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CallmeMasterNick

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I've decided to update this profile in terms that maybe by doing so; people get a better idea of who I am and, what I am looking for. I make no excuses for what I am or what I do. I am a Dom by all means and, assert myself as such. Although, the way I appear in the vanilla world may go against the grain of what many think a Dom may look like; appearances can be deceiving. I have been in the game ever since I was 18 and in the years leading up to the present; I've learned a lot. I have found that I am very head strong in the sense that I make a decision and, stick to it. I'm also very forward about what I want because, I know what I want. This may go against the fantasy of the perfect M/s relationship but, I do understand that there is more than one way to do something and, I like to hear my slaves opinion. Sometimes getting an outside perspective can make something even better. Trust is central to any M/s relationship I may have as, I find that one needs to trust before they submit. I'm what my slaves call firm but, fair as I believe the punishment should match a rule or, order breaking. I have also found that when I do take on a slave; her devotion, loyalty and, general wanting to do things for me is only matched by her trust for me. Lying is one of many ways to lose that trust and, usually the process that one undergoes to become a girl of mine entails building trust and, swearing of my honesty. My job outside of the lifestyle puts me in charge of anywhere between 33 and 64 people at a time. I command respect and, I get it. They know they can trust me and, I am in charge of their every day activities. They don't do what I tell them out of fear rather, more because of how I treat them. I don't abuse my power on the job nor, do I when it comes to this lifestyle. I am well trained in almost all aspects of the lifestyle; learning how to use certain elements of the lifestyle with my slaves safety in mind. I have used medical devices, rope, chains, leather, latex, rubber and, other such equipment in the past and, am well aware of the possible dangers of using such equipment. I do make some of my own equipment or, purchase said equipment from a reliable source. I like to keep things clean and, you could say that I'm somewhat of a clean freak. I know I'm mentally stable as my job requires me to be. I'm STD free and, get tested on a regular basis as I require my slaves to do so as well. If you have any further questions, don't be afraid to ask.

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2/24/2011 8:52:42 AM
There seems to be some confusion as to what I expect long term. I am looking for a girl that will become whatever I choose her to be over time, through trust and, training. I tend to be military like in my methods and, can be strict at times. You will always know what is expected out front so there will be no confusion. If I come to the conclusion that you are worth my effort after talking with you and, you proving your worth through completion of 3 tests. I will pay for your relocation after I have met with you in person. This of course is not expected to happen overnight as; I will be taking my time getting to know you. Your relocation will come with the promise that you will be able to return to visit family and, friends at the minimum every 6 months or more. Money will be provided and, placed aside that only you can access for this sole purpose. You will be wearing a collar and, your rent will be paid by your loyalty, trust and, willingness to please. You will be taking care of my home once you are here and, taking care of anything else I need you to take care of. Trust will be central to our relationship as I have learned from girls before you that your willingness to please and, do things will be based on how much you trust me. My loyalty resides with a collared girl; as a collar to me should be treated like a wedding ring. Honesty is a really big thing with me. Like a drug, it feeds trust and builds the loyalty needed to go beyond ones own boundaries and stay true to me and, me only. You wouldn't trust someone who just lied to you to put you in a precarious situation to keep you safe, secure and, alive for that matter now would you? It really gets me off having the knowledge that I have a beautiful girl that will do absolutely anything to keep me happy which keeps me loyal, honest and, truthful. I'm looking for someone who will commit to this long term. This is in no way a joke and I am willing to show a potential I am serious about making this happen in my own way. Any questions? Feel free to e-mail me and, I'll get back to you as soon as time permits. N.

2/18/2011 7:46:29 AM
Recent trends indicate that everyone here is fake and, because of that; everyone is quitting the lifestyle. It dose seem to me at least; that this site is loaded with bullshitters, scammers, fakes, liars and, the occasional old fart looking to get his rocks off. Through all of that; there are very few decent people here that are serious about the lifestyle and, are actually looking for the real deal. Some people here do make me really wonder if they should be locked up or kicked off any BDSM site for other peoples safety. I have too many examples of people losing their tempers or they don't exactly sound like they are in their right mind. Dose that sound like someone you would want to be submissive to? On another topic...I can't say it enough; trust is central to any relationship wether vanilla or not. If you break trust with someone; you have ruined what could ultimately have been. If you don't break someones trust of you and, show that you can be trusted with their life; the sub or slave will ultimately let you go further than you could have ever imagined. Some people here; however real they may claim to be, are just out for a piece of ass. They come here with a belief that just because a sub or slave would willingly give themselves over to someone they trust that they are weak because of that fact. The direct opposite is true. A sub or slave is actually a very mentally strong person in that they can live a life without a Master but, in the same instance give their all to someone they trust without being mentally broken. A term I here around here a lot by other so called Masters is talk of breaking someone. First of all, breaking someone is a very real thing although, it's not what you think it may be. To break someone is to bring the mind to a point where it's so overwhelmed that it shuts down. The sub or slave becomes useless in the sense that the mindless drone you were trying to make can't take it anymore and snaps. This snapping is what leads to a very volatile and, often violent submissive or slave that will more than likely want to kill you instead of please you. Dose this sound like something you want living in your home? My point is; if you wish to become part of this lifestyle; learn all you can from a real Master. Put yourself into a submissive state with a Dom or Domme you can trust. See what the other side of the coin is all about and, above all; learn what it's like to be in a submissive or slaves shoes. It will make you a better Master in the long run. Even if you don't go the submissive route; ask yourself if you would do the thing you ask of your sub or slave. Maybe just that very thought will make you reconsider your position. Some submissives or slaves will do anything for their Master; there really is not much of a secret to getting someone to that position. Do you seriously believe this lifestyle is all about sex? Your dead wrong if you believe so. It really goes a lot deeper than that. I know more about my current slaves life than most of her friends. I know about her goals, her dreams and aspirations, her fears, dislikes, likes and, even her little quirks. As much as she is my property; and dose anything I say without thought when I say it; she is a living being with a brain. She trusts that I know what is best for her and, respects what I have to say. She has gone above and beyond her prior set hard limits as a submissive and, has become the slave some of the guys out there only dream about. She dose it because she wants to; not because I say she has to. Her willingness to please was not built on beatings or my ability to make her cum. It was built on her trust for me and, showing her that I would be there for her no matter what. I won't let on to my exact technique but, this all should be common sense to any Master in the art. Do you believe my slave would be where she is now; if I had lied to her or disappeared out of her life then came back when it was convenient for me? That is something to think about. N.

2/12/2011 4:37:32 PM
I've often wondered why it seems so hard to find a sub or slave here and, I've come up with an answer. The problem is not the people presenting themselves as slaves or submissives. It's often the fact that most; if not all have been burned by those who only think with the one thing between their legs. They come here often; seeing only the sex side of BDSM and, think that a slave or submissive new to the lifestyle would be an easy target. They play the part; gaining ones trust and throwing around a few terms making it sound that they in fact do know what they are doing. It is after one session or even a few sessions; if it gets that far that most of these so called Doms or Masters cut out and leave a sub or slave high and dry with no explanation. More often than not; this happens repeatedly to some and, it becomes a vicious cycle. The sub or slave is left with a trust issue or a fear of rejection; building an almost impenetrable wall around themselves. It's now up to a Master to prove themselves honest, true and, above all trustfull to a submissive or slave. Granted, these are key points to any slave/sub Master relationship but, my point is; if so many didn't get burned by fakes here; we wouldn't have the problems we do. People that do know me in real life often wonder why my girls are so loyal and, if i desired it: would jump into the gates of hell just to keep me happy and, do it with a smile on their face. It's because I'm honest and, if I make a promise; I stick to it. I'm always there for my girls. I've never left one of my girls wondering what happened. If I am not happy; they know why. It all boils down to respect. Respect yourself and, above all; respect those who serve you. The above statement was one of my very first lessons I learned when it came to the lifestyle. It seems some here need to learn what it is to be a real Master of the art. N.

2/4/2011 9:54:33 AM
Just as I wrote to JudithS another CM user. I will explain a little something here about this site that sucks on a mobile phone. To answer your question posted in journals. The mobile website dose not offer the exact information up front and, you must view the profile in order to see what they happen to be looking for. Unfortunately it's not set up like it is on a computer. What's listed when someone is browsing the site on a mobile is your age, location and, if your submissive Dominant or, a switch. To view all other information the user must view the profile. N.

2/4/2011 3:35:43 AM
I personally would like to thank a user here by the screename of:CassandraAlexis. She took the time to try and, get to know who I am. Unfortunately, her and I don't match up in the sense that I tend to be more military like while she is looking for a Dom that isn't so military yet, loves her for the great person she is. If you get the opportunity to get to know her, I'm sure she would have a lot to offer the right Dom. I have kept in touch with the girl that I was offering my hand in training and, after a lengthy discussion it was found that a misunderstanding on her part caused her to fail a test I had presented her with. She will be picking up where she left off and, any updates I have to offer will be posted here. N.

