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Dom/Sub Couple, 56/35,  Bakersfield, California
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First off, just so, that there is no confusion or misunderstandings, I want to make it very clear, that we are only seeking submissiveslave females only. We are not interested in single males or couples with males, sorry guys.

We are a very real couple and are seeking a female that is interested in joining us and becoming an owned slave. My, the Master of said relationship, training program is intense. It is designed to wear down and break a slave candidate to my will and command. If you can not handle that, then do not contact. I seek only real and serious minded individuals who are prepared to become what I want. I have very few limits, but none of them will harm or place you or myself, in trouble with the law.

I have included a few pics of er play partners, sub and slave candidates to show, that I am real and serious about what I am seeking. Hope you enjoy the pics.













Gender Identity:











Gender Identity:









 5' 2"



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female


 Lives For:


 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Collars (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Shibari (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Wax Play

 Simulation Games

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Eighties Music

 Rock Music

 Football (Expert)


 Amusement Parks

 Fishing (Expert)


 Travel (Expert)


 Breast Play (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Rear End Play

 Massage (Beginner)




 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay (Beginner)

 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)

 Vacuum Stimulation (Beginner)




 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs (Expert)

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 TV Sports (Expert)

 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)





 Classical Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Pop Music


 Seventies Music


 Bowling (Expert)

 Paintball (Expert)

 Soccer (Expert)


 Art Galleries (Beginner)




 Horseback Riding (Beginner)



 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Masks on Partner (Beginner)

 Massage (Giving)

 Public Play


 Arcade Games

 Board Games



 Drawing (Beginner)

 Painting (Beginner)

 Pottery (Beginner)

 Astronomy (Beginner)


 Nanotechnology (Beginner)

 Nutrition (Beginner)


 Physics (Beginner)


 1950s Lifestyle

 Gor (Beginner)

 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Heavy Metal Music



 Opera Music


 Show Tunes


 Baseball (Expert)






 Coffee Shops (Beginner)

 Fine Dining (Beginner)


 Hiking (Beginner)



 Ultimate Frisbee



 Domestic Service

 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service

 Sensation Play (Beginner)

 Clothing Selection (Beginner)

 Role Playing


 Card Games


 Horror Movies

 Puzzle Games

 Romance Novels (Beginner)

 True Crime

 TV News

 Sewing (Beginner)

 Mathematics (Beginner)

 Vampirism (Beginner)

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Latter-day Saints

 Auto Racing


 Body Building (Beginner)



 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)

 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving



 Wind Surfing



 Body Worship



 G-spot Stimulation

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Erotic Hypnosis (Beginner)

 Erotic touch (Beginner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical fetish play

 Munches (Beginner)

 Rubber Fetish


 Watersports (Beginner)

 Candle Making

 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 Liberal Politics (Beginner)

 Paranormal Phenomena (Beginner)

 Goth (Beginner)

 Keto (Beginner)

 Old Guard (Beginner)


 Folk Music

 Industrial Music


 Ice Hockey






 Gas Masks

 Modern Primitivism (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes

 Working Out





 Horse Racing

 Kick Boxing



 Street Hockey


 Bar Hopping (Beginner)

 Clubbing (Beginner)



 Skate Boarding

 Surf Boarding


 Genital Punishment

 Rituals (Beginner)

 Maid / Butler Service

 Female Sovereignty (Beginner)



 Hard Limits:


 Oral Service


 Libertarian Politics  (Beginner)



 Sky Diving

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Journal Entries:
2/21/2018 9:05:03 PM
Someone has tried to video chat with me a dozen or more times the past few days. I can not video chat, why don't you write something instead? It appears to be a glitch in their system, so what is new. The whole system seems to be messed up.

1/31/2018 1:08:11 AM
If you check us out, say something. I do not bite. At least not at first.

1/14/2018 10:28:44 AM
I am seriously wondering as to why I give a shit or even try to make a connection on here anymore. If it ain't scammers trying to rip me off. It is fakes, flakes or wanna bes. Now, I can add con artist to the list as well. I have had so many, that started off so well, only to stop communicating without any word or reason. I have always said, if your not interested, say so and I will wish you well. The only ones that can say that is not true are the scammers that I have belittled or exposed. And that count is, literally, quite high.

I had another encounter with a fake, flake or possible scammer last night. Someone claiming to be an initiate for a sorority AlphaPhi something, claimed that they wanted their initiate to spend a weekend, possibly more in complete and utter control of another individual. Namely, me. But since I have had to deal with these losers before, I told them that, first, they could not handle what I brought to the table. Second, that I was not looking for a one night stand or simple play sessions. That I was looking for long term, but they still wanted to talk. So, I decided to humor them and see where it led to. As expected, it went no where. Then this morning, they all of a sudden changed to a male slave. All I can think of, is that this was some sort of initiate prank and that they had no intention of following through on it. So, I was not hurt or harmed by their crap. But be warned, there are so many fakes, flakes, wanna bes and scammers still out there.

1/6/2018 3:10:02 PM
As I have stated before, getting frustrated with all the wanna bes, fakes, flakes and scammers on this site. Have made contact with many on here and then come across a few who seem to be very real. Unfortunately, they end up showing their true intentions and either stop communicating or disappearing altogether. Again, if I make contact or we start talking and your not interested or no longer interested. Please have manners and say so. I will not bitch you out, cause I know and understand, that what I seek is not for everyone. But do not start up a conversation, express interest and then up and stop talking. It is rude.

Also, again, not interested in male subs or slaves. Keep getting asked if we would consider such things and we are not interested. Period.

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