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I've been fascinated by BDSM for most of my life. It's fueled fantasies and experimentation for decades, but over the last few years I've been able to take the opportunity to explore and experience the scene in Miami and South Florida.
Having said that, BDSM does not define me, it's simply one component of the entity that is me. People do like labels though, so I'll state that my current favourite label for myself is "sensual sadist", insofar as any label can be appropriate for me. In other words, after I've beaten you black and blue, I'll rub lotion/arnica gel on your bruises. However, do not mistake this to mean I am "nice". I am kind, considerate and, in the appropriate circumstances gentle, but I am never "nice".
I do like impact play, really heavy impact play. The last masochist I delivered a beating to called me a "Motherfucker" mid-scene. My response was, "Thank you, that's the nicest thing anybody's said to me all day.", and beat her so hard the St. Andrew's cross she was tied to moved about 10 feet across the room. I'm developing a flogging technique which involves taking a runup. It's loosely based on Adam Sandler's golf swing in "Happy Gilmore". I'll be happy to demonstrate it to anyone, all you need do is ask.
I also have a keen interest in erotic hypnosis and its incorporation into a D/s relationship, and have played and practiced with this aspect of the lifestyle for almost 15 years.
I love rope play. The artist in me tends towards the aesthetic style of traditional Japanese rope bondage, but the pragmatist living in my head eschews the pretentiousness of many of its adherents. If you're a rope bottom and are willing to let me practice on you (and perhaps be photographed while tied), then please drop me a line.
I consider myself to be intelligent and articulate. I love food (I'm a very good cook), wine, women and song, but not necessarily in that order. I'm gainfully employed as a project manager for a software company and get to travel extensively throughout the United States and Europe. I enjoy intellectual stimulation of all kinds. I'm an unapologetic flirt but enjoy deep and meaningful conversations about anything and everything.
I'm here to meet people, make friends and find play partners. I'm very used to travelling in my professional life, so distance is not necessarily an obstacle to forming a relationship. If you'd like to know more, please message me. If you'd like to add me as a friend, please feel free, but do also drop me a line at the same time or shortly afterwards to introduce yourself. I promise I'll respond as soon as I'm able. I can get along with just about anybody, but if you're one of those people who takes yourself (and life), way too seriously, then our relationship will be short-lived.
I am not and cannot be monogamous at this time in my life. I am in a committed, polyamorous relationship with my collared submissive and will not allow anyone or anything to disrupt that. If you need monogamy, or expect to be my primary partner, then I am not the man for you. If you feel you can fit in with and accept this kind of a relationship dynamic, then please feel free to message me and we can start the process of getting to know each other.
I'm an accomplished photographer, and would love the chance to add to my portfolio with more fetish shots and or artistic nudes. So if you're at all interested in modelling, please let me know. My other hobbies include scaring girls and making them cry.
I've known this for a while, but just thought I'd put it out there. Natural redheads with freckles appear to be my Kryptonite :-)
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