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Carlos10au

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Hi all Time to update my profile.
I am a Master with over 30 years experience as a Dom.
I'm looking for a girl either single or as part of a couple, who need a strict strong hand.
My ideal sub or slave girl would first of all have a brain of her own. Most importantly she can string a sentence together and can communicate intelligently. She would need to know how to dress to the occasion. I certainly prefer a non smoker and not a heavy drinker. All in all a girl that is open to kink but also a little sophisticated. A girl that I am not afraid to take out. I dislike foul language, swearing, as it indicates poorly developed communication skills. Sexually she would need to be submissive tending to slave. If we look at ancient times, slave girls were a priced commodity and rarely treated real bad. So punishments were used to show the slave her place, to inflict some pain as a reminder who is the Master, but never to injure her and do anything that would tarnish her beauty or diminish her market value. She would be trained to her Masters needs. She would love to have her body experimented on, gently her boundaries pushed. She would get used to long sessions of bondage. Being displayed like a sculpture, a piece of artwork she would be tied to a beam, displaying her beauty. I could imagine finding a slave/sub girl on a permanent base for a committed partnership. For this to work I need a girl who knows when to be a lady and when her Master wants her to be his eager sex toy, his slave, his lust object, his peace of meat to experiment on. Let me be precise. We would have to agree together what we both want. She should especially like spanking, ( I love a great arse with rosy colors). So a bit of pain taking would be required. I do not believe in heavy spanking where my slave can't sit for days, but rather in slow erotic punishment for hours, let the slave feel different implements on different parts of her body combined with caressing and teasing her. Let's face it. A slave girl has needs too. I am not against my slave being bi, she should only play with my knowledge and maybe with me included. I don't mind my slave girl leading a normal life and being discrete, but once we are alone this slave will follow my orders swiftly and do her best to please me. And that with all her orifices and body parts. She should be aware that her Master will punish her for any shortcomings. As I mentioned above a big part of my fetishes is girl ass. So I enjoy playing with a girls butt, enemas, toys etc. Before I forget. My slave girl keeps her private parts shaved. If I have to do it, then it's time for a longer punishment session. As slave girls have their needs too, we would need to discuss any options. It's a turn off for me or the slave, should we arrive at a point that suddenly destroys the moment. So you are encouraged to share your thoughts. .
4/16/2016 8:03:04 PM
Just a note to the subs and slaves who look for a Dom. It would be great if you state what sort of Master you look for. A hint about age range would be good. It will help to eliminate some of the responses you get from Doms or Mistresses you have no interest in. In addition a Dom cant be upset if you dont respond to his messages if they are out of your search criteria
2/23/2016 11:23:06 PM
New responses, new surprises. In my profile I try to be as specific as CS allows. I still get responses from "slaves" who try to tell me how I should train them. Dont call yourself slaves if you want to rule my day. I am not that desperate. I also can smell a scammer from half way around the world. Sure there are some things that are hard limits to a slave. But can anyone tell me how a slaves brain works when she says she likes ropes and bondage but her hard limits are shibari. Or she says lives for cane and crops and her hard limits is spanking? Subs and slaves think when you post your preferences
5/12/2015 4:32:53 PM
Now girls. There is no need to state in your profile that you are an expert in shopping.
That does not separate you from 99.7% of all other women.
There is no man on this planet who makes more money than a woman can spend.
A wise woman leaves that entry blank.
8/8/2014 6:42:02 PM
There is always something new and I still get sometimes surprised by the foolishness of someones approach.
To write me a message and saying nothing but "Hi" is one of them. Then I look at her profile and nothing is written.
The other message is "Hi looking for a Dom to share my interest" again the profile is blank.
Now I woould like to ask " Is your brain blank as well?" On this site you can be anonymous. So take the advantage to state your fantasies, describe your match. Don't worry there is a lid for every pot. But if you want to find the one that fits you, talk about yourself and also ask questiones
5/5/2014 5:42:37 PM

Ijust found another silly entry. Some slave girls noted in the section Hard Limits

> House work <

I am curious here. Do they expect their Master to clean after them?

5/4/2014 6:00:29 PM

Still enjoying looking through profiles to see what different fetishes slaves endulge in.

But please consider this.

When you choose colours for your text, have a look at the finished product. Can the potential Dom  or Master read it? What I want to say, dark blue letters on black bachground does not work. So do many other colour combinations.

Another point is the picture. I can understand that some girls do not want a pic on the net. But please, a pic of a sunset or some wise words spoken by some stranger and not you, dont do the same trick. Your profile is there to tell someone about you. There is no point not to fill out your stats. No need to hide your weight. Think straight, should you finally take the plunge to meet in person, you would not want the potential Dom make komments to this subject and then leave. Also dont write down your weight is 40kg when you are really a petite 300 pound girl.

All this will help you to reduce the junk mail.

4/30/2014 8:30:16 PM

Ican't help to notice, that some so called slaves or subs try to dom from the bottom.

I believe some fetishes listed in some profiles dont make sense.

Here are some examples of contradicting fetishes.

Loves ass play and hard limits enemas. Ass play should start with an enema, because an enema provides a clean environment. A sub or slave should consider this.

Others love spanking but hate canes and crops.

It is up to the Master what implements he uses to train his girl.

Of course every slave has her personal pain limit. There are different kind of spankings.

1. Encouraging spanking - light spankings during tasks to keep the slave focused.

2. Preparation spankings - a medium spanking to let the slave know training is about to      start.

3. Corrective spanking - for slack performance or bad execution of given tasks.

4. Punishment spanking - for misbehaving or unwillingness to perform duties.

A punishment spanking should take the slave slightly past her comfort zone to let her know that its time to learn total obedience.

11/4/2013 3:30:08 PM

Huh another fool trying to correct my grammar. Should I feel sorry for those whose only enjoyment in life is reading through profiles and finding some mistakes.

I thought this is a contact site for different fetishes.

If I want someone to proof read my English I would say so. It is not my intention to write stories here for some loser to pretend to be a professor of English language from Cambridge.

I suggest get a life.

7/2/2013 4:49:21 PM

Hi again

 

It is always interesting to see new girls and couples with new fantasies.

There is a lot of complaining from both subs and Dom's about profiles.

To the subs, if you want to narrow down your search to less but more quality  e mails,

start with stating the age group you are looking for.

I also find sub girls with very rude and profane language. The only partner you will find are rude Dom's. If you prefer a more sophisticated Dom, I suggest to adjust your language to that respect.

To Dom's who are disappointed when getting no response and then complain, its the same thing. The first impression counts.

During ancient time, slave girls were a priced commodity. Maybe you should treat them like that to start with. You don't kick the door of your new Mercedes either.

6/11/2013 8:05:58 PM

The last couple of weeks a couple of bogus profiles appeared on CM, warning other users of fakes and time wasters. I have to assume these are posts from unsuccessful folks who call themselves Dominants or Masters. After all this is still a free society, where people can choose who they want to have contact with. For crying out loud, get a grip on yourselves and control your twisted egos. Remember L stands for Looser.

8/4/2012 6:30:03 PM

Reading through some new profiles gives you a true overview of the intelect of

the members of CM.

Can someone explain that?  In the profile it says "Looking for people with similar interests to me". You look at the profile and it is all blank.

Then they are complaining of unwanted mail. Sounds familiar?

 

Another issue that strikes me. There seem to be an awfull lot of self styled grammar teachers and spelling wizzards out there.

I ask them "Is that the only calling you have left in your life?"

Is that how you announce your superiority?

I suggest get a life. Get off your butts and travel.

2/8/2012 4:17:39 PM

Wow had some conversation with a few young ladies. They write beginner into their profile, but seem to know it all. Goodness me. You'd think they have been in this life style as soon as they were toilet trained.

Please ladies, dont say you are sub, if you want to direct a dom what he should like and what not. Or judge a dom on his preferences.

Just state yours, thats fine. CM caters for a whole range of fetishes. Be honest to yourself and keep your profile updated. With a more defined profile you have much more chance to find the right partner, just for you.

7/23/2011 8:00:08 PM

This site has quite an amazing array of different people.

Though I understand that there are people from different cultural and social backgrounds, I still sometimes wonder about the approach of some so called subs or slaves. And about their profiles.

 

You would think if someone gets offended by older Doms or Dommes writing them, I thought it would be a normal thing to mention in your profile the age range they are considering.

Thats what a profile is for, well I thought.

And I dont think someone should be offended by that.

Its a normal thing.

 

Its quite astonishing to get rude replies from subs who keep their profile simple.

So dont be surprised. If you have a profile like a moron, with a swear word in every sentence, you have a very good chance to get replies that reflect your language.

 

A real slave or sub knows how to be respectfull. Those who dont are only pretenders.

 

That goes for true Doms as well. A real Dom relies on his inner strength, not on a maximum of foul language iin an as small as possible message.

misjaded
 
 Age: 32
 Wilmington, Massachusetts