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What am I doing here? I'm here to make friends,lovers and learn more about the kinky tapestry that is human sexualitity. After all ,there are only two things an intelligent man (or woman) need truly devote serious thought to; sex and death.
Not everyone "gets me". Thats ok, for the people I seek to connect with will share a belief in their own moral compass and be largely indifferent to the opinions of those with self-appointed authority or those they don't respect.
I identify as a dominant man, and I look towards ongoing relationships with those who put a premium on friendship, loyalty and humor. I am wary of labels and dislike the idea of finding myself boxed in by others expectations. That said, I think the abstract title "Gentleman Dom" might do for now. I am drawn to the daddy role, and I also like creating tableaux or scenes of kinky elegance,power exchange and restraint.
I am curious about training and caring for a pet, in fact any number of BDSM pursuits that involve elements of role playing, sensuality, spontaneity and importantly, fun.
I have come to understand the overwhelming importance of communicating the emotional rules, conditions and thoughts we put into playing with others . Then we may play not only safely, but also not waste each other's time with unnecessary fears over things we are truly looking to explore.
I admire people who maintain their curiosity about the world and are prepared to admit that the more we learn, the more we discover there is to learn.
I have a fascination with vehicles, love flying and riding my motorbike .I have travelled however there is still a lot of world to see, and I would love to see it with someone else.
I am interested in the psychology, politics, diversity and physicality of human sexuality, and love to have preconceptions challenged, like this
As much as I have little interest in expressing myself vicariously, I can't help but feel this goes at least some way toward what I like as a more sensual kinda top,
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I am a sapiosexual ( what thinking person isn't ?),with a desire to show and be shown anything new, different and exciting. Life isn't , after all, a dress rehearsal. If you are an intelligent, adventurous woman who can make me laugh,(and occasionally pretend to laugh at my jokes), then you have my undivided attention. ...the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones that never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes "Awww!" Kerouac -"On the road". To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better,..to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded! Emerson

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10/5/2016 7:22:39 AM
Random perspective on sex. "Sex is not a goddamn performance. Sex should feel as natural as drinking water. It should not require confidence. Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe. Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire. You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh. It?s not about being ?good in bed.? It?s about being happy. One should never worry if they?re doing it ?correctly.? Sex is not factual. I don?t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don?t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don?t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It?s enough. What do most men like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there?s only one. Hello,heres you. Heres me.We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later. Don?t worry about making me come. I?m here. Right where I want to be. I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don?t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don?t put on a front. Don?t taint this. I?m frustrated?it?s just authenticity I want. It?s originality. It?s passion. It?s joy. Don?t say that something I like is ugly. Don?t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception. I don?t care if you accidentally kneed my junk,, if air slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way. ?Good in bed,? what. You?re good in my bed. I?m pleased you?re there. I feel it suits you. Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you?d fuck me, fuck me like you feel. This isn?t a test". In fact the only rule as far as these things go is follow your passion.,(or not, my ego will survive without .I don't want any preconceived result. Orgasms come and go, but the sublime intimacy of abandonment without concern for anything but the moment? All I want is you.

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lolly222
 
 Age: 18
 ABSENT, Connecticut