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	I'm an experienced Dominant Woman in a marriage in which I am Head of the Household. I've been dominating men for 29 years. You're not going to manipulate me or goad me into "taking control" of you, so save us both the unpleasantness. Treat me like a real live fully-rounded human being and you will find me to be friendly, open and willing to chat about subjects on a wide range, including D/s techniques, philosophies and perhaps helpful in finding your local community. Be rude or crass and you'll find yourself consigned to the limbo of ignore. If you understand this and are looking to actually talk about things- books, movies, current news, hobbies and such- I'd be happy to chat in PM and perhaps even elsewhere. And yes, as we get to know each other better we MAY or may NOT move to a more playful type of chat. But that is at my whim and schedule, not yours. If that is your reason for getting to know me, you'll probably never move to the more playful chat. And get used to the fact that some days I may be very into discussing BDSM and others will have nothing to do with BDSM. Bail on the non BDSM talk and you'll not get more BDSM chat. FYI, DO NOT WRITE ME AND ASK ME TO PLAY WITH YOU. THE ANSWER IS NO. I HAVE NO DESIRE TO PLAY WITH YOU ONLINE, ON CAM, ON THE PHONE OR IN PERSON. You want someone to satisfy your little urges, go pay someone. I'm not here to serve you nor am I a public utility! Also, do not call me Mistress. I do not own you. You may use the full name, Ms Cali, Cali or Cali Ma'am. Also do not send me body part photos in a first mail.. or at all unless I ask. Face photos are always appreciated. Do not expect me to cam with you. I have a sub at my fingertips all but nine hours each day. Do not write one word or single sentence mail. I'll delete them without bothering to reply.

8/9/2013 7:25:30 AM

We're in the middle of moving. The move is the 22nd of this month. I'll most likely not even check the site until after we're moved and settled.

6/30/2013 4:53:39 AM

Get this! Because I won't use him as a submissive, some idjit claiming to be a slave in Crawfordsville Indiana told me that I'm not really seeking friends and my profile is all a lie. And subs wonder why Domme end up being bitchy to strangers online. Thank folks like the tiny penis posing as a submissive. We are NOT public utilities. My profile is very clear that I will NOT PLAY with anyone. FRIENDSHIP is not playtime.

7/23/2012 7:04:23 AM

I am not looking for anyone for real time play. I have that. I live this lifestyle. I've had surgery and am confined and bored. Your "service" would be nothing more than online chat, perhaps leading to more of a play/entertainment mode after months of chatting. It would NEVER move to real time. It's very unlikely to even progress to cam. I'm sorry, but there it is. My husband fills all my needs, BDSM, Sexual and domestic.

2/6/2008 5:14:30 PM

If I do not know you and we aren't actually friends.. DO NOT INVITE ME TO YOUR FRIENDS! I'm not here as part of a popularity contest. While I will happily accept a friendship request from those I know in person or those with whom I chat routinely, random adds will just piss me off and be denied. If you want to track my profile, do it by "Add to Favorites" rather than "Invite to Friends."

2/2/2008 1:49:16 AM

I use firefox and can not accept the chat invites.