1/25/2011 1:31:29 PM
I am appalled at some people who show up to meet me. If the following thoughts are going to go through my mind; do us both a favor and, cancel your appointment with me. Wether meeting me or doing a session with me...These are inexcusable and yes, I've come across all of them. My..what a lovely shade of greenish, yellow brown your teeth are. The human mouth has 32 teeth; where are most of yours? I brush, floss and use mouthwash 2-3 times daily...did you even bother brushing this morning? Wow...If I touch your hair; I can grease my axel bearings. I don't mind a little extra weight but, your gonna break my scale if you look at it. I bet if I shaved all the hair off of your body besides your head; I could make some poor child a coat. Man something stinks in here; Oh! It's you? When was the last time you took a shower; and used soap? When was the last time you got your upper lip waxed? Is that booger hanging from your nose gonna order lunch too? Is that crust in the corner of your eye? Or did you forget to wash your face this morning? How old are you really? Cause your certainly not acting it. How many cats do you own lady? Your house is disgustingly dirty; And you plan to take care of mine? Is your house deodorized with cat piss? Is that mold growing in the corner of your bedroom? Is that fish floating upside down in a dirty bowl? And you say you ?want to take care of my animals? Especially, the purebred pit bull I love more than most of my family members? When was the last time you actually washed the crack of your ass? Man, I've smelled some pretty fish smelling pussies before but, wow! Yours smells like something crawled up in it and died. Do you have toenail fungus or are your nails painted green? You don't want or like guys wearing condoms but, your not on birth control or haven't been tested? They call it deodorant for a reason. Did you even bother looking in the mirror before leaving the house? That is all I feel like posting..I am sure I'll be adding more at a later date

1/25/2011 10:48:51 AM
I finally have posted my interests and dislikes. Feel free to contact me with any questions. My door is open to anyone wether Dominant or submissive. I don't bite...unless that's your thing. Lol

1/21/2011 7:33:58 AM
Profile and pictures updated. I will be getting into my interests as time permits. Things are going well with my newest addition but, I will find out by 4pm if she has been as honest as she claims to be. I can only hope she has done exactly as told at this point. Well, time will tell...updates will be posted if things go well.

1/20/2011 9:20:11 PM
Well, I have been lurking lately and, have been tempted to delete this profile. Needless to say, I found a girl off the site (go figure). If things keep going the way they are; she will be under my direction as a slave. Of course, this all falls on her ability to prove herself worthy of my time and, effort. I am tempted to believe that she is all that she states she is but, will not get my hopes up for; girls as eager as she is usually get what is known as buyers remorse. This is not the first time it has happened and, I am sure it's not the last.

1/2/2011 9:38:05 AM
As I reflect upon this last year; a lot of things stand out. In particular my impatience cost me one of my best possible girls. I learned a lot this year, I'm only hoping to make this year even better. My expectations have changed this year; hopefully for the better. I guess I had expected something more from what some were willing to give me. Maybe change will cause more of a detriment to myself but, I have a feeling that some were just intimidated by me. I have met some awesome people here. Some of them quickly becoming good friends of mine. I cherish their friendship, as I always will. Here is to hopefully will be an awesome year. Master Nick

12/15/2010 7:34:58 PM
I've decided to approach things a bit differently. I'm not changing my style rather; what is expected of future slaves. Will I foster a better slave out of it? Time will tell...

11/22/2010 5:07:42 AM
I've noticed as of late that the fake webcam losers that are here just to part you with your money have really gotten ballsy as of late. As have the Nigerian or whatever country they come up with sob stories just looking to scam you out of a dollar. Are things really that bad that I even have received a e-mail from a bank I don't even belong to. They really get funny saying they will have me arrested if I don't deposit 1000 US dollars into my account right away because, I am apparently overdrawn. My aunt got a phonecall the other day from a collection agency. They also threatened to have her arrested if she didn't deposit 1,300 US dollars into an account. When she asked where they are based and to talk to a supervisor they hung up on her. The guy apparently didn't speak English very well either. I recently talked to a female here who said she was pretty local to where I was. Taking her word on it as she named a very big street and, a lot of landmarks in the town where she apparently lived, I asked if there would be a problem with us meeting up sometime in the future. She of course laid the sob story on me that she was in debt and was working for a company that provided webcam services to cover her debt. She never pressured me into it so, I took it at face value and asked her if I could meet her out of work. If she was real, wanted me and, was really into this lifestyle I wouldn't have a problem paying to cover her debt. She then turns around and tells me that if I want to meet her I have to book her. Are you serious? Seems like they are getting smarter every day. Watch your wallets and the people trying to get their hands in those wallets. Master Nick

