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i am a little girl, a puppy, a slave, a toy, an object, a prized possession, a masochist. i'm looking for my Daddy, Owner, Master, Sadist. i am NOT a daughter, a Mistress/Domme, or a doormat. If you're going to send a circle of friends request, please also send a message saying why, if i don't know you. i WILL NOT accept the request if you don't. i've learned a lot more about myself from my late-twenties on. i used to think that i was submissive, with S.A.M tendencies. i now know that there are different levels of slavery, and i fit solidly into the slave/property category. i have also found that, with the right person/time/situation, i can be an emotional/sexual Mommy. That part comes out VERY rarely, so don't come looking for it. It all just depends on the vibes from the other person. i've also found a play Top in this head of mine. Again, it's a situational thing, but i've been told it's interesting to see. This does NOT make me a switch. i'm a slave who can accommodate the varied needs/desires of others. i'm very open-minded. If i haven't tried it already, i'm generally willing to at least once. If there's something that you enjoy that i haven't listed in my checklist, just ask. i'm an honest, open person, and i don't hide things. i've been told that i'm a very good slave. i can be headstrong at times, but i'm very open, loyal, attentive, intelligent, caring, and willing. i love being degraded by the right person. i take things to heart, not only the positive, but also the constructive, and unfortunately, the negative. i have a slave heart, slave mind, slave instinct, slave soul. This is just something that is natural and ingrained in me. i thrive on praise, both in my vanilla life and this life, but i think most, if not all, submissives and slaves do. i believe that anyone can be submissive, but not everyone can be A submissive. Being a submissive or a slave isn't something that can be taught or learned, it's something you're born to be. i know this is controversial, just like some people think that sexual preference is a choice, but this is my belief. i've seen a lot of people say that submission is a gift . Bullsh*t. Honest to goodness submission isn't a gift, it's a need, ingrained in the s-type, and without it, they're completely lost. Personally, i feel that those who say their submission is a gift need to get their high and mighty stick out of their ass and be glad when they find a wonderful D-type, because there's a lot of crappy ones out there. i've been submissive my whole life, but it took me until my early 30s to recognize that. i have always loved being tied up and having no control. i have always dreamed that there would be someone out there that would just know me and what i want/need without me having to tell them. i’ve been told that this isn’t realistic, but i know they're out there, i've seen an example once already. my experiences, since i've found the BDSM communities i belong to, have expanded greatly. i have discovered that i'm a slut of MANY things (if you can't be good, be good at it, so i'm good at it, and proud of it). i’m obedient (very rough estimate) 95% of the time. The other 5%, i’m not being defiant, but testing my boundaries and playing with my D-type, trying to push their buttons some. i can always be reined back in. I'm also a squirter. A slave lives to please their M/M. i’ve always loved the saying “If Momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy”. i think that applies to a M/s relationship as well, but even more so. Children are meant to grow up and move on. i don’t feel a M/s relationship has the same end result of moving on. A slave has complete and total trust in their M/M, and the M/M has their slave's best interests at heart. Discipline and punishments are meant to make the slave a better slave, just as discipline and punishments are meant to make children better members of society. my initial thoughts when i first joined the lifestyle, in regards to where i wanted a D/s (at the time, it was D/s) relationship to go used to be “around the bedroom, or the house, occasional trips out, but just for playtime, not for life”. i’ve since rethought that, and i've come to realize that having a total M/s (or O/p) life, not just M/s/O/p for playtime, is for me. i think my strength and independence only serves to enhance my slavery. i've learned, thanks to some wonderful F/friends, that not only am i an excellent pleasure slave, but i need to be a service slave as well. It's amazing how doing the dishes for Someone you love can give you the warm and fuzzies. Being loved has always been a given need, being wanted has been a need that was realized near my teens. But being needed and appreciated for my skills/talents and what i do, serving Someone, is a need that, when fulfilled, makes my heart soar. i've also learned that even being a complete submissive, i can keep my identity, and could depend on myself and only myself if needed. Being a slave IS my identity, really. i'm a passionate person. i throw myself into things whole-heartedly, and in most things, without reservation. This gets me burned. A lot. i'm not going to stop doing that, because to do so would be to pretend to be something i'm not. It will get me who and what i need, eventually. =) i've knocked down a lot of previous "hard limits" since my late-twenties. i enjoy doing a LOT of things, as you can probably tell by my "into" list. it would be easier to list what are still, and i anticipate shall always be, on my "no" list: corrupting children in ANY way, including swearing around them, receiving scat (i'll give it if you REALLY want it), involving another human being non-consensually, anything that gets me arrested, and anything that would cause an undesired permanent disfigurement of me (no chain saw play, sorry).
My Ideal Person:
To sum up what i want, i want someone that i can trust completely, who knows me better than i know myself, and loves me unconditionally. Someone i can just let go with, and let them take over. Someone who will respect me as a person, and also use and view me as just an object, and be able to go back and forth between those without one affecting the other. Someone who understands me. Someone who can provide everything i'm looking for, all in One. i'm looking for someone dominant, intelligent, tough, loving, fair, and open. i want someone to show me new things, refine the skills i have, and take me to new levels. Someone who loves me, wants me, and needs me. A Daddy, Owner, Master, and Sadist, not a Dominant or Top. i won't settle for less. And eventually, a husband. i'm looking for a sadistic Prince Charming, the Man who will spit on and slap the face of His less-than-human piece of property, and then passionately make love to the woman He loves. Someone who will put me on the floor under their desk, or at their feet wherever they are, and rest their feet (preferably in leather boots with rubber soles) solidly on my head, pressing my face down comfortably into the floor with the weight of their feet. mind wanders off to happy places where the smell of leather and rubber permeates my nose while the pressure of a solid pair of feet comforts my mind Think Beauty in the Sleeping Beauty trilogy. i want to be taken from the castle to the village to the palace to the village to the King, and incorporate little bits of all of them.

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11/12/2007 6:40:58 AM
(Saw this and loved it... if you're going to message me with anything crude, read this first).


I am Sir Joe. I have been on this site for a over a year or so now, and I have had several conversations with multiple submissives.  The one thing that they all have in common is the incredible exasperation and frustration they feel regarding the emails and IM's they get from male Dominants.


(I am directing my comments to Male Dom's, not Domme's the rules are somewhat different for Domme's, and my comments here only generally apply you.)


Gentelmen, this is after all a fetish website, BUT, if you are really the Dominant you claim to be, and a member of the lifestyle that promotes "Safe", "Sane", and "Consensual" or the more aptly, RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) then how is it that so many of you begin an introductory email or instant message with commands you have not been given consent to make?


Hi I'm "OverLord PuffandStuff" now, "On your knees bitch!" or "I want to stick my dick in your ass!" or my personal favorite "Be a good whore, and reply to me NOW!" are not the kind of phrases that any woman, sub or not will respond to. SO STOP IT!


Just because she is a submissive does not mean she is (or ever will be) submissive to you. Why, because no matter who I am talking to I offer her the same respect I want for myself.


You would no more walk up to a woman at the Mall, and tell her to get on her knees, how  can you assume that this will be a winning strategy onlibe? Is it because this is a fetish site? Poor assumption, if that's what your thinking.


This is a lifestyle based entirely on trust! Who in their right mind would trust you if your first comment was so derogitory that it was  offensive. Don't get me wrong, in a scene,
when consent has been gven, you can talk to your sub in whatever way turns you or her on. However, do you expect to get to a point where your having a real time encounter with a sub, if you are so blunt and disrespectful in your initial introduction?  Or even before you have established a basis for that kind of discussion, or email.


Like I said, I have been on (this site) now for a while (this time, 2 years the last time) and recently, I have met several women in person, and am chatting with others, whom I expect to meet, (in search of that perfect slave for my household that is the counter-balance to my Dominance.) and there is no doubt that in their minds, or fannies for that matter that I am Dominant. But I didn't make any overtly sexual or BDSM related comments in my initial introduction. WHY? Because when it comes to female submissives, they are not about to offer trust, or themselves to anyone who can't even respectful enough to introduce themselves in non threatening manner.


It doesn't matter if the sub has said, "write
me, and tell me what you violent degrading things you want to do to me." why, because unless your writing a letter just to get her off, then odds are your not going to be anything
more than the sender of a dirty letter. If you really want to meet her and do those things, you need to understand TRUST! It might work occasionally (1/10, 000) but that is pretty
poor odds. and it will be (0/1, 000, 000) if it is a newbie or novice sub, who is nervous to begin with.


If you can't make a vanilla (I use the word to make my point clear) introduction of yourself to a female submissive, and establish that your not some wack job or psycopath, then don't write them at all. It is the conclusion of
those of us truely in the lifestyle, that anyone who can't see the reality of trust and consent in the process is nothing more than a wanna-be, who is making the rest of us look bad.


(Funny the ones who really need to read this probably don't read the articles...)


I am personally offended by any man that has no other articulate way to introduce himself to a woman than to say, "get  on your knees bitch!".


If that is your standard introduction grow up. If your offended by what I've said, then you're exactly who I am talking about and guilty of being an ass-hole. 


DOM doesn't mean DICK. If you can't be Dominant, or assertive without being a dickhead, turn off your computer, jack off an go to sleep, because in the end, that is all your going to be doing anyway.


I am a real Dom seeking exactly what I stated in my profile - and if you have any comments feel free to let me know. But know this, I am right.


Ultimately, respect and trust, will be the only way you get the consent you need have a real life encounter with a sub. 


Sincerely,


Sir Joe


(submissives feel free to copy this and repost it in your journal section provided you credit me as author.)


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 Age: 19
 16507, Pennsylvania