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Life is a funny little thing. Something starts one way and ends up as something totally unexpected.
I used to say I am looking for a submissive woman who fundamentally desires service. I used to say that would be enough. I have found however that it is not. What I want is a woman who wants to be owned. Not in some figurative fairytale way. Not a fairytale. Not ownership of her heart and mind only. I want a woman who wants to be owned period. Her the actual person. Wholly and completely. In a literal consensual way. A woman who in time wants to give herself totally to a man she knows to be her owner and master. The person she obeys, the person who in time she also comes to love.
Now I am not talking about some sort of TPE kink fest. I am not talking about a pleasure based arrangement either. I am talking about a genuine relationship that has permanence. A relationship where there is no ambiguity about who is in charge, One where there is a clear and obvious structure. One leader. One master. We may have our sexual and bdsm kinks and we surely will indulge, however that can never be the focus of the relationship.
Relationship. Not game or play. A relationship does not start and end in the bedroom. A relationship is not a collection of words and phrases combined with a particular set of bdsm acts. A relationship is about care and concern. About trust and truthfulness. Making sure the one you are responsible for is at her best and when she is not taking the time to find out why, and making the effort to help fix the problem. It is about realising and acknowledging that you are responsible for the welfare, safety and security of another human being. One that has placed her faith and trust in you. It is about recognising that you are bonded to another, that you serve another and not yourself, that you belong to him, that he is Master. That you cannot betray the trust that he has placed in you.
A relationship does not happen overnight. It takes time. It takes time to get to know someone, and after you get to know them a bit, it takes more time for trust to be developed. Anyone who tells you that they trust you after two days of chatting is a liar. They may not realise it but their recognition is not a requisite to it being the truth.
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| Age: 18 |
| N London,
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