber and level of thoughtfulness.  Your slaves are really lucky... i find it difficult to find a lady online that is genuinely domineering as a lot of it is smoke and mirrors.  As for me my thoughts are constantly occupied by meeting a domineering woman that can become something with relationship potential.. don't get me wrong i'm not disillusioned into thinking a relationship would be living in a cage while my lady is in the bed after all we are all human beings and we need affection of some sort ... there was once an experiment on new borns one group was held and the other group was starved of affection and the outcome was bleak for the ones that were lacking affection ... i believe even in our adult years this is no different.

However, a lady that would engage me in stimulating discussion or seek my opinion but make the final choice regardless of my wants or desires is something i hope to obtain...

and here i am rambling again... i do apologize for that please do forgive me.  i am so interested in learning more about you so please do if it is okay with you please do share your vanilla or darker thoughts.  You have captured my attention which is a nice change of pace for me in regards to the online stage and i would like to keep the momentum going so please feel free to share with me the best way to make that happen.

btw i am proud to be considered your new friend... i will not let you down nor will i squander this opportunity.

thank you so much!

Thank you ------. I never use form letters, they are impersonal. Relationships are key and you cannot develop one with questionnaires and pre written notes. That may very well be the difference between a Lifestyle Pro-Domme and other Pro-Dommes. 

Enjoy your day, 

~ Lady Hayward

Its a beautiful sunny day outside but its dark and dubious in the Hamilton dungeon. Lots of toys, tools, restraints, floggers and I can always arrange a full bladder if you need to shower. I have time this evening should you need discipline. 

Sun. Jan. 27/13

It's time I started adding to this section as I intend for it to shed a brighter light on who I am and what is acceptable to me. My decision has been to copy letters I've written to this journal. Of course not the short meaningless ones but the lengthier ones that express what is inside of me.

Here is the beginning;

Good afternoon sam,

I do get many offers, you are correct. Most of them are not so well written as yours and are authored by people whom I wouldn't even notice on the street let alone look at twice. In truth I'm not a snob, so you can just imagine the calibre of some of the people who write. Of all of these types of sites, I do find CM the best and it's now the only one I have an open account with.

My cage is still empty, so yes, I'm still looking for the one true submissive who I may one day partner with. "Looking" is not the right word. I have been quite happily single for 3 years now. 18  months ago I had to put my dog down, Bear, a Great Pyrenees who was my gallant protector for many years. This is the first time in my life I've lived completely alone and once I became used to the quiet, I found I really enjoy being strictly on my own time. Nurturing is an innate tendency of mine but my clients who entrust in me their greatest treasure/secret honour me and I take the care of that gift quite seriously. 

I'm no hater of men, I adore you.

A cuckold relationship interests me very much. I have been experimenting with it for a little while and the more I meditate over it, role played and tried it on for size, the more I am becoming enamoured. I have a ferocious sexual appetite but the bull who fucks right usually isn't the same person who I wish to engage for thoughtful conversation and life's pursuits. He's also unlikely to be the fellow who would happily go about polishing the silver, washing my hair or ironing my blouses. 

I believe different men were made for different roles. It's best if everyone finds their right place in life, as well, those who appreciate them in it. 

Thank you for the compliment. Any woman, myself included, can always be uplifted by the acknowledgment of her beauty. You will find I am at a different level in much of my life. We may explore that more in time. I hope you've had a pleasant weekend and look forward to receiving another letter from you.

~Lady Hayward