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| Private player more interested in putting together the lifestyle than playing at parties. Keeping my eyes open for the sweet, submissive service type of young woman and mostly here as a community resource.
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We are planning a trip back to the plains states in a couple months. I'm curious what the kink scene is like in the Twin Cities area or if there is much of a scene anywhere more outlying...?
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Dear collarme,
Please make the adding of new photos less confusing and esoteric so that I don't manage to delete them every time instead of just adding one.
Oh, and I'd like a pony, and a choo-choo train, and... what do you mean you're not Santa?
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It's funny the number of messages I've gotten along the lines of "OMG, Gor is such tripe..." Not surprising, mind you, but funny. My apologies to any of you who might be Gor fanatics, but come on, you're leaving yourself open. In all fairness though if you were doing the same thing with Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, or any other similar persuits and dedicating your life to "reenactment" of the same I'd make fun of you for that too
In the further search for BDSM litereary gold I've taken up the first of the Marketplace books, entitled "The Marketplace." Thusfar it's a more down to earth examination of life training as a slave, including the fact that much of it has little to do with sex and spankings.
For another interesting take on M/s and fantasy/scifi I recommend heading over to storiesonline dot net and looking up a series by "A Strange Geek" that starts with "Amanda's Choice."
Stories Online is a nice little site with some serious gems to be found if you dig around a bit. If you're interested in other Cap'n Morgan recommendations for stories kinky and otherwise, drop me a line.
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Let's clarify something a moment:
BDSM is a two-way (or sometimes more-way) street. This means that statements like "tell me what you would do to me," or "what would you make me do?" have the potential to be extremely one-sided, selfish, and/or trollish. Yes, women troll too.
If you're a bottom looking for a service-top, then good for you, but be honest about it. There's nothing wrong about desires to be used for sex; but please don't pretend that while being used for sex you're not having a lot of it yourself.
Personally I'm not a service-top. My goal is not to get to "do things to you." If that's what you're looking for then that's fine; just look elsewhere.
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Positions and roles:
Don't get me wrong. I like sex. The intimate passion of making love, the sweat and spit flying through the air during a hard fuck; even the silent, motionless secret grind of two bodies appearing otherwise innocent.
Sex can be a damn nice bit of fun, and is obviously one of the goals of my search here for a sub/slave/cabin-girl. But there are many more attributes this girl will need to have beyond a pretty face and body, for there will be many more roles she will be required to play in her new position... In her new life.
Hostess… secretary… pet, confidante, companion. She will become a renaissance woman, her knowledge and experiences covering a vast array of skills and trivia with the intention of helping and pleasing her Master. It is my belief that a relationship should always better the people involved, and that training in a D/s relationship should not be limited to things sexual. Her knowledge should compliment his, support what he does and strengthen it. When they are apart she should reflect well on him in her manner and deportment, just as when they are together his strength should lift and add to hers.
She will not just become a sex toy, but a vital companion. Arms to distract from a bad day, hands to rub weary muscles, lips to both cause and relieve stiffness…
One of the differences between being a top and a Dominant is taking up the responsibility of education. Not just in leading a girl’s sexual exploration, but helping her understand her submissive desires, helping her refine them, and working towards the right balance in the relationship where there is an equality of give and take, and an understanding of why you are both there. He is protector, teacher, and strength; she is protected, student, and support.
Or, to put it all another way: “I assign homework.”
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Every once in a while in conversation about this or that (in discussions of a kink-based nature) a particular fetish is mentioned that just sort of cracks me up.
It was in fact earlier today while I was answering a couple questions for a nice young woman in these parts that reference was made to that particular lifestyle that is "Gor".
Yeah...
Now don't get me wrong, whatever people are into is whatever they are into, and while I admit I'm particular in my tastes, and at times have my moments of snobbery, as long as they aren't inflicting it on me they can have at.
But Goreans still really crack me up.
For those that aren't familiar, the lifestyle in question is one of a Master/slave nature as defined in a series of books about an alternative Earth in opposite revolution around the sun from our own. Innocent enough, and intriguing enough for many here, until you take into account that these books, which the author has himself defined as being written for "spank material", are HORRIBLY written.
They are bad. God(d)(ess)(es)-awful bad.
I made it through 3 1/2 of these fictional train wrecks before finally giving up myself, and I've been told by people who have been around the scene a lot longer than I have that I made it a good 2 books farther in than most of them ever did.
What scares me is the devotion to which many people elevate them to. Whole communities have formed physically so that neighbors can follow this lifestyle together. And it makes me sometimes wonder at my fellow humans.
Rant aside, my purpose in this rambling affair was to share the second thing that comes up whenever Gor is mentioned. For those of you who haven't seen it yet please take a moment to google "Houseplants of Gor."
If you've read any of the books, you'll understand. If you haven't read any of them, just know that this is how all 26 books read.
It is worth reading.
Muchly.
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