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Pan Male Switch, 43,  Melbourne, Florida
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I am a mid 40s young man who is exploring new things and learning about himself. For years I have repressed desires and fetishes that, at mid life, have exploded to the surface. I have lived in Florida for 9 years. I am married, professional, laid back, horny, pervy, and love humor. For the short time I have been exploring, I have had the tremendous fortune of being instructed by experienced, knowledgeable friends. I have a high degree of certainty that i am a submissive to dominant females, and maybe to the right alpha male. I know that I enjoy rope bondage and sensual play. I can handle a certain degree of pain and impact, but I would not call myself a masochist. I can see myself being a service sub. Due to my primary relationship, commitments, and profession, I am unable to make a full commitment at this time. Being a play partner is the most I can handle. I hope to connect socially with folks on Collarspace (also on Fetlie) and make new empathetic and non judgmental friends.











Last Online:


 Male Switch



 6' 0"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

 Lives For:

 Massage (Getting)

 Science Fiction








 Scuba Diving


 Body Worship

 Breast Play


 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing






 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 Web Surfing




 Intellectual Discourse




 Female Supremacy


 New Age Music


 Pop Music


 Rock Music




 Amusement Parks


 Coffee Shops

 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires



 Horseback Riding


 Ultimate Frisbee



 Anal Play




 Canes and Crops





 Local BDSM Community

 Foot Worship


 Housework Service




 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows


 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Simulation Games






 Libertarian Politics






 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music


 Hip Hop Music


 Nineties Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Body Building

 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing







 Corner Time

 Hair Pulling

 Speech Restrictions



 TV News

 Conservative Politics

 Liberal Politics

 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Auto Racing


 Curious About:


 Flea Markets



 Electrical Play

 Domestic Service

 Fire Play

 Knife Play



 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play


 Rubber Fetish



 Wax play



 Antique Shows


 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera



 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap

 Sensory Deprivation

 Vacuum Stimulation

 True Crime



 Old Guard




 Romance Novels

 Hard Limits:


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