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We have had a terrific time exploring the public scene here
in Austin and have resumed our search for a grrl to be a part of our lives. We'd like nothing
more than for her to be a regular part of our life, but at this time we do NOT want
her to be a live in. We have
experimented quite a bit and find that what works best is for her to stay over for
a weekend 1-2 times a month and perhaps for special occasions as well. We
view this search as a gradual process so do not want or expect our search to happen quickly. Someone who wishes to be collared ASAP and be owned 24/7 right
away would not be a good fit with us at all. Once we get to know our new grrl, and feel comfortable with her, we will
see how things go. Life is all about negotiation
and change, but this is what we seek now and what we feel would be best for us
in regard to something we know we can do and what we are prepared to offer as well.
Also, we do not expect that we would be able to be the sole "significant other" in our grrls life. She would be allowed (perhaps encouraged even) to see others and continue to live her own life. We only ask that when she is with us, she
is with us completely. We are not looking
for a fuck-buddy or occasional distraction. A trip down to sixth street
and we can find that almost any night of the week. You would be a part of our lives and expected
to participate in it regularly, but at the same time, life is what it is. We all have jobs, family, friends, obligations,
hobbies, errands, what not… it’s
impractical to think that all 3 of our schedules would line up such that we
could spend every weekend together always and still get everything else we need
to get done in life. While the fantasy
is fun to entertain, at the end of the day, the lawn doesn’t mow itself,
laundry needs to be done, the dogs need to be run, groceries need to be bought, et cetera. Life is busy, and this is the real world, not some fantasy! We seek the special someone that is prepared to continue to be her own person, have her own life, but is still looking to serve and give of themselves to us for those times we share together.
We have few rules or expectations, but what we do lay down is steadfast and
absolute. These are: 1) No Lies! You lie, your gone. Period. We don’t care how damn cute you are! We will _NEVER_ lie to you, and expect the same
in return. We will have zero tolerance here. 2) No "Real" relationships. We are not “true” poly in
that we are not looking for love, but we are also not swingers. If you are looking for "Love" or to
be our other wife then this isn’t going to work out. We seek someone to
add to our lives, and for them to be a regular part of it, but that is all. While
it's impossible to form this type of relationship without an emotional
connection, if we had to put a label to this particular flavor of "It's Complicated" it would be that of "Very close and very dear friend." 3) No Drama! This has always been from someone breaking one of the previous two rules, but we feel this needs stating none the less. Our home is a drama free zone! We are attempting to be very open and state what it is we
desire. If this is a match for what you are seeking, terrific. If
not, get lost before you make all of our lives miserable. :)
About us:
He is 35, 6'3", 235lbs, is highly experienced in the BDSM scene, and has
been very involved in the local community over the last few years here in
Austin. He is a software tester by trade (anyone have a hard time seeing the
sadistic tester in the back torturing his development team?) and a semi-pro photographer (has sold pieces and been published) as well as a fabricator /
inventor / toybuilder by hobby as well as being heavily involved in Animal Rescue. He is a strict master, with a deliciously evil
sense of imagination, and always has a smile on His face.
She is 38, 5'6", 125lbs, has a 30-F bust (natural) and while she is still getting used to the more public aspects of the BDSM community she will continue
pursuing her Domme side much more at home. While she lacks as much "hands
on" experience as Wookie, she is also a wonderfully natural Domme and is
no stranger to the lifestyle or it's ideologies. She is very creative as well and enjoys sewing as well as landscaping / gardening.
We are both well educated, funny, with terrific senses of humor, and will be
taking a slow but steady approach to finding our grrl.
We have a beautiful secluded home on 14 wooded acres with a fabulous view in the Texas Hill Country,
24 miles SW of downtown Austin, in Dripping Springs, TX.
Additional photos will be gladly shared once we get to know you better.