11/14/2010 5:09:22 PM
New photo posted from the summer...I miss my car...too bad the winter is here :-/

11/14/2010 4:44:50 PM
Through my numerous interactions with this site...you are considered FAKE until it's been proven otherwise. Quite frankly, I'm tired of receiving emails from girls that are from Africa or some other third world country trying to part me with my hard earned money with some fake ass sob story. Haven't you people figured out by now that Doms are not desperate and are usually smarter than most? If you have been into the lifestyle long enough, you would realize we do not PAY for a slave we haven't inspected in person to a Master we have never met. Usually, it involves meeting with the current Master and being interviewed by the current owner to see if his/her slave will be well taken care of. If your going to scam someone..do your freaking homework. Learn to speak proper English while you are at it. This is my third journal entry today...a lot has been on my mind. Master Nick

11/14/2010 3:07:53 PM
Obeidience and authourity seem to be the most confused of topics here. One book I would recommend one should read is a book by a research scientist by the name of Stanley Milgram called Obedience to authority. In it he goes into why people obey those in authority and to what extent people will go to do something for someone in authority. Authority in itself is not arrogant, is not boastful, and dose not abuse it's power. There has to be a form of trust between an authouritve figure and a submissive along with a willingness to please the authouritve figure. This is not established unless one person is either mentally submissive or an authority figure is presented as such. With authority comes responsibility. If you read about the experiments conducted; you will come to the conclusion that the person behind that curtain would have most certainly died had the electric shocks given by the submissive were actually being given. Working in my profession out of this lifestyle, I am able to exercise my authority over 60 or more people. With that authority comes the repercussions that may come from my direct orders. I understand that if I abuse my authority my actions may hurt maim or even kill someone. If a submissive lives in fear, they may bite, scratch, or do anything they can to get away from you. I am glad my profession keeps me sharp and reminds me of my power over people and the resposibilty that comes with it, even in dry spells. Like I've told others, I live the lifestyle every day in one way or another. My main point here is be careful, learn what you can and, abuse is not power...it's irresponsibilty. Authority is earned...and like trust go hand in hand with responsibility. If you happen to find that rare gem that likes abuse; treat it with respect. The bound and gagged thing taking that abuse is still a person that trusts you to push them to an extent with the respect that you won't kill them. Rant over... Master Nick

11/14/2010 2:10:56 PM
Today I start out with a clean slate. No more searching no more e-mailing...you want me? You will make it known to me. End of subject. Master Nick

11/14/2010 12:29:16 PM
Last night I had a dream and basically what it ment to ne was a shift in thought and or consciousness. Basically I was trapped in this old house with a whole maze of trap doors and rooms. I managed to find my way out of this old house through a unlocked window. I crawled out through a window onto a lush green pasture and a feeling of the mental bondage I have put myself into with my stubborn way of thinking suddenly lifted. The clarity of my thinking became very clear when I awoke from this dream. I recognized that my unrealistic expectations of others didn't seem to matter much anymore although, I know deep in my heart I'd never allow myself to be walked all over or taken advantage of. I had this unrealistic view of what a perfect slave was. I think I even pushed this view on a lot of my past slaves which stressed our relationships to the breaking point. I do still have expectations that must be met but the extreme has all but disappeared. I guess my impatience with others was a driving point behind all of this. Unfortunately, in my stubbornness I believed I had the patience of a saint and I was wrong. Hopefully with a new way of looking at things I can take a fresh look at things and enjoy things for what they are...instead of demanding they be different. Master Nick

11/13/2010 8:55:20 PM
New secondary photo added :-)

11/12/2010 4:10:36 PM
I often wonder why I am not getting the results I wish to see here... Maybe it's my approach or maybe I don't give a crap how many times I send out the same email. The reason I do so is because I don't like wasting my time. Time to me is money or a thing best spent training a new slave. I do have patience for the right person that is; if your not going to waste my time. I had a slave and the one thing I learned from her is to be patient. I am afraid my frustration here is causing me to want to give up and be a rich old man that pinches my nurses ass everytime she bends over. Whatever...any slut wanna try and impress me? Email me...I'm done bitching

11/12/2010 10:20:09 AM

My secondary profile picture is now my primary photo. More photos will be posted as time permits...I have yet to find what it is I am looking for here. If your interested...contact me


11/9/2010 1:18:56 PM
New photo posted...and no it's not just my eyes posted :-)

11/3/2010 12:36:35 PM

Posted a new photo and started up my profile. Short term goal: To find someone interesting and new to talk to.

Long term goal: To find someone new who is willing to be trained.


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MJ1117
 
 Age: 22
 Waterview, Arizona