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katrina01
As I'm logging in here a little more often I think a new updated profile is in order so will add more in time.
But basically I'm looking for something long term, open too on-going friendship and play but ideally would like to find a serious relationship. I've a very broad mind of what I'd like too explore, I'm open minded and open to possibilities though there are some higher up the list than others. The sexual side of the relationship is 100% under my control in every way, period.

There will be rules at my discretion beyond the bedroom .

Punishments will be used if displeased, potentially corporal but more often things like corner time, denial of sexual release/favourite food/something treasured and as I learn more about you things you’ll hope to avoid.

My word is final in all situations in the relationship. I expect and desire conversation and openness but when I make a choice, that is our choice. The extent of this will grow as the relationship and trust grows. The following are preferences in what I seek in a sub; I've nothing set in stone as it's the unique combination that is unknown to be the right one until ones finds it. Younger than me, for a long term relationship 24+ Shy(ish) quieter type. New or relatively so too this. A bit geeky and/or nerdy. Bisexual or curious. Sub but possibly Dom too other females.
Likes fun and socialising but not to excess. Enjoys cuddles, romance and being a 'normal' couple in combination with the D/s side. Willing to discuss her feelings and to be totally open about her needs with me. Sees being submissive as the genuine her, that there is a burning need deep inside just too please another. A little about me, it's hard to sum myself up and really come across as me in a few lines. I'm honest, open and loyal. I'm a bit nerdy, enjoy socialising, films, walking and all the usual things and I'm more a listener than a talker. I try to see the best in people and while I'm strong minded and not a push over I'm gentle, kind and caring with a big romantic streak and easy going nature. I'm probably not the typical Dom in many ways, I'm not arrogant, selfish or see this as a means to a end to get sex on demand (though of course I'm a man.... sex when and how I want is a HUGE bonus!) but I hope that the qualities I have would make me a better, more understanding Dom and ultimately allow my partners to fulfil their deepest needs in a balanced unison with mine. If you would like to chat drop me a line and pick your favourite quote from below and explain why it appeals too you.
************************ ‘The task of a Dominant is not to force her to her knees, it is to make her feel hollow when she is not on them.’ ‘To reject what all men most desire as something you would not be part of as a sub, is to reject any notion that you are all but role playing the part.’ 'A true submissive doesn't care what she does, merely for whom she does it' ‘Without romance a lash loses its sting’
1/22/2015 3:48:55 PM
Hmmmm, so first time back here in a long time.... not since last summer and not actively since early 2013!

Thought I'd dip my toe in again, may update my profile but basically I'm still seeking the same which is a first, usually it shifts slightly but maybe I now know what i want clearly

Now the easy part.... finding a genuine, nice, normal girl and having a mutual attraction. Did I say easy.... I meant impossible;P
2/24/2008 5:47:26 AM
Got to love the Orgasm denial phone sex advert....  obvioulsy targeted at the intellectually challenged.

If you thought that normal phone sex lines were expensive prepared to be shocked!
blackbirdsub
 
 Age: 28
 Joliet, Illinois