Thanks for stopping by. What I am looking for is impossible to find, but I keep looking anyhow. I can say I am sick of people who play the part but do not follow through, chicken out or just lead you on. Basicly sick of the online games, but find people is so hard to do without it. Soory about the venting. I have a primarily Dom personality, but I do enjoy exploring the otherside on occasion with someone that has been submissive to me. It is a fun change of pace, but more importantly it teaches me how to truely Dominate that particular sub. Here is where this gets tot he hard part. I am looking for local women only within a 100-150mi radius plus I am lookinf for someone who wants and understands a discreet long term relationship. I am married and would like to find someone who is also married. My wife just is not into any type of bdsm, but I cannot deny it from my life. However I love her, we have kids and I am not going to leave, I want to find someone out there in the same situation, if thats you please get in touch and we can have some fun.