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***UPDATE! We are the proud owners of patches23wm! We are still interested in chatting with subs and Doms! Feel free to send us a message. *** Hello! We're a domme/dom couple looking for weekend play, and possible LTR with the right sub(s). I'm the female half of the couple...allow me to introduce us. People say that I'm interesting and fun to hang out with, but I'll let you be the judge of that. I like to read, write, sew, cook, and dance. I'm also dabbling in amateur photography and filmmaking--perhaps you'd like to model for me. Dear Husband is 5'3", bisexual, built like Glen Danzig, Hispanic, and lots of fun to be around. He loves video games, bad movies, dancing, singing, heavy metal and pro wrestling. He loves making people laugh, and lots of people think that he's interesting too. We're looking for bi men, bi trans and bi/straight women subs between the ages of 18 and 40 who like to play on the weekends mostly. We do have a few stipulations if you want to become our sub, so please read the following carefully: We are sensual Doms. If you are looking for someone to beat you and/or cause you pain, we are not the Doms for you. It's far too easy to get someone to submit to you using pain; anyone can do that. To gain someone's submission through the use of physical pleasure is much more of a challenge. To see a sub's body writhe in ecstasy as they pull against their restraints, to hear their moans and sighs as you bring them to earthshattering orgasm again and again...that is much more satisfying than to have a bruised, bleeding, whimpering thing at your feet. Since we don't live the lifestyle 24/7 (and let's be honest, who really could unless they were independently wealthy), we don't expect you to either. We know that you have a vanilla job, vanilla friends, etc, outside of us. You are not at our beck and call constantly (unless you want to be ;-))--we understand that you have your own life and other obligations outside of us. We expect you to get along with us on a vanilla level. We would like to form strong friendships with our subs because this builds the trust that is so important in the dom/sub relationship. If you're looking for a "wham-bam-nice-beating-you-ma'am" type of relationship, we aren't the doms for you. We work out 3-4 times a week, so we think that it's reasonable to ask you to be at the same level of fitness. You don't have to look like Johnny Depp or Katy Perry, just keep yourself in good condition. We also expect you to shave your body hair. Guys, this means you as well; DH and I are both shaved. OK, if you've read this far kudos to you and we hope you're still interested! If so, please contact us here and we'll arrange a meeting in a public, neutral location to see if we click. After that...well, we'll see. ;-)

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10/3/2010 12:03:16 PM
FROM THE DESK OF LADY SPOOK: All right, it's been a while since we've updated the journal. After looking at both Dom and sub profiles, we have some minor issues with the folks here on CollarMe. Since both Lord Barnabas and I are fans of Bill Maher, we will address them in the form of New Rules. NEW RULE: Nobody should say anything in an introductory email that they wouldn't say to a stranger in a real-life social setting. I'm looking at you, Doms. Quit scaring off the subs with your "All of your holes are for my use" and "I want to use you for breeding" intro emails. You're not in a scene yet, you're (hopefully) trying to start a dialogue with someone you're interested in. Your vulgar emails are making the subs skittish to the point where they dread looking at any email from a Dom, and that makes it hard for all of us to connect. Be polite and play nice. NEW RULE: If you make first contact with us and we respond, write us back! Even if you've changed your mind and don't want to consider us to be your Doms, at least write us back and tell us. It's very frustrating to be left hanging like that. NEW RULE: Not all Doms are are out to make you their sub. Sometimes we'll contact people because something in their profile grabs our attention and we think that they'd be interesting to talk to. We know you live clear across the country and don't want to relocate--why should that stop us from being friends? NEW RULE: Doms can be friends with other Doms and/or switches. Again, if you're a Dom/switch and we contact you, it's because we find you interesting and would like to get to know you. We are not trying to trade subs with you, we don't want to buy subs from you. Who knows? You might like us too. NEW RULE: A Dom/sub is not a "fake" if they don't answer your email. Lord Barnabas and I are well aware that we are not everyone's cup of tea, so there are no hard feelings if our intro emails are not answered or if a potential sub changes their mind about us. You can't please everyone, so please stop whining about no one answering your emails. Maybe you need to revamp your profile or add some photos. NEW RULE: If you ask someone for "tribute" in order to prove their seriousness, you're not a Dom--you're a whore. That goes for the male Doms as well as the female Doms. Likewise, if you try to direct a potential sub to your "pay-for-play" site, you are also a whore. Not that there's anything wrong with being a whore, but let's keep that kind of advertising where it belongs--on Craigslist. That's all from me--I'm sure that Lord Barnabas will have his own set of New Rules when he next updates the journal. Have a great weekend!

