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Cainhurst

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Hi again

So it's been some time, and I figure that it's time to remake this damn profile.

So I'm not as new as I was a few months ago. I have been to a bunch of events, and have met some really amazing people in the process. I have even been able to have some fun times while becoming a part of the community.

So what's new?

Picked up leather crafting for fun and maybe profit? Mostly fun right now, and have been able to make some wonderful toys.

Developed the habit of writing really terrible erotica to workout scene ideas/ expand my horizon. I'll share with the class upon request, but keep in mind there is a reason I wasn't an English major.

Defiantly have developed a better idea of how I view my own place in kink as well as what I'm looking for in a partner. That being said, I'm still learning and keeping my mind open. Currently view myself somewhere in the gray area between Dom/Master, with my partner filling the obvious gap. I say gray area because I refuse to be bound my someone else's definitions.

Things that have stayed the same:

I'm newish to the scene and I am looking to meet people to learn from and maybe make a friend or two. I'm looking for new events in the NYC/NJ area so if you have any recommendation I'd be grateful for them.

I am still a
*total nerd
*Strong and quiet type
*open, honest, and a damn good listener
*former teacher turned freelance designer
*relatively chill guy with a now "less" embarrassing bland Fetlife profile

Now time for less awkward kink talk
*Bondage
*earnest submission/ loving domination
*costumes
*various physical acts that will defiantly make a HBO editor blush.
*discussing the philosophical aspects of BDSM and how It serves as link between people.

Well I have had enough of talking about myself. If you have made it this far thank you, please drop me a line anytime.

See ya next time space coyboy...
KittyBrat
 
 Age: 35
  Florida