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I am on CM because what I seek isn't easily found nor is it easy to publicly advertise for being that I am a successful NYC professional who keeps this part of His very private. I am a successful, graduate schooled educated Dominant male who seeks a romantic yet openly passionate submissive woman.( that DOES NOT mean door-mat/humiliation/sexual sadist) Being that I have always been more comfortable in traditional relationships, I have always gravitated toward being the leader, whether it be leading, mentoring, or teaching. Accordingly, I desire the right woman who, in turn, gravitates toward pleasing, following, and submissive to ONE man.
While, as I said, you have always enjoyed traditional roles, I call myself a "Dominant" because I enjoy control, even to the extent of directing my submissive as I feel is necessary. While I am dominant, strict, and controlling, at yet very fair the same time, I am caring and loyal, so I seek a woman who I can create a sustained relationship with and grow to deeply care for as she learns to become grafted into me. I want a healthy relationship within the context of Master-sub where I can take care of the one who serves me. Given my profession, however, I also demand discretion and so whomever I am with, I would expect that O/our public interactions with friends and family, and the like, would reflect that. I am a Dominant who clearly understands the complexities of a vanilla world, and yet will not have anyone know this side of OUR persona as a couple.
I am looking for a woman who will be mine. The right woman for Me should be between the ages of 28 and 40/ mature minded, educated, about 5ft -- 5ft 8 in heels -- natural curves -- very ready to love and BE loved and simply ready to begin this friendship and willing yes to actually date immediately. I do not require that she has a great deal of experience as a submissive, but I do require that this is what she knows she wants and she is ready to do whatever it takes to pursue it in person. I have no intention of taking my time with an extended online back and forth for weeks. I want a submissive who needs to be molded into the perfect companion and truly finds comfort in the idea of being in a long term committed relationship able to please, serve, and love a Dominant man and become all He wants and requires in exchange for knowing that he will provide the security and safety she needs.
As for the particulars about Me, I am very educated (I hold post graduate degrees), a successful professional, well traveled, and have been a Dominant for about eight years. I am white, over 6 feet tall, have a strong build, brown hair, and light hazel eyes. Overall, I would say I am good and kind Man, have a good sense of humor when my guard is down, but, at the same time, I still very strict and controlling in my nature. . .I am very open-minded, but also do not want to do anything illegal or physiologically destructive. Ultimately, I enjoy having the freedom to extend my sensuality as I see fit. Overall, however, I think the mental aspect is the largest part of a D/s relationship. I want to be my submissive's Mentor, Teacher, Master, Lover and Keeper.
Again, I'd love to meet an attractive submissive. Someone who is naturally submissive and not someone who is simply kinky. Obviously sexual chemistry is important but that's not all there is to it. I have written quite a lot because I want to give whoever is reading this ad a fair impression of who I am. I want them to know exactly whom they are responding to and what is to be expected. In any case, if I have piqued your interest, reply. Until then.
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