Life takes its twists and turns. For someone who has elected to pursue the driver's seat, this can cause discomfort. I've elected to resume my pursuit of a suitable match in this lifestyle.

I'm still a 50 year old white, professional male. I do tend to be a work-a-holic which my explain my success at this career. I am a law enforcment officer working in the central coast area, (Ventura, Santa Barbara and San Luis Obispo Counties.) I specify that for several reasons. First, the last thing I want in any kind of relationship is drugs and drama so from the get go, you need to know those rules. It also helps to explain my failure to post a picture. I'm more than happy to provide a picture after we're emailed or chatted, but it wouldn't help my career to be flying my freak flag high and proud.

I'm still not your average cop. First of all, I'm very politically liberal. I'm an Obama Democrat and proud of it. I support gun control (as long as I keep mine), abortion and taxing that hell out of the rich.

I love good food, fine wine, bourbon and a submissive woman who reads the paper everyday and is prepared to actually talk about the things contained therein. My taste in the arts ranges from Pink Floyd, to Dali to Gospel music shows. As for sports, I'd rather see Women's Roller Derby than football.

I've recently ended a long term relationship with a sub. After taking some time to examine myself I'd elected to reenter this life style. I know what I want in life, and a submissive woman which whom I share excellent chemistry is exactly what I want. I'm not a sadistic person, but once we've established boundaries, rules and a foundation of trust, pain can be a means to an end, be it orgasm or just an attitude adjustment that puts you in your place.

Trust is the absolute foundation for this type of relationship. I would no more expect you to place yourself into my hands without it, than I would consider taking that responsibility.

I've given up on relying on a woman’s appearance to determine if we will get along. I don't measure sexuality by the dimensions of any body part. Nor do I make the color of your skin any factor in what might make my heart beat a bit faster.

I do require intelligence, humor, patience and soft lips. I don't tolerate narrow minded people, bigotry or cowardice (I have a very very broad definition of bravery....just embracing what makes you happy is a act of bravery in my book.)

In my last profile, I think I was trying to sell myself. I don't feel the need for that any further. If you're interested enough to contact me then I'm delighted. If not, I wish you the best.

Sincerely