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We would very much like for her to be HWP, or at least close and striving in
that direction. We are an attractive and active couple, and are looking for our
grrl to be a match to our lifestyle and activities. She will hopefully have
some level of experience in BDSM already. This is not required however as Wookie has quite a lot of experience at
training. For age range we are somewhat negotiable, but would like for her to be roughly the same age (perhaps younger depending on the particular grrl) but we find that anything more than 10-15 years in either direction just isn't going to be a good match. The
most important thing is her maturity level and interests as that will be highly evaluated in
regard to if she is invited to serve us and asked to be a part of our lives.
In an ideal world, she will have her own aspirations and her own life when she
is away from us. We can also certainly have a dedicated space for her in our home for the
weekends she spends with us as a place to keep items she wishes to leave to
make these "sleepovers" easier.
It's also important to note that she had best not be scared of, or allergic to,
dogs. We have two large dogs (Alaskan Malamute and a GSD/Lab
mix) and are quite active in local, state, and national animal rescue for
arctic breed dogs. Our dogs are our children, not just pets. That's
where you come in. ;) (NOTE: Due to questions about this "pet" joke... NO, that does NOT mean we are into puppy or pony
play! Quite the opposite in fact. We seek a HUMAN exclusively. Stop asking us about "animal" play, please! NOT INTERESTED in that, at all.)
If and when we take her under contract and collar her, it will be ONLY after
they complete a trial period of many weekend sleepovers and everyone wanting it
to continue. This is no different that any other standard relationship
where we will expect to have a series of short duration milestones, similar to vanilla world dating... the standard "get to know you better"
type time together.
We also know this form of a relationship is not what many are looking for and
that if you are looking to move in right away and live with us then we want
very different things and it's most likely not going to work out. There
is always room for negotiation, but we are just trying to be up front with
what it is we are seeking long term.
While our eventual goal is to find our grrl, we are also happy to explore
"no strings" and just have fun now and again. This is after all, our life, and we
intend to have as much fun in it as possible! :)
All applicants will be considered, but DO NOT waste His and Her time if you are
not seriously interested in being a part of our lives in an open and honest way
with no damn drama! We don't mind the casual play partner now and again, as that can be very entertaining, plus you
never know where something may lead, but we are serious in our search for a
grrl and are looking to add someone to our lives. Chewtoys are not discouraged, but again, please be aware of what our long-term goals are.
If grrl does not live in or around Austin,
that does not preclude her from being involved with us, and obviously it will
greatly complicate things.
No, you can not show up with bags and a "no limits, use me"
attitude! That sort of thing will NOT be tolerated, yes, even for you! :)
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There is a little asshat named Jason Fortuny (not on CM far as I know) who not only needs to be sued within an inch of his 30 year old life, but he needs a good old fashioned ass kicking. Maybe one of the 150 men who he fucked with will decide to provide that service.
What a little sociopath!
His "little experiment" easily could have destroyed many in the scene and outted many I'm sure! One of our friends back home in Seattle DID happen to get caught up in his experiment. He's mortified, but a bit wiser now. Luckily he didn't get hit as hard as some by being a little more conservative on what he wrote "her" and the pic he sent... but it also CLEARLY shows who he is. Our friend was outed, and there is nothing he can do about it now... nothing.
If you don't know what he did, google his name, and it'll give you all the dirty details on Encyclopedia Dramatica.
This is a perfect reason not to respond to personal ads (especially on Craigs List but CM as well) with face pics and personal details that can identify you. Needless to say, this has forced a bit of reconsideration as to how the wife and I interact with new folks here on CM. We will also likely be taking down any pics with our faces. I'm out, the wife, not so much! While it's pretty widly known we are "a little different" at my work, she is not able to be out at her work and our involvement in the scene would create a number of rather difficult to deal with problems at her work... including her possibly losing her job if discovered. I find this frustrating, but there isn't much we can do about it so we deal with it as best we can.
This little asshat however gives us pause to be certain, and is a perfect example of the internet generation and complete lack of honor, privacy, and integrity.
Yes, I know what we send to others is not private. This just serves as a reminder that there are some pretty awful human beings out there. The act of choosing who to spend that energy on, and more importantly who not to, is going to affect how we interact with new folks we "meet" online here on CM. :(
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