8/1/2010 4:51:42 PM
FROM THE DESK OF LORD BARNABAS:

ALLLLLL HAIL LOOORD BARNABAS!  ROCKER WARRIOR AND GOD!  Just kidding (lol).  Greetings!  My name is Lord Barnabas!  I am the DH to my beautiful wife (whom you all know) as Lady Spook.  I was a dom a few years back to a really cool sub couple (boy and girl), dropped out of the lifestyle for stupid reasons (damn catholic guilt), and now I'm trying to get back into the scene.  Lady Spook has asked me to write about my dom style (not my vampire slaying or alien abductions) and to share them with you.  OK!  Here it goes:

I believe I can be a good dom to the right subs.  I have a flair for the theatrics; which means I love to have fun in the scenes that I perform.  Whether it be a mad scientist, sadistic warden, or a horror villian, I would always like to have fun with a scene and hope that the subs have fun as well.  Like my dearest wife always says: "If you're not having fun, why do it?". 

Some subs might be frightened by a male dom.  Probably because they believe that male doms are intimidating hardasses who love the thrill of berating, humiliating, or causing subs real pain.  I am in NO way, shape, or form any of those things.  I treat my subs the way I want to be treated; with dignity and respect.  And to have FUN!  I may look like a hardass; but I'm a very caring and understanding person. 

I'm a very protective dom.  When I dommed for my sub couple (back in the day), I made sure that noone EVER touched them or hurt them in any way.  I was called "Wolverine" because I'm short and I like to brawl.  I would make a great "protector" to whoever subs for me. 

My idea of the whole BDSM business is one thing: To have fun, to gain trust from my subs, and above all else, the subs put their trust in me.  I'm loyal to you if you're loyal to me. 

Well, that's all I have for now.  To all my future subs, I end with this: I don't just want to be your dom, I want to be your hero as well.  Thanks for reading and good night.  Believe in Heroes!

--Lord Barnabas

7/18/2010 6:40:17 PM
FROM THE DESK OF LADY SPOOK: Greetings, Lovely Ones! I am Lady Spook, the female half of the domme/dom couple attached to this profile. Lord Barnabas and I will be sharing journal duties, so please look at the "From the Desk of..." title at the top so that you'll know who's writing which particular entry. We've been living here in Orlando for the past two years, and I must say that it's been a wonderful time for both of us. The beach is a short drive away and the scenery and people are much nicer than our old location, SoCal. Too much concrete and plastic for my tastes (and I'm speaking of both the people and the landscape). We'd love to share our little slice of paradise with people who share our vanilla interests as well as our BDSM/kink interests. This is proving to be difficult, as it seems that just about everyone we've talked to that we like seems to want a 24/7 dom/sub relationship. While BDSM certainly plays a role in our lives, it's not the end-all/be-all of our existence. All of us play different roles in our lives--spouse, boy/girlfriend, employee, friend, etc. Each of these roles is different; for example, we play our "employee" role differently than we play our "spouse" role. Some of these roles are difficult to play for long stretches of time. Just ask anyone who has had to go on a company trip how hard it is to play their "employee" role for the duration of the trip. You can't ever really relax, even when you're at one of the parties! Likewise, while I enjoy being a domme I think that if I tried playing that role 24/7 it would just be exhausting for me. I also feel that I would become dull and boring, because subs would only get to see that facet of my personality. Matt, the dom who trained me to be a domme, started out as my friend first. He made me feel comfortable about trying BDSM because I got to know the "non-dom" parts of his personality; I trusted him completely. I also knew that whether we were training/at play or not, I was always gauranteed to enjoy his company. I decided that I wanted to be a domme like Matt--not just a Lady and a Mistress, but also a friend and a confidant. Someone who cares about their subs for who they are, not just what they'll do for their domme. The search continues...I'll keep you posted on our progress. Have a good night!

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