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	If I'm being completely honest, I might be considered a little boring for this site. I am a complete novice to the lifestyle, and not 100% sure it's for me. As far as being submissive goes, I've never really used the label before, but it's something I've always known about myself. unfortunately I have not had the opportunity to explore this aspect of my life with anyone, but I figured online was a good way to start. I suppose I am looking for someone patient, and caring, who is willing to educate me and certainly not rush me. Although I am exploring my submissive side, I still have rules, one of them being that I will not send a pic, even a pic with my head cut off until I feel totally comfortable. I just don't think it's smart. I also won't just hand out my phone number. I made that mistake a long time ago, and I won't do it again. Pictures and phone numbers are things that will happen with time and trust. When it comes to what I am into, since it's a popular question, who can say? I still have a lot to figure out. I can say that at the time, I feel that I am far more into the mental aspect of all of this than the physical. I guess if I had to try and guess exactly what I am looking for, it would be a man that makes me feel protected and safe, but also excited and maybe even a bit nervous. Someone who is just as capable of kindness as they are harshness. Someone who might be interested in knowing who I am outside of all of this, and has conversations pertaining to our outside lives. And lastly someone who can help me understand what it is that I have been missing in my love life. What it is that want, but have so much trouble defining.

10/11/2010 3:10:13 PM

This kind of falls under the don't judge a book by it's cover category, but I have a little problem. Although I don't really have specifics when it comes to what I want a man to look like, I find myself troubled when I look at profile pics that seem anything but dominant. I don't mean vacation pics, or pics of guys in polo shirts or anything like that. I expect you to have a normal life that doean't include leather pants, in fact I'm not a fan of leather. But pics with guys trying to strike a sexy pose with their pants unzipped, and obviuosly using a cell phone while posing in a mirror are not doing it for me. It somehow makes it hard for me to take you seriously. This probably sounds a bit bitchy, but these pictures in which you are trying to look hardcore, are doing the opposite. The sexal pics I get, although they aren't all my thing, but I just can't take seriously the pics of people who look like they're trying to be a character.