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I am currently mentoring, training, controlling and protecting a wonderful submissive. As such, I will not be responding to others at this time. Thanks for your anticipated co-operation in this regard.
Quick Facts: I am single. I have no children. I don’t smoke, drink, or do drugs.
For starters, and first and foremost, I am simply looking to have genuine, in-depth and intelligent communications - be they online or face to face - with any naturally born female submissive or DOM/submissive couples on this CM site. After all, one can always learn from the thoughts, insights and experiences of others. Hopefully, like me, you view this as a two-way street. You should also know that I am more then willing to discuss whatever non-BDSM, "life in general" topics that might be on your mind as well. In other words, the BDSM lifestyle does not define my entire life and being. As my full CM profile will attest to, I have many other varied interests as well.
I want it to be known that I like to mentor, guide and advise those who truly want to learn; or simply wish to ask a serious question. You see, I have always garnered personal satisfaction from helping others. Of course, I cannot offer any guarantees in this regard; but I do try. Or, maybe you just want a sympathetic soul to bounce thoughts, ideas or feelings off of? If that is the case - well then - I am someone whom you should feel free to contact. Oh, and just to be clear, at this point in time I am not looking for a "live together happily ever after" type arrangement.
Now, just in case you are wondering, “Yes”, I do have both real-time and online experience in the actual nurturing of female submissives that have had a genuine desire in engaging a DOM in this capacity. So, does that mean that I am looking to guide you? Well, ONLY if that is something that you yourself are looking for. In other words, we can discuss the possibilities if you so wish. All I do know is that I would be willing to put in the requisite time and commitment to the learning process - but only IF you are. With all that being said – and probably not unlike yourself - my preference is, always has been, and always will be, to participate with female submissives in “real time”. However, given the all too often scarcity of compatible, local partners; or the vast distances that separate most of us, the majority of the time such guidance may need to take place via electronic means. As unfortunate as that may be for both parties involved, I do believe that such an arrangement is still quite workable. Due to the wonders of modern technology it is possible to inject healthy doses of reality into a virtual learning scenario. For those of you that don't happen to believe that statement - not a problem. If you are seeking "real-time" guidance only, believe me, I fully understand that. For the record, I do not believe in a "cookie cutter" approach to the learning process. It is my belief that - like snowflakes - no two "submissive" are alike. Each is unique in her own special way; and in her desires. That means that a specifically structured and tailored approach to their guidance must be taken. It must be both purposeful and methodical. And, as always, open and honest communication must play an integral part. I can assure you that your feedback will always be welcomed and considered by me, your questions answered, and your needs respected.
Regardless of the degree to which we may mutually decide to engage one another, I will do everything in my power to earn your trust. Nor will I ever violate whatever trust you place in me. I, myself, will not be asking you for any photographs, live webcam sessions, your physical address; or your phone number. Providing any of this information is, and always should be, your choice. You can also infer from that statement that I will not be freely providing that information either. If we are simply or strictly communicating online, it is really only your mind that matters to me. That is, your perceived maturity level, your depth and breadth of knowledge, your ability to clearly express your thoughts, and your innate moral compass are all important to me. That means that under such circumstances (i.e. online communications) it matters not what you look like. The physical distance between us - and with some qualifications your age as well - holds no relevance to me. Anyhow, I hope I have allayed some of the fears or concerns that you may have.
Before deciding to e-Mail you, or invite you to a private "chat" session, you will know that I have read your full profile beforehand; and have deemed you to be an interesting and intelligent person that I might like to communicate with. We will then jointly decide what topics we wish to discuss - be it BDSM related, current national and international events, sports, science, music, or the price of rice in China. And, if the discussion goes in a direction that you don't want it to go, just say so. Anyhow, I hope you get the picture in terms of what I am saying here.
With the utmost in humility, I consider myself to be an intelligent man with a good sense of humor; and a relatively uninhibited mind. I am nothing if not patient, caring, compassionate, giving, respectful, trustworthy, sensitive and empathetic. People would say that I generally possess an easy going and "down to earth" personality. I do take great pride in being an honest and trustworthy man. Now, lots of men say that; but I guarantee it. Privacy and discretion are very important to me - just as they should be to you. Finally, please understand that I am a gentleman first; and a DOM second. I take both of those roles very seriously. I have always understood, and appreciated, a woman's need to do her due diligence on forums such as this. There are just too many "loony tunes" out there today. I just don't happen to be one of them. Maybe all that I can say is: “Choose wisely”. Remember that sometimes the answer to a problem can be serendipitously staring you right in the face. So, don't over-analyze things. Don't dissect other member's profiles to the N-th degree. And, don't be too quick to discard the opportunity to communicate with another CM member based upon one or two truly minor things you may come across in their profile.
Now, I think it is important to list just a few things that I don't find overly appealing in other people: Smoking, heavy drinking, drug use, rudeness, arrogance, loud or obnoxious behavior, mean-spiritedness, dishonesty and disrespectfulness.
If you would like to get a better sense for where my interests lie - well - either check out my "full" profile in its entirety on this site; or drop me an e-Mail. IF after reading through my full profile you think that I am someone that you would like to enter into a discussion with - well - then please feel free to do so. Thanks.
So, what about you? Well, for starters, you are "preferably" (but not necessarily) a straight woman. For reasons we can discuss if you wish, you should probably be 30+ years of age. Ideally, you are an expressively feminine lady with a good sense of humor and exhibited intelligence. That is, you can spell with admirable proficiency; and can form complete sentences. You are a problem solver; and capable of thinking "outside the box". You are a self respecting, sexually confident, discreet, trustworthy and uninhibited woman. In your day to day life you exhibit confidence without being arrogant; and humility without having an inferiority complex. You would both possess and exhibit to me - in what ever manner you may so choose - the following traits: Intelligence, honesty, genuineness, openness, sensuality, good written communication skills, respect for both yourself and me, common courtesy, trustworthiness, discretion, confidence; and of course, a good sense of humor. Open, honest communication is still important to me; and it should be to you.
In the darkest crevices of your mind do you hunger for a man to take control of both your body and your mind? Is it possible that the small pleasure center in your brain (i.e. your "mind clit") is throbbing; and in serious need of some soothing and sensual stimulation? Think about that. Would you be here - on a site such as CollarMe - if that wasn't the case? Could it be that this man possesses the cure? Maybe I do? But, I cannot offer you any assurances in that regard - at least not until such time as we have had the opportunity to openly discuss your symptoms.
Now, it is not hard to sense the frustration that many of you feel with respect to your experiences on this site. I see it in many of your profiles. Without question, there are a certain percentage of the members on the CM site who lie about their age, gender, location, interests or true reason(s) for being here. I really wish that I could explain to you why some people on this site struggle with the truth; but I cannot. However, always remember this. Regardless of how you may personally feel about your individual experiences on this site, everyone deserves your respect. You may not agree with their methods or actions; but you must simply strive to rise above them in terms of your honesty and integrity. By doing so, you will come out ahead in the long run.
Anyhow, I hope that you have found the details of my profile of personal interest to you. If not, well then I wish you nothing but success in finding exactly what it is you are looking for. It is not an easy journey; but you must remain steadfast to your personal principles, values and desires.
Thanks for stopping by.
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