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Hetero Female Submissive, 37,  Los Angeles, California
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sfvalleyowl DOMwithIQ sexyblackdom818 TheSenator DragoonsBlade

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 Submissive Female

 Los Angeles 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 1"

 139 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

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I think I have found Mr. Right.  I am currently taken. Thanks for visiting my profile. 12/18/09

1/24/10 update...... I finally pushed my man to edge.  He gave me a really, really good whipping today.  Belt..severe, paddle..not so bad after the belt, cane...since in an awkward position it was mediocre, and OTK...not a lot this time which was too bad.  On a scale of 1 to 10, I rate this whipping a 6.  Whooo hooo.

So far my Dom is awesome.  He treats me so good, like no other.  He really cares about me and loves that I am a SAM, well, to a point. Lol.  He acknowledges nice things about me and makes me feel good about myself.  He isn't as strict as I would prefer and the pain is lacking, but we communicate very well.  So far he has given me OTK's, the belt and a mediocre paddle. Hee hee

A little about me.....

I am half girl, half tomboy, all woman.  

I'm a bit of a SAM at times which makes life fun.  I am a happy-go-lucky simple girl who loves the simple pleasures of life. I am a masochist, kind of a prude, and am very courageous. 

I can take an incredible amount of pain and I find that I have trouble feeling/letting go of emotion.  Pain allows me to do that. 

Please feel free to write me if you care to chat.  I'm not on this site as often as I'd like, so it may take me a bit to respond.  My mail is automatically set up where men the age of 50 or more, go to the bulk mail, that would be the only reason I wouldn't respond to your e-mail.  I look like a cross between Helen Hunt and Mary Stuart Masterson.  Due to my job, I have a picture upon request.


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Journal Entries:
6/12/2011 1:15:12 AM

Okay, so no education weekend however, we did communicate.  My need for pain on my ass cheeks when I sit down has become so great.  It's a freedom in one way and a curse in another.  I have never felt this comfortable in my masochism in my life.  I used to hide what I was.  I knew at age 15 what I was.  when I was a kid, maybe 7, I would play house ALOT and I would always be the bad kid and want the punishment.  I would be bad at school where they gave "Cracks" with a wooden paddle.  I was always, always getting into trouble.  I even had the odacity to tell my teacher whom I had a crush on at the time, that he should divorce his wife and marry me right in front of the whole class.  I have never been one to not speak my mind, but it does get me into trouble.  When I was a teenager, I sought out negative attention from boys so they would beat me up.  When I got a little older, I looked at "odd" magazines, videos of kidnapped women, chained women, westerns where the women were man handled, then I found a book when I was 15 on masochism and it was like, wow, this is me.  Then I ignored it because I thought it was against God so I lived it through bondage books when I could find them and movies.  I tried romance novels, but those women who write those books need a lesson.  They keep writing the men as threatening to punish the women, but then they get all musshy and forgive them with no follow thru on the punishment, grrrrrrrr.  Then I hit age 35, which must have been my peak.  I started searching and found the website taken in hand which was very enlightening and I felt a part of this world finally.  That website led me here and i feel safe here that's why I write.  I want to inquire and talk to people more about it.  I am facinated by people and love all the diversity of people.  What necessarily may not work for me, works for someone else and that's great and interesting.  K, off to bed I go. :)

6/9/2011 1:55:04 AM

Hopefully some education is headed our way Friday night.  Which should equate to some discipline that has been constructively suggested for me with all the right instruments to deliver the best beating ;)  Yeah for me.

6/6/2011 7:03:52 PM

Bottom feels decent on the wooden chairs kind of eh on the padded ones.  more pain, need more painnnnn :)

6/6/2011 12:58:48 AM

The whippings are increasing and getting much better. :)


5/16/2011 11:38:27 PM

Okay, so I don't know what's wrong with me, but my own ass whooping did me no good.  Ahhhhhh, hopefully Wed. AM I good a good whopping from my man. :) :)

5/15/2011 7:27:39 PM

No boyfriend, so the belt in the closet was tempting me, calling me as no one was home but me.  I picked it up and started whipping my back and ass with it.  Not much effect as it is hard to get a good swing in, but it kinda did the trick.  I then remembered that he left the paddle at my house under the bed.  Mind you, it's off limits for me to touch however, desperate times call for desperate measures.  It was awkward, but my ass feels good now and both cheeks were spoiled equally.  I'll see how it feels tomorrow if I did a good job or not.  Yeahh for me. :)

5/14/2011 11:58:32 PM

Looking forward to a good beating and a car show.  I should bring a metal chair to sit down on afterwards.  Pain would be much better. :)  Can't wait.

5/4/2011 11:01:53 PM

Oh woe is me.  I am freakin dying here.  I want a beating soooooooo bad.  It's like an ache that doesn't get soothed.  Now I think I know what blue balls is and how a guy feels.  This kills.  I look forward to a beating and either get shot down, avoided, postponed or it's over in a flash.  I want my ass to hurttttttttt.  Sometimes being a masochist sucks.  It's hard to like what I like.  No one understands me and men don't want to "hurt" you.


:(  Sad, need release.

2/24/2011 10:11:03 PM

So I got the belt a little on my ass and a little on my back, the back is good for the emotional release.  I want to not be able to sit down for a week.  I want to back up against the rails in the elevator at work and wince when I bounce off of it over and over again.  Hurts sooo good. :)

2/5/2011 6:54:56 PM

Now I am completley jonsing.  I neeed emotional release, ahhhhhhhh.  Where's the belt?  I can't take it anymore.

8/22/2010 5:00:47 PM
So since I got upset the other day and my mouth got away from me, I was set for punishment today.  At first he drags me ino the room and has me get down on my knees.  He explains why I am about to be punished, I of course beg. What for I'm not quite sure.  He forces me over the bed and lets me have it with his hand.  Then he goes to take out the thick belt from the closet and lets me have it with that.  Then he goes for the wooden paddle with holes, but I have hid it.  I thought it was hilarious.  Nope!!! He didn't. He was mad.  I even almost got a face slap for it, but no.  (too bad).  He walks out of the room to cool his heals and walks back in calm. He really let me have it wooden paddle, hair brush, wooden paddle, hair brush.  One cheek hurts more than the other, but my ass feels sooooooo good.  Wow, the best ever!!! I should hide the paddle more often.  Unfortunately, I have been banned from touching it. :/

8/21/2010 10:00:23 AM

So my boyfriend had the perfect opportunity to beat me and didn't.  Now I'm supposed to be punished for my mouth as I let it get away from me.  He says 100 swats over the knee..ooooooo I'm sooooo nervous.  Please, grrrrr

8/19/2010 8:37:02 PM
Vanilla life today completely.  No more pain in my rear and just going about my day cleaning like crazy :)

8/18/2010 7:34:41 PM

Wooden Paddle came in the mail today I hear.  I'm going to hide that sucker.  I'm trying to get other impliments of torture besides that one.  My ass still hurts.  I've been sitting on the edge of my wooden seat. Mmmmmmmm

8/17/2010 11:27:46 PM
Okay, so my Sir read my journal post and boy did I get it.  My ass hurts, yummmm :)  He even said that was half of what he was going to give me.  Mmmmmmm.  He did spank me with my hairbrush which is like the wooden paddle.  I threw it across the room so he wouldn't touch it again. Lol.  I expected him to fetch it, lol, but that didn't happen either.  He gave up.  Lucky me or shall I sayyy lucky my ass. Hee hee.  I looovveee sitting down right now.  After I was tugging on his belt cause I wanted more.  I am such a junkie.

8/15/2010 1:04:36 PM
Okay, I need pain.  This is ridiculous.  I get spankings sure, some more intense than others.  I need some freakin frackin good pain!!!!.   Flogger, Dragons Tail Whip, Chain mail whip, even as much as I hate it.....THE WOODEN PADDLE, yes I said it, my worst fear. this is how desperate I am.  Kneeling on pencils, hangers, etc.

2/28/2010 9:55:03 PM
Someone beat me please, I neeedddd a good whoopinnnn :)

6/25/2008 11:04:17 PM


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