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About Me
I naturally desire to be submissive. I am college educated and I have a good career. I am intelligent and I like to be challenged. I am independent and level-headed for the most part and I know my strengths and my weaknesses.
I would very much like to be able to unleash submissive nature. The right person can give me a safe place to let all the decisions and control rest in someone else’s hands while still remaining independent outside of the relationship.
I am an introvert. In the Myers-Briggs personality scale I am an ISFJ. To get to know me it would be good to understand this personality type. This usually means that I often give the impression of being aloof and even cold at times. This isn't because I don't care, it's because I protect myself from others and I don't enjoy small talk. Giving up emotional energy to another person takes a lot out of me, especially in a large crowd.
I easily get frustrated when commitments are not kept and when I am not a priority. Unless I am asked, I keep most of my feelings to myself. I will blog about my feelings but I won't discuss them unless it's absolutely necessary. I need stability, but stability so much as want someone to change and experiment with me. I may at times want to experience one dynamic for a few weeks as a trial but it may or may not work out. I would like someone that is willing to test waters with me and not be afraid of changing with me.
Just to get it out there, I am a full-figured woman. I am self-confident in many ways, but not so much in other ways (I am a woman after all). I am difficult to handle, and as such only a strong-willed Alpha Dominant will be able to handle me.
What I Am Looking For
First and foremost I am not looking for just sex, a fuck buddy or a play partner. Instead, I am looking for someone that is interested in finding a long term relationship.
I am looking for someone that will encourage me and bring out the best in me. I would like to find a mentor, teacher, and Dominant that is loving, kind, empathetic and understanding. This person will be strong, powerful and confident, yet kind and understanding.
As I mentioned, I am looking for someone that is willing to grow a relationship. I want something that will last long term. However, I’m not looking for the marriage and kids aspect of a relationship since I am divorced. I do not have children, and at this time I have no desire for children of my own. I also do not do polyamorous relationships as I do not like to share.
This person will be a gentleman in public but turn into a caveman behind closed doors. giggles More importantly, this person will be patient with me and teach me because I will make mistakes (but sometimes that can be the fun part).
This man will be older, but not more than 10 years. He is Caucasian (no disrespect, it's just what I'm attracted too), in descent shape and a fairly educated professional. He needs to be dominant, but not domineering. He needs to be kind, but firm. He must enjoy random touching and LOVE to cuddle.
Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I'm yours forever. -- Anon
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Hi!
First, I do not post a picture of myself. It's not because I don't like the way I look, instead it is because I do not want my picture publicly posted. I have no problem privately sending a picture of myself.
Second, if you choose to message me please be local and also use as close to proper grammar as you can. Nothing is a bigger turn off then text-speak, missing capitalization, and run-on sentences.
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