- The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

'To Dominate is to protect, cherish and keep safe.'   “Growth is painful. Change
Hetero Male Dominant, 48,  U.K., United Kingdom
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line

Vertical Line










Last Online:


 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 6' 0"

 210 lbs




 12 minutes

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

"To Dominate is to protect, cherish and keep safe."


“Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.” - Mandy Hale


There is nothing more erotic than being understood - Molly Haskell

There are years that ask questions, and years that answer. -Zora Neale Hurston

"It is never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot

"If I won't be myself, who will?" -Alfred Hitchcock

"When the student is ready, the Master appears. ” Buddhist Proverb

"No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each others worth." - Robert Southey


"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude." - Denis Waitley


Caring, yet rough....wise, experienced (15+ years), romantic, gentlemanly, educated and erotic...I appreciate that submission is given, and not demanded....and, I love to guide, to share wisdom, to protect, control and sweetly torment in a loving way...the sub's safety and best interests are always top priority.....the most erotic organ lies between the ears....

Love to cherish, inspire, nurture, teach and guide a sub to explore her submissive side and find her true nature, finding her limits and helping her push some of empower her... also, am very protective (love to look after a girl's best interests, even above mine) and love to make a girl feel safe and very respectful, affectionate, tactile, sensual - yet Dominant and love to control in a caring and loving to understand a sub's needs and wants....and am very much a "mind" guy who believes that D/s starts with the mental dynamic, not sex....and love to take a girl into "sub space".....safely.

I believe a Dom/sub relationship is a power exchange and is also an emotional dance ...of leading and following...I enjoy leading and taking a sub on a rich journey of self-discovery, fulfillment and be in alignment with her real self....and help her reach her higher self.....I love to teach about life and wisdom, not just D/s....

I enjoy the whole journey of discovering a girl's needs and wants, noting things in her that she herself may not be aware of - her inner contradictions and inner understand and read her cherish give her the respect she needs as well as the push her boundaries to the edge in a safe yet Dominant bring out the sub in her, and appreciate her for her qualities....and most of all, to be patient and compassionate and not expecting perfection (well, I am not how dare I play God???!!!

Are you looking for a wise and experienced Dom who will allow the inner, deeper sub slut below the surface to come out safely? I LOVE to respect and protect the woman, desire the slut, and cherish the little girl that all go to make up the sub. Importantly, I very much appreciate the gift of submission and the trust that lies behind it.....
If the above appeals, please contact me....keep well....with warmest wishes for a rich journey.....xxxxx

Horizontal Line

Copyright © 2019 and  All Rights Reserved.
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Requirements Compliance Statement

Member Video
  Browse users in: