canemewell		CaneMaster		caneme

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Yuk! I hate trying to complete “profiles”; what does one say without sounding brash or simplistic, or coming across all “I want, I am”, etc. Oh well, keep it simple, I suppose. I am a single male in my mid fifties, with a life-long love for SM, but more of that later. I am well educated, intelligent (far from the same thing – as I teach, I have met several “well-educated” people who shouldn’t be let loose without a minder) and I possess an excellent, if somewhat dry, warped and sarcastic sense of humour. I am six foot tall, blue-eyed (well blue-grey) and have long grey hair. I am also partly disabled and very overweight, and I’m not simply referring to my ego, as some have claimed! I enjoy good, vigorous discourse and have my own opinions; I am far from a doormat, apart from the fact that you would need crampons to climb over me. I have a wide range of interests, but if I am to keep this profile to less than two chapters, the key ones are music, travel, food and wine. I am both a gourmand and a gourmet (and a hedonist, as the foregoing should tell). I am self-employed and I could earn a lot more money than I do (I certainly used to), but I prefer to do what I enjoy and work to live and for intellectual stimulation, not the other way round. This gives me the freedom to do as I please – nice, isn’t it! I am well-read and well-spoken, with a hint of RP remaining, diluted by a London accent. 30 years ago, I used to be very “OK Yah”, but found it got up people’s noses. I didn’t change deliberately, but have just mellowed a little with age. However, old habits die hard, so I remain invariably polite and considerate, unless somebody seriously annoys me, when I can get incredibly cutting and sarcastic. Why am I here? Simple, really; I have a life-long passion for and love of corporal and physical punishment. I enjoy all forms of corporal punishment – spanking, paddling, whipping and, especially, caning, and I enjoy it in all its forms. My preference is for straight, no-nonsense CP, but role-play and prepared scenarios can make it fun and ring the changes, as desired. I am more than wiling to wok at any role desired to help fulfil my caner’s personal preferences. Rather than trying to dictate a lot of preferences or details here, I will discuss these privately as required/desired. However, I am not really a submissive, although I can come across as submissive on the surface, and I certainly no-one’s slave – mentally, physically or emotionally. There isn’t really a category that fits me ideally, so this is the closest; please don’t get upset if you feel I am misrepresenting myself – how else am I meant to describe or categorise myself? To be clear, my preference is to receive, but I also do switch and enjoy delivering everything from an erotic spanking to a ferocious caning or whipping. I am also sufficiently experienced to teach caning and whipping, amongst other activities. I am not concerned about marks – saying one enjoys caning and then worrying about marks is a bit daft – and I am definitely into the long punishment, rather than a “six of the best” scenario; my pleasure is derived from the endorphins, which take some time to get going. There are a number of other activities I also enjoy, but CP is my main driver, so let’s not complicate things. Who are what am I looking for? Well, ideally I would like to meet a woman (and I mean a real woman, not a teenager – 35 or 40+, please, and preferably nearer my own age) who shares a similar interest and love for CP, caning and whipping. Initially, I am looking for real-time meetings (technology is insufficiently advanced to be able to deliver a damn good thrashing via IM or webcam yet). In a perfect world, a long-term relationship would be perfect, but let us start with getting to know each other first – I am a realist, not a fantasist! There is no face photograph on my profile, simply for the sake of discretion, but I will include one in any message or reply I send, unless I am not interested, in which case a will normally send a polite note saying so. Given that I don’t wish to put up a face photograph, I am not putting up one of my backside or any other part of my anatomy; it would frighten the children! However, please feel free to contact me and I will get back to you as soon as I can – I don’t live on this site, so it may take a day or two.