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| I'm a dominant female in a long term partnership with a dominant male. I'd like to find a sub on the side. If you're female and interested in serving us as a couple, see our "Unicorn Wanted" posting here: http://www.collarme.com/bdsm/m/1/default.htm This ad is primarily targeted at men.
I am particularly interested in humiliation, service, and the psychological aspects of BDSM. I have no taste for hardcore violence. I'm not opposed to punishments like spankings, paddling, and such, but anything past that is a big turnoff for me.
I don't enjoy punishing you. You should just do things properly the first time. I don't want to force you to do things, or blackmail you, or whatever. I'm awesome, and you should serve me because I'm better than you, not because you're scared of me.
While my partner is also dominant, and we're open, it is unlikely he would be much involved in our play. He's very straight. He tried asking Jesus to help us pray the straight away, but to no avail. :) It's important that you understand I'm not looking for a romantic partner, because those needs are already being met.
Wow! In the 24 hours since this went up, I have more than 100 responses! I'm trying to wade through them all, but if you'd like to message me, please obey the following rules:
1) Because of the volume of responses, I probably cannot reply if you do not live in CT or are older than 50 years old. If you think you're cool enough for me to overlook these rules, you should explain why clearly and articulately.
2) If you are younger than 21, please do not message me.
3) If you're married or otherwise partnered, do not message me without your partners consent. No exceptions.
4) I want to stress again that my primary partner is unlikely to be very involved. He's straight, and the idea of sex play that involves penises other than his kind of squicks him out. I'm as disappointed as you are, but sexual orientation isn't actually a choice.
5) DO NOT send me graphic pictures.
6) Please write in complete sentences. Also, I know some people like it, but I'm just not into honorific capitalization (i/You). I think it just makes things hard to read.
7) Don't be a racist. I wouldn't have thought I had to be explicit about that.
8) I'm a super genius, so it would be nice if you were also smart.
9) Include the word "luminous" in your response to let me know you read this far. If you don't, the only response you will receive is being told to follow directions.
OK, so to answer to some questions:
1) My profession requires me to have a public image which this site doesn't really jive with, so no pictures. I'm about 5'1", very heavy, very pale, with short red hair (that is currently neon pink) and blue eyes. I wear big hipster glasses.
2) While I don't really see why it's relevant, my partner is about 6'1", about 200lbs, black, and averagely fit.
3) I'm bisexual, but it's unlikely I'd ever play with you and a woman.
4) I'm not a prostitute, you don't need to pay me. That being said, I kind of liked the idea (proposed by several of you) of making you pay for me and my partner to go out on dates. But, it's about the humiliation and not the money, so if you don't want to, that's ok too.
5) I'd be open to a wholly online thing if you are a very good writer.
6) We are, in fact, both looking for subs, so a sub/sub male/female couple would be ideal. See our add referenced above for more details.
Finally, a confession: While I have experience in BDSM relationships, they always started as vanilla dating. I've never picked up someone online like this before. I'm not really sure of the "protocol". In particular, I'm having trouble figuring out when in the process I transition from treating you like a person whose opinions and desires I respect to a toy to use as I see fit. I'm trying to be both polite and dominant, but it's a hard mixture to convey in email with a stranger.
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In case anyone is wondering how to send a polite "no thanks" message, here is a lovely, respectful, and honest one I just received:
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Thank you for your message, I do always appreciate it when I hear from someone
without having to email them first! But I'll be honest, you sound a bit too big for me to
be physically attracted. I'm sorry. Good luck :)
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This guy is going to make some domme very happy.
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Right now, I'm very into the idea of a public beach slave, to rub lotion on me, sit at my feet and fan me, feed me frozen grapes, etc. Possibly, afterwards, if you're good, you can
wash the sand from my body.
I've been going to the beach along Shoreline Drive in Stratford, but I'm moving. Can anyone recommend a beach nearer New Haven? Preferably WITHOUT lifeguards; that way there's fewer kids (and I'm a strong swimmer). |
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I'm moving to New Haven on Sunday (July 29th). I'll be living in the City Point neighborhood.
I'd love recommendations on cool places to go, especially a good beach. Send me a message if you'd like to be my tour-guide! |
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Sorry if I've been ignoring people. I just got a big promotion at work, which is exciting, but it's keeping me very busy until the academic year is over. Soon the whole world will bow to my obvious superiority. Mwah-ha-ha! :)
Also, I now seem to have the flu, so I haven't been in the mood for fun. I was up super early this morning (after falling asleep feverish at 4:30pm) and watching Supernatural on Netflix. I'm really enjoying it. Also part of my flu-ish couch potato'ing: lusting after these boots: http://www.zappos.com/ros-hommerson-trudy-wide-black-softy-calf?zfcTest=fw:1 |
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| Age: 44 